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Everybody searches for love. There are few left though, who can actually do it!
Narcissism has become so common, it’s almost considered a normal condition now! What’s going on? EVERYTHING HUMAN COMES FROM THE INSIDE! Is there anybody left who can sit back and allow anything to come from within other people? I hear a resounding yes, as we strap our children down, tell them what to do, and…
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There is only one way to become loved!
We all want to be loved. Most of us have been hurt so often and so badly that we hide our pain and pretend we don’t care! With enough therapy though, we rediscover how much we all still crave being cherished. The reality is, feeling loved is our most important need! Every one of us…
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Life needs to flow from its own power!
Us too! When we allow others, especially our very young, to drive their own development, then we get healthy and wise people! But, when we take over the lives of others, we get lost people. Why? Because they lose their power! When that happens they lose everything that comes from inside. They lose their feelings.…
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The astonishing comfort within a genuine human relationship!
Sadly, we’ve grown up believing in values that make good relationships impossible. Few, if any of us know how amazingly good relationships can get, and how safe and enjoyable we feel, every moment of every day. That way of life now lies well outside of most people’s experience. Our relationships are more like standoffs! We…
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Why are people so angry now?
We have done this to ourselves! Every life gets its own power. It’s to live from. We need it! We are still supposed to be feeling powerful! That’s who we are! We are supposed to live from the power and energy within us, using our instincts, feelings, and needs to focus our efforts. But, we’re…
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Losing love is the worst hurt that people face!
The way we see life is wrong! Our viewpoint does not match how life really works! We’ve been taught to see life from the top down. But, real life always happens from the bottom up! Life is powered from within! Our existence only feels real to us when we live from our power and instincts.…
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We have forgotten the most wonderful joy of real relationships!
That joy doesn’t exist these days! Where did it go? We don’t live from our own feelings anymore! LIFE UNDER ORDERS Everything good in people comes from deep inside! As with all life, we are supposed to live from our own power, through our instincts, needs, and feelings! What happens when we’re not allowed to…
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Should other people make us feel threatened or happy?
FEELING POWERLESS What is hate? What is defiance? These things happen when we feel so helpless that other people feel like threats to us instead of friends. WHY WOULD WE FEEL POWERLESS? Life is powered from within. It’s fed by energy. Instincts, needs, and feelings focus that drive. We need to keep that power if…
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Good people or bad, what sets up the difference?
Human life is naturally loving and responsible. But, some people cause endless conflict. Why? Who are these people? These are always people who don’t trust anybody else. They live alone in their own heads, and that’s a frightening life! The people who make our world hostile and dangerous are always people who don’t trust other…
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Life is self-driven by its own energy!
We can feel good and feel our own power again. The way to do that is, of course, always the same. Being our natural selves. Life is self-driven by its own energy! We even create our own shapes. Life knows what it’s doing. Each of us should have been allowed and encouraged to grow and…
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How to treat a human for the best results!
Humans are absolutely unreachable unless living from our own power and instincts. All life is trying to live from its own power, including us. When we can do that, we’re lovely. When we can’t, we’re cruel. That’s all that’s wrong with the world. Now for some sarcasm. People are hostile and argumentative. They won’t follow…
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Which choice is better? This “bankers world”, or the natural human one?
These two worlds exist side by side. We choose the one we are going to live in. We do that when deciding how to care for our infants and young! LET ME EXPLAIN The world we are familiar with is a cold one. There are hard rules and consequences. There is little compassion. I like…
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If only we could all see how amazing and wonderful life can so easily be!
We would never choose this loneliness. Or this conflict! Or this violence! People are kind and loving by nature! We just need to allow them to remain this way! The energy of life comes from within. All life is driven from within! It’s designed to do that. It knows what it’s doing! It needs its…
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🌱Feelings, the instinctive expression of life!🌱
Music is one of our most direct ways to show our feelings. But, only when it comes from our hearts. It has to be our own music! The only life that feels right and has honor comes from the heart. Our behavior is also expression of our feelings, although less direct. NATURAL HEALTHY HUMAN LIFE…
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💑 Our relationships now, have a man-made limit.💑
Most of us can’t have a proper relationship anymore. Sadly, we can’t feel how much we need them. We aren’t acutely aware of how much others really mean to our lives. What caused this loss? We aren’t living from our inner power. Or our instincts! Or our needs! Or our feelings! If we were, we…
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💕Where did all the love go?💕
What is life anyway? How does it know what to do? It rearranges matter, creating its own shape, which it will sustain until death. Then it takes action! That drive comes from some mysterious force, arising from within! We can establish a few things about it though. We know about instincts. We are aware of…
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🤐Survival, in our toxic environment!🤐
Yes, we live in a toxic environment! A healthy environment is support and encouragement in growing from our own power, instincts, feelings, and needs! That’s called nurture. When we live from our hearts like this is when we’re the most responsible, compassionate, and just plain fun. This is what is increasingly missing from life today,…
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👮🏽♀️👮🏽♂️The staggering cost, to ourselves, of getting our own way!👮🏽♂️👮🏽♀️
I expect every one of us wants to be carried into a warm cloud of comfort, satisfaction, and happiness. What can put us there? Our goals will not! Just about all of us are very much wrong about what can do that! Not understanding life, we pursue inappropriate goals, making ourselves and others anxious and…
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🌟We make our own love and happiness impossible!🌟
We’re doing life wrong! We cause our own problems! Because we don’t understand. All our kindness and wisdom come from deep inside us! We don’t allow that though. We have banned that compassion and wisdom! All life is naturally powered from within! Our identities are supposed to use our instincts, needs, and feelings for guidance.…
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🌱Everything good in people comes from within them!🌱
That good within us no longer matters. It doesn’t get felt or expressed anymore! We don’t use our feelings to manage life now, or even feel them. Nor our instincts or needs. The condition of our world reflects that! What’s the trick to a kind and gentle life? Let it come from the inside! All…
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Our freedom lives or dies, way back in infancy!
Before we can believe in freedom, we have to be convinced it can work! Only those who have lived it can understand. It’s not only natural, but it’s also the only healthy way! We have to live it though before we can recognize that! CAN FREEDOM WORK? Life is driven from within. All life is!…
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🐣How to be powerful again!🐣
Life comes from within! We live from our natural inner strength, our instincts, our feelings, and our needs! Everything good comes from the inside. Life powers itself. When we stop allowing life to power itself, we lose all the good things. That’s what we’ve done! It’s why our world is so troubled now! We lack…
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🌋Amazing relationships, the love that can be!🌋
If we grew up in the way we’re meant to, then our lives were driven from within. Through our power, instincts, needs, and feelings! We will be naturally loving and responsible, the way life is when it’s powered from the strength and wisdom inside! NONE OF US GREW UP THIS WAY! Not in these times.…
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💕All people love!💕
But, we only feel that when we’re healthy. SADLY, WE’RE NOT HEALTHY! We hurt! We’re used to it. We have forgotten how good we once felt, and unaware of what’s normal. As with all life, we’re supposed to feel strong and invincable! The majority of us act just like hurting people do! We feel anxious.…
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🌼The good in people only comes from inside them!🌼
Our world is losing its goodness. Only one place provides that loving human quality! It come from deeply within us. It’s the combined expression of our needs, instincts, and feelings. Why would we lose these? Because we don’t encourage, or even allow expression of these things any more! Our world is reflecting this loss. We…
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💕What is preventing good relationships now?💕
We cannot create responsibility, or friendships by overpowering everybody’s instincts. We now suffer from lack of trust! We keep more secrets. It’s no longer safe to share our real feelings. We live isolated from each other. That’s easy to see, and easy to say, but what has happened to our ability to trust? DO WE…
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🌱How to fix self-esteem for good!🌱
What sets our self-esteem? How much of ourselves are we embarrassed to show? How much do we hide? This is our self-esteem! If we hide a lot of our true nature, our honest feelings and thoughts, then we feel differently, and we call this low self-esteem. If we feel good about everything that we are,…
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🌟How to get confidence back!🌟
I expect most of us to be surprised at the one thing that prevents us from enjoying the confidence we once had, and want back. It comes down to how much of our secret inner life we are willing to reveal to the world. The more we keep secret, the less confidence we wind up…
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💞To be kind, life must be self-driven!
Everything good in humanity is self-driven! We are designed to be powered from within! All life is! That’s where all the good comes from! That’s where our power comes from. Our sense of purpose. Our need for others, and consequently our empathy and kindness! BUT, WE TAKE OVER THE LIVES OF OUR YOUNG! We make…
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Everything good comes from within, but now we don’t let it!
We all begin life living from our inner resources and values! These cause us to feel powerful. They make us compassionate and honorable! We are supposed to get support and encouragement in developing from the power of these inner resources. BUT, WE DON’T. NOT ANYMORE! We become directed! Our inate resources get no support. We…
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💗Strength comes from deep within, but demands make us helpless!💗
All life is designed to flourish through its own efforts! It should be no surprise then, that every life requires full and uncensored expression to remain strong and to be fully alive! That includes our children! They need to use and keep full expression of what comes from within, just the same as we do!…
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🌼The unsuccessful people of our world didn’t fail!🌼
We face unequal challenges. It’s not about money. It’s about permission to live from our own identity! Some of us get more allowance than others to live through our own inner resources. For those allowed and encouraged to live from within, life is infinitely easier. Feeling inwardly powerful, with the help of instincts, and being…
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💎We all started life with full confidence!💎
The very best of our precious human qualities come from deep within each of us. Everything good in humanity always comes from within. It’s the source of love! Compassion! Respect! Awareness of our needs! Awareness of our responsibilities! Our purpose! If we still had all these things, we would be helping each other, and holding…
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🖤We have every right to be angry!🖤
When we get angry, it’s because we’re hurting! We don’t have to apologize for being angry. We needn’t ever feel bad for having wrong feelings. Our feelings are the bottom line. They’re the most honest and accurate things in our lives. They are the one thing we can count on. They are always pure! They…
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Everything we want lies within us, but is unavailable!
We should feel fully alive, and powerful! No chronic fear. No wish to hide anything. No fear of people. Ready for anything, and interested in everything. Absolute trust. Not afraid to fight at any time. Ready for adventure. 💖Love without limits.💖 If we could feel that way again, even for just a second, we would…
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Life is feelings, passion, love, and being alive!
We can’t think our way into feeling alive! Life comes from inside. We start out fully alive. Full of joy, love, and instinctive responsibility. We felt powerful, with connections to our needs, feelings, and instincts. Support from others is the greatest human need. We could feel that back then! Consequently, we behaved well. But, only…
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🌱All the good stuff, disappearing now, came from deep within people!🌱
Life is a force. It causes materials to arrange themselves to become it’s own physical shape. It keeps that order until death. That energy comes from deep within! Everything sustainable and honorable comes from the inside! Support that self-drive as all of nature does, and we get kind and supportive people. Override that inner drive,…
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👩🏽⚕️How to get better👨🏽⚕️
Most, if not all of us, are angry. We are usually ashamed of it. Compared to how life should feel, we are anxious, struggling, and demoralized. Many of us have been angry for so long, that we have forgotten we still are. We know we feel anxious. We know we live without joy, and that…
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❓What’s most important to us❓
Those of us who spend enough time in therapy, bit by bit, sort out our real wishes. We want to be loved. Appreciated, supported, listened to, and valued, but it has to be for the way we really are. That’s us at our very best anyway! We all have a lot to give. The most…
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💫The wonder of the world and the magic of all creation waits for every one of us!💫
IT’S THE GIFT OF LIFE! All we have to do is take it! I have a vision! It’s probably more than a vision though. It’s more likely a glimpse of reality. A moment of clarity. A micro-snapshot of the real picture! We have been granted lives of infinite joy and discovery! But, instead, we’ve turned…
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🤍Living from instincts is the root of everything good!🤍
Love and kindness come from within! Everything good in life comes from deep inside! How then, could these qualities be missing in some people? A growing number of us don’t get to live life from the lovely human qualities that come from deep within us! EVERY ONE OF US IS PRESENTED WITH A CHOICE! It…
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💎How to Fix the World!💎
Few, if any of us, get to live from our own power, drive, needs, feelings, or instincts! All by itself, that can, and does, cause world-wide hostility! Why Would That Happen? We can’t feel our own need to live from our feelings. Therefore, we don’t recognize the rights of others to do the same. We…
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💖Everything important to health, and good for people, comes from inside!💖
If we aren’t living from the energy within us, then we feel like something is very wrong! That’s because something is very wrong! Our strength comes from within. It’s natural. It’s how all life lives and feels. We need to be feeling strong and important before we can be good and loving people. Our compassion,…
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💞What method causes people to become responsible and loving?💞
The energy of life all comes from within! Everything good comes from the inside! Kindness, compassion, love, responsibility, and play, all come from within! All we have to do is allow natural human love and compassion to flow from within our children! Humans are, by nature, the most loving creatures on earth. What happens when…
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💖The good that lies within people!💖
People are the most loving creatures on earth. We can’t do enough for each other, even at our own peril! That’s who we are! Every one of us! But, that’s not what we are seeing now, is it? Why? It’s our needs and instincts that cause us to be loving and responsible! How many of…
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❗The joy of life, as it’s meant to be❗
Everything human and joyful about us comes from the inside! NEEDS Our needs make us kind and loving! That’s because our greatest need is the support and love of other people! Some of us can feel that, which makes us supportive, kind, and responsible with others! That, all by itself, brings us joy, because that’s…
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🌼Our world is full of beauty, but we choose pain!
Everything loyal and trusting in people comes from deep within them. Why then, do we discourage everything coming from within our young? Should we be overpowering their exciting and creative qualities by demanding compliance? By taking over, we have outlawed trust, loyalty, enthusiasm, inner strength, morals, joy, imagination, play, friendship, and the wish to please…
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💥Recovery of our powerful life!💥
Losing our natural strength and trust is not our fault. We all start out just fine. All life is powered from within. Our needs and instincts power our behavior. Our feelings along with our instincts cause us to be kind, loyal, loving, and playful. This is what we look like while living from our energy…
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💘What’s missing from our lives now?💘
Everything most valuable in humans comes from deep within us! We begin life playful, loving, sustainable, and responsible! This all comes from the inside! Our inner world is our source of joy. Our power and drive! Sadly though, these qualities are no longer valued in these times. Our feelings aren’t important! Our needs, as we…
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💞WHY ARE PEOPLE SO HOSTILE NOW?💞
What is it that makes us normal? What makes us loving and sympathetic? What makes us strong, happy, and content? It’s the world’s approval that does that! If we can feel that, we are loving and responsible! This is people’s natural condition! But, we are all self-driven through our own power, our needs, our feelings,…
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🏁What are people really supposed to be like?🏁
We started out fully alive! We felt powerful! Back then we feared nothing, with the one exception of instinctive danger. We lived full-out from our hearts and from our needs. Our trust was absolute. We had a craving to understand everything! Our eagerness to try things knew no limits. Our goal in life was play.…
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🕯Why are some people confident, while others are insecure?🕯
It’s all about being lucky. We need the approval and support of others so much, we self-destruct without it. The energy of life comes from within. If we got respected and encouraged for everything that we really are, as all other life does, then we are a strong and loving person. This is true for…
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💡How To Be More Confident💡
We all begin life strong. In this unhealthy environment though, just about all of us have lost most of that power. Full support and encouragement is normal for new life. People though, have to get by on our own, without getting that approval. Can we become strong and confident again? Yes we can, and it’s…
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How do we destroy someone else’s self-esteem?
That is the greatest, most wonderful question ever! We do it by causing them to doubt their own feelings, and then eventually their entire inner lives. We cause them to be hurt, then angry, and then to be ashamed of those feelings. We cause them to have to hide their real nature along with those…
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❓How can we get strong again❓
Contrary to our normal beliefs, how comfortable we feel expressing everything that we can is what determines how brave we will feel. What limits our expression? We do! Every time we control the actions of another person, we limit it more. Controlling others puts us in fear! Backing off brings us back out. For every…
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🖤Evil is winning, and it’s our fault!🖤
We raise our kids to succeed! That’s not what they want, or will ever want! They want to feel strong! We need to be raising our young to be strong! That’s what they want! That’s what all life wants! Given a choice, they will choose strength every time! It’s their life, not ours! We are…
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🧡People are wonderful if we just let them be!🧡
The energy of life comes from within! That’s how all life works! Whenever we allow that in people, we get warm and loving creatures! On the other hand, when we interfere, choosing to direct others, especially our children, we end up with confused and self-centered people. Why? Because overpowering their inner systems damages the connections…
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💖For proper self-esteem, our energy must be coming from our identity!💖
Life comes from within. To be healthy, that has to happen. We all began our lives with no limits to our behavior. Without limits we feel naturally powerful. It’s the limitations imposed on us, and the bad feelings we get when we feel helpless because we can’t fully express ourselves, that cause low self-esteem. Can…
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🌟Can we get people to be nice again?🌟
Sure we can! Nice comes from inside! Everything good comes from inside! First, we stop telling others what to be! Then we seek out an environment where we get the same support! Then, everybody gets kindness back! We may need convincing that this can work. Most, if not all of us believe that other life…
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🤢What happens when we make people feel bad enough?🤢
We get drug problems! We get people so angry they no longer care about right or wrong! We get hostile people! We get people who will find drugs to escape the painful lives that they are left with! Blaming drugs is just sloppy thinking! Our job is to stop causing misery! WHY DO PEOPLE FEEL…
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💥How to live full-out again, without holding back!💥
Modern life has taken away our freedom of full expression! This has been done through assumptions that we all believe to be true but in real practice work against the fullness of our own lives. These assumptions are beneficial only to those who want to be in control. Why would anybody waste their own lives…
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❌This rule of life is absolute!❌
All life is driven from within! Life always has to come from inside, where it can be naturally guided by instincts, feelings (our real and natural language), and our needs, which, if we can feel them, are all about acceptance, companionship, and responsibility. Instincts carry the wisdom of all ages through all times. Any guidance…
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🌼People are kind if allowed to be their true selves!🌼
In that condition, we don’t argue! We don’t want to! We can feel our needs. We can feel our feelings. This is our natural language! We can feel what we want! We all want to be cared for, appreciated, and loved! We couldn’t care less where the borders are. We aren’t interested in who’s the…
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🤷🏽♂️Life is going to continue getting more and more bizarre!🤷🏽♂️
Why? Because right now, we are causing these changes! We are causing damage to other life, and we are now living with the resultant damage! All life comes from inside! We are all fellow travellers in life! We cannot be dictating our wishes onto other living things! All life is trying to survive through it’s…
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💖All the magic in people comes from deep within!💖
Feelings are our natural language! Life is driven from the inside! This is true for all life. Mess with that natural condition, and we quickly find ourselves knee-deep in trouble. Sadly, we have arrived here! Us people begin life with a firm identity. Our awareness of our own needs makes us lovely! We all need…
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❌We, ourselves, created the defiance that now isolates us!❌
The only way we can end this is by nurturing our young again! All life is driven from within! It finds its own path. That’s what life wants above all else! What do you suppose was going to happen when we refused our young the right to find their own way? Well, it has happened!…
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🚧Emotional comfort, ways to feel good, and how to live from our hearts!🚧
WHO ARE WE? We are each unique! Our real language is feelings. Words cannot express what our feelings can! Our lives come from within! All life does! Everything that we are, that we do, or that we need, all comes from inside! We are already complete and finished as created. Life is independent! It finds…
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🌱Is it possible to live from our own hearts?🌱
The energy of life comes from within! Let it. The result is lovely, compassionate people, well connected with their instincts and feelings! When self-drive isn’t allowed though, we try until exhausted, and then we crash! When any of us can’t control our own path, we fight back, give up, and that’s when we lose connection…
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💘Anger and hate is our one big mistake!💘
Why do people hate? We don’t see this in nature! Could we be causing it? There is only one thing that could cause this much hurt and anger! ACTUAL DAMAGE Physical damage! Even unintentional damage can cause anger. Enough anger can cause hate! None of us purposely cause damage! Unfortunately, though, we do! We do…
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🗨The astonishing importance of our own inner world!🗨
We started out feeling strong, focused, and unafraid! Back then, our language was feelings, needs, and instincts. Our expression came from inside! This was meant to be our life-long condition! Living from the inside is how life works! Self-esteem is our inner power and driving force! Recognizing that makes reconnecting with our needs and instincts…
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🗽Free will is the cause of peace!🗽
How did we develop technology? We learned by discovering the cause of things, one at a time! We didn’t learn from history. How then, do we learn what causes love? What causes hate and fighting? Just like technology, we put aside our prejudices and focus on what is consistently true! Let’s do that! Let’s begin…
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🔺Life has to be driven from within!🔺
People increasingly fight about everything, believe bizarre things, and are unhappy! What causes this? We do! How? We treat people like machines instead of competent, moral, self-driven, loving, and honorable creatures! Every life has an identity! Also instincts, and awareness of its own needs! As we ignore and override these things, each life feels more…
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💕The Road Back to Love!💕
PEOPLE ARE SELF-DRIVEN! ALL LIFE IS! Left alone to find their own way, people are the most loving creatures on the planet. Control them though, and the fighting begins! We can easily live in peace and harmony! We see it sometimes. How? Allow others to live from the direction of their own instincts! People are…
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💔Where did the love go?💔
With only good intentions, we killed it! We did it with our childcare! The power of life comes from within! When we allow inner power in others, love flourishes. Unfortunately, we don’t allow it! Consequently, our children grow up feeling powerless and helpless! They eventually build a sick world! This isn’t a theory! It’s clearly…
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🎵 Can we teach the world to sing?🎵
Can we bring peace throughout the world? Yes! We only need to stop damaging what’s perfect! Life is powered from within! Why do we fight against that? That’s a critical need! It’s vital for life! If we support and encourage that, we get strong cooperative people! We get world peace! That’s all we have to…
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🌼We Really Can Have Life As It’s Supposed To Be!🌼
How? Stop causing conflict! There is nothing natural about conflict. Nor its consequences! How do we cause conflict? We interfere with the natural flow of life. Life that doesn’t want our interference! We direct it! We push it down a path of our choosing. But, life always comes from within! It’s designed to find its…
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💖Love is the opposite of conflict!💖
Is conflict ever necessary? Absolutely not! People who hurt have invented it! If we don’t trigger it, it doesn’t happen! Life comes from within! It’s self-managing! It can turn up, live, and then die, all without our interference! There may be struggle, yes. But there will not be bad feelings, despair, depression, discouragement, or hate.…
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We need a proper environment to have high self-esteem!
Life comes from within! Nature gives us all the power we will ever need to flourish! Do we want to keep that power, and stay strong? Then we need parents who support us in our own driving force! Surprisingly to many, this makes us cooperative, not spoiled! Life comes from inside. All it wants is…
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💔Can we recover from being the victim of a narcissist?💔
Yes, of course, it’s possible. When this happens to us, the thing that has changed is our own expectations! It’s a trust thing! We have altered our perception. We have come to expect different treatment from others. We don’t trust them anymore. To find our way back to how we used to be, it will…
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Our reality now is more like a nightmare!
Life, for people, is meant to be a loving and caring existence! We’re supposed to feel cherished. We’re supposed to feel naturally strong. Do we feel strong and loved? Do we feel powerful? Do we feel helpless? Want more self-esteem? What “locks-in” the way we feel? The way we perceive others does that! Change our…
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💞Spare the rod, and get trusting, loving, helpful children!💞
Life comes from within! Block that from happening, and we have invented defiance! Apply discipline to get cooperation back, and we have invented hate, then war! Our world is not a loving place! There is no real reason for that. We have done it to ourselves. Who knows where it started? At some point, we…
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😋How can we feel more powerful and confident?😋
We all feel powerful as we begin life! We lose that power though, if prevented from living our own identities! This is what’s happening! The result is poor self-esteem with feelings of helplessness! We also lose our instinctive cooperation and morality. We cannot live somebody else’s dream and still remain healthy. Mankind seems to have…
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🌋Want to feel confident and strong? Our own power is the only way!🌋
Every life is driven by its own power! Every one of us started our lives feeling full of amazing inner strength! That’s what made it easy to learn to walk and talk. But, children don’t get to keep their power anymore! THE TRAGIC DIFFERENCE! Feeling powerful, we are the kindest, most loving creatures on the…
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💕Only our identities and instincts can make our lives right.💕
With enough of us living through our inner lives, our culture can become kind once again! Doing whatever feels easiest is what has brought us to where we are now. If we continue to do that, our lives will continue to get lonelier and more violent! WISDOM AND MORALS We each carry our own rulebook…
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💘How we view others, is broken now!💔
When we can see other people’s needs, and allow them their own power, we change! That’s right, it changes us! We have taken a giant step into our own instincts and identities! After we do that, we treat others differently. We also start to feel good again! Of course others feel that difference. They appreciate…
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🖤Trump is one symptom of a much larger problem!🖤
People are angry and defiant! That’s why Trump has a following! Same with Hamas! Many of us don’t care anymore if our actions make sense! People are mad, getting madder, and they’re just not going to take it anymore! WHY? How did we generate so many unhappy and defiant people? Most people are not going…
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🤍It’s overcontrol of the children that causes the world’s conflict!🤍
The energy of all life comes from within, and we have to let it do that! When we don’t, it loses its power! I doubt that many of us realize that the conflict throughout our world has one cause, is completely unnecessary, and can be easily fixed! When we overwhelm the identity and natural instincts…
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How to overcome life without self-esteem or confidence!
What can people do without self-esteem or confidence? I expect we all know how debilitating it is to feel that way. It immediately puts us at the bottom of the social ladder. What’s worse is we usually don’t know what’s wrong, or why we are different! It’s a temporary condition though! Things don’t have to…
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💝People need their inner strength to be able to love!💝
People are born feeling powerful. All life is! Children need the inner strength they were born with! The more powerful we feel, the kinder we are! It’s critical for our lifelong health! Our young don’t get to keep their power! Consequently, we still feel helpless as adults! That’s all that’s wrong! That alone has caused…
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🚷——–THE BOTTOM LINE!——–🚷
What is the root cause of war? To fix any social problem, we must first find our way to the basic cause! When we don’t, there is usually a good reason why we can’t! The most common reason of all? We don’t wish to change! Therefore, we don’t look there! And, so it is with…
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🎗Do other people have needs?🎗
A timely question, wouldn’t you say? Life today completely ignores this issue! Very few of us are capable of real relationships anymore! Sure we think we’re great at it! We do everything the books tell us to do! We give others everything we think they should get! Unfortunately, it doesn’t work that way, and it…
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💕Our behavior makes sure we can’t get what we need!💕
What do we need? Life comes from inside! We need to be ourselves, expressing our own inner world! We need to be respected and encouraged without censorship! We need to have a function within the group that we live with! Give us that, and we will never wish for more! Wisdom! These ambitions are not…
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🌼The astonishing power of new life!🌼
The energy for life comes from within! Support that, as nature does, and life flourishes. People too! Ignore that self-drive, obstruct its flow, and watch the trouble that begins! This is, by far, the single most important issue that humans need to be aware of! It sets both our civilization and our remaining strength in…
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☣What rights can we insist on, and still keep love?☣
Our world teaches us to control situations. This lack of wisdom seems to filter down from our experts, school teachers, the government, the media, and the kids who teach each other! It allows us to feel in control. We all feel a strong need for control now. It’s not our fault! We shouldn’t be feeling…
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We, humans, need our own power, otherwise, we destroy!
All life is powered from within! Humans too! It’s not an option! It’s an imperative! When that’s forbidden to us, the number of ways we cause destruction is equal to the number of problems the world faces! It’s not being allowed to live through our own power, all by itself, keeping the entire world in…
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What determines our ability to “live out loud”?
Surprisingly, it’s our own respect, or lack of it for other people! Change how we view others, and our whole life changes with it! Any hate we have causes damage. What damage? It suppresses our own ability to express ourselves. It’s the hater that gets shut down. Haters live in fear! If we go around…
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Ever more, we relentlessly become more incapable of relationships!
Few appreciate that there is a root cause! Life comes from within! We aren’t letting that happen! This will not end well! Things are already pretty bad! There are consequences for ignoring the self drive of our infants. We are living these consequences. It can get far worse. The process of decaying relationships begins with…
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🌱When infants aren’t allowed to be self-driven, the world hurts!🌱
This is critical! It’s the pivot point of human life! If we allow our infants to keep their own inner lives and power, the way nature intended, the world doesn’t descend into the mess it has! Deprive any infant of their own power and inner life, and that’s the way to make bad guys! Otherwise,…
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💎Like it or not, we are helpless. The more we accept that, the better life gets.💎
Sickness and death show us how helpless we really are. Life is unfair! It’s getting worse! Ironically, it’s what we do to avoid being helpless, that sets up our lifetime of hurts and struggles. Our struggle to control What should we do when we don’t want to feel helpless anymore? We are always going to…
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💖Currently, we’re victims of the way we see others!💖
Life comes from inside! That’s how life works. As long as this is accepted and allowed, everybody is just fine! But, that’s just not allowed anymore! All our problems begin when our lives aren’t allowed to come from within! This has happened to most, if not all of us! Nowadays, we get told how to…
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💎Our upbringing sets the value of how important we each feel!💎
It also determines how much self-doubt, anxiety, and internal stress we will live with, for all of our lives! It shouldn’t, but it does right now, and that’s what this blog is all about! The repercussions are staggering! All together, this situation sets the values of our civilization! This is the cause of war! It’s…
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💔Hate poisons our hearts.💔Few ever find their way back!💔
Hate is gradually becoming an epidemic in most places! People are less respectful of each other. There is more concealed hostility. It has only one cause! Conflict and hate only happen when someone decides that another should not have equal power! In this world, it begins with the children. Apparently, we have decided they shouldn’t…
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💫What makes us strong and compassionate? The strength of our inner world does!💫
There isn’t anybody who could be maliciously and deliberately cruel, while still well connected with their own inner world! Atrocities only become possible after people have disconnected from their inner lives. Awareness of our own needs prevents it! For all of us, everything good about life comes from deep within! Are we interesting or boring?…
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🔔Is it still possible to be strong and free?🔔
Yes it is! We just need to be lucky! We need to be born into an environment where others support and encourage us to face life, but only through our own resources! That’s all it takes! That’s the whole difference! That’s the only difference between severely troubled people full of anxiety, and others with plenty…
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🙄Control of others crushes love, cooperation, and health!🙄
Nature has a natural balance. The power of every life comes from within! Throughout nature, all life is supported and encouraged to live through their own resources! Unfortunately, people try to do it differently! We want to believe we can improve people by guiding them! What do we teach? We teach how to think and…
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We have made ourselves helpless!😢
Every life already has the inner drive and instincts to find its own way! Living is normally exciting, and we should be feeling powerful, enjoying companionship, and behaving well. That’s what people are really like! None of us though, are enjoying much in life during these times. Compared to how we felt in our earliest…
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🌼Undamaged People are the Most Loving Creatures on the Planet!🌼
We can get the real thing, but only when we allow humans to live from their own identities! All life is driven from the power and the direction of its own inner world. If us humans are to keep a lifelong connection to our inner worlds, we absolutely need to be allowed to live from…
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👮🏽♂️Peace and cooperation are never the results of punishment!👮🏽♂️
Think it over! Punishment is like saying I’m going to hurt you until you become nice! Seriously, it would take a miracle for punishment to cause happiness, love, and cooperation! It’s something else entirely that causes cooperation and love! What’s the real answer then? How do we create peace and cooperation? This will be a…
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💖How to keep love!💖
We all crave trust and love with every cell of our bodies! Living without acceptance as our real selves is agony for humans! Unfortunately, most of us live at odds with those around us now. It’s our own behavior causing most of it. As infants, living from our inner world, we can feel our need…
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✨It’s with full self-esteem, that we get born into our inner world!💎
We lose that self-esteem though, if we disconnect from our inner lives. Unfortunately, that’s just what we do! There aren’t many of us, if any, still firmly connected to our inner world! Losing that inner-life connection takes the quality of our lives from Disneyland to dungeon! As this tendency of losing contact with our inner…
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💫Why do some people have high self- esteem?💫
We all have high self-esteem to start out with! We also live directly from our inner world. Some of us, more than others, get forced to be what others tell us to be. Life is always meant to come from within though! Once we accept obedience, we will never again live from within, or have…
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😪We get a little more isolated, with each new day!😪
Without our inner world, we have no soul! We are just intelligent robots!
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💕How to stop making life worse!💕
All life comes from inside! The more we allow that to happen, especially with our infants, the more natural life we get back! Bad behavior We try to fix the abuse of the innocent by punishing the oppressors. This should make a better world. But, it never does! We never catch up! There is a…
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😥An entire planet full of trashed people!😥
An emotionally undamaged and healthy person is fun, cooperative, responsible, loving, compassionate, and astonishingly competent! Seen any of those lately? Not likely! They’re rare if any still exist at all! Instead, we hurt, live in anxiety, and live defensively, all of us trying to prove we’re OK! Many of us are so damaged we attack…
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👮🏽♂️Drug problems can be fixed with one simple move!👮🏽♂️
It’s not hard to eliminate people’s need for drugs. We can do that! After all, we created that need! How did we create it? All life comes from inside! We don’t let it! That makes us hurt! Drugs ease hurt! Well, we’re not supposed to hurt! Not all the time, like we do! How did…
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💘Life can be real, like we used to be! 💘
Dare we hope we can get our real lives back? Well, we may as well try! There is nothing else in this entire world that can provide us with more pleasure than that! Our real lives await our return! We’ve lost something really important! Something big. So big, it feels like we’re not really alive…
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🌼Accept that life comes from within! Then enjoy love!🌼
Life comes from inside! Everything good comes from within! People are naturally loving, cooperative, and responsible. That’s who people really are! If we live from the energy of our own inner world, that’s what we are! Every one of us! In a pristine world, where hurt isn’t dominating everybody’s lives, we are all on the…
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💧A better life, the way it should be!💧
People aren’t really hostile, angry, and insecure! They are actually gentle, loving, and very much aware of their responsibilities! We are all born this way! That’s who people really are! But, as parents, we don’t allow our kids to stay that way! Instead of kind and gentle, helping, and loving children, most of us cause…
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💖How to fix people!💖
Preferably, we stop our habit of breaking them in the first place! Let’s look at that first. Life comes from inside! All we have to do is let it! It seems to be a universal belief now that our job is to guide our young! Our convictions have ignored the most wonderful cultures that have…
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🗽Freedom is the natural and normal condition of life.🗽
People struggle with this! Some of us believe human life needs to be controlled. Others are happiest being free and they believe in the freedom of others. What sets up this ambivalence? Infancy! Our life as infants sets up our beliefs regarding freedom! People have an inner life! This is a very active world! Our…
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🤸🏽♂️Life comes from within! Allowed to be themselves, people are awesome!🤸🏽♀️
But, we don’t allow people to be themselves! We don’t even know how to anymore! Why does this matter? The more we insist people be as we choose, the more we all suffer from anger, hostility, hate, and violence! The increased isolation and meanness in our world these days is easily visible. We imagine different…
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🎭Life lives its unique identity, or loses connection with it!🎭
We seem to have an epidemic of people choosing alternate ways to identify! I expect it’s no surprise that we all struggle to make peace with our identities these days! It almost seems like we are unsure about who we really are, does it not? What could be the reason for that? IDENTITIES Nature encourages…
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🌱🔨Humanity is losing its trust. Ironically, our rules destroy it!🌱🪓
If this is true, it means we cause our own misery! Does that surprise anybody? Humans are designed to survive and take care of each other! In our natural condition, we are trusting, loving, cooperative, empathetic, and playful. That doesn’t sound much like us, does it? That’s because not many, if any, of us are…
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🌼Every infant is the seed of a unique person!🌼
It should be no surprise that when people are conceived, their identity is rigidly locked, just the way it is. Who we each are, is set in stone. We see that with all life. We cannot make a tulip from the seed of an oak tree! Personality and behavior both change, of course, as life…
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❓Who has the best solution?❓
Who should we be listening to? I’m going to tell you a secret! When we stop demanding what we want from people, the next thing that happens is they exhibit more of their natural wish to please us! We may not get everything we want, but we can easily live without conflict, and with trust.…
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🥇Do our identities get better?🥇
All life has a common thread. Just like a seed, everything that any life is ever going to need is already in place at conception. People are the same! Their identity is already complete at conception, with instincts, feelings, and awareness of needs all ready to work together. Throughout nature, all new life is fully…
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😖People inventing their own truth can’t manage the consequences!🥴
Our human race is doing great with technology! Socially though, we’ve taken a loving race, put it in pain, destroyed trust, and managed to place every person in misery! How? By deciding we know better, rather than accepting the realities of life! Our technology has united us, thereby destroying any pockets of health that remained…
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🏆What really makes us successful?🏆
Is there any point to winning if we don’t even feel good? Success is not what most of us assume! Once upon a time, we felt ready for anything! We were happy and strong. We liked everybody! This is success. Happiness and feeling strong is success. Feeling comfortable with others, and sharing our dreams is…
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🥰Allowing infants their freedom makes them strong adults!😍
This shouldn’t be a surprise. It makes natural and instinctive sense! It also works! The best of us got support, not instructions! Our kids don’t need moral guidance! They come equipped with that. They already have full connection with their identity, needs, and instincts. In this condition, we are non-destructive. Our attempts to guide our…
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🧨We need our fire back if we are to enjoy life and do great things!🧨
What’s life? It’s an explosion of energy, coming from within, all focused on satisfying our needs and wishes! Coming from within! In this condition, we feel great, and we can do anything. Self-esteem is unlimited, as it should be! We have energy and passion! What happens if we don’t let life come from within? This…
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🔔Love can only happen when we accept the world the way it really is!🔔
Our world is getting poor self-esteem, hate, gangs, and conflict. Many things can prevent the possibility of love. Choosing to see the world as we want to, rather than the way it really is, is only one of them. Bad things happen when we choose to see life as we want to, while ignoring reality.…
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😥Why did life get so lonely?😥
This might be hard to believe at first. It’s the way we treat our kids that is causing our almost worldwide conflict, and then our widespread loneliness. If our approach were to match their needs, then resentment wouldn’t happen! Defiance and hostility would never develop. All life has basic needs, and this includes our children.…
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🌟🌟All life feels powerful! 🌟🌟
The hostility, conflict, and defiance, that we are used to, and consider normal is not normal at all. It’s only when we allow people to keep feeling strong, the way they start out, that they remain cooperative, and fun. When we let our kids keep the inner strength they were born with, we don’t get…
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🥰It’s So Easy To Bring Back Our Loving Ways!🥰
We do it to ourselves! We are causing our own chaos! What sets our social world? That gets locked in early, by how healthy and natural our infants get to feel! Really! Absolutely, precisely, and predictably! Traumatized infants will go on to create a traumatized civilization. Which is exactly what we are living in right…
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🌼 World peace, love, trust, and cooperation. 🌼
Trust is not only the default condition for people, it actually requires work to prevent it! Grant our young natural human rights, and as long as trust prevails, love will be the result. Agencies have worked out basic rights for the helpless. It’s a balance of personal rights, and respect for the needs of others.…
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😋What would it take to make our world loving and trusting?😋
Surprisingly, all we have to do is to stop making it worse! People are not naturally the way we see them now. We have to work hard to get them that way! What do we have to do anyway, to stop believing the most troubled and hurting people the world has to offer? Left, to…
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🎭Full expression, the gift of life!🎭
What is therapy? It’s coaxing out our most frightening experiences and feelings. We have hidden them! Even from ourselves! Why would we do that? Because our present beliefs have caused it. The end result is the fighting we all suffer from now! What should we do differently? Health, and feeling powerful are all about our…
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😥Our recommended parenting makes children feel helpless!😥
This is why we can’t live out loud any more. Our least honorable people no longer have any opposition! We have made everybody feel helpless! People who feel helpless become selfish, and they fight! Strong people don’t feel a need to fight. It’s only the desperate that cause world-wide trauma. Strong people remain connected with…
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🐣The strongest, and the most successful of all children!🐣
If we can let our kids keep feeling the power they were born with, our whole world will become trusting again! This is the key. This is the one thing that has changed our world. As we have taken the job of “learning life” away from our children, and set up our own program for…
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💫Return Power To The People!💫
Do we want people to behave well? Then they need to keep the power they were born with! That’s all it takes! This sets behavior! The more helpless people feel, the worse they behave! That’s not hard to verify! When we feel helpless enough, it becomes impossible to change our behavior! Many will agree, having…
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😥The Consequences Of Our Own Actions Appear As New Problems!😥
Hostility has emerged throughout our population! We made that happen! Our leaders are selfish and have no honor! We caused that as well! Trust has disappeared! People feel isolated! Yes, we did that too! Honorable people struggle to even survive, while those who cheat and lie amass fortunes! Once again, we made it that way!…
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😨People aren’t supposed to be troubled!😨
We do it to ourselves! We ignore Mother Nature, and then our children suffer the consequences! They become troubled, just like us! The difference between how we feel, and how we should be feeling is so big, it’s close to the difference between life and death. Some of us actually do choose death! All this…
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✨PEOPLE HAVE CAUSED ALL THIS CHAOS WITH ONE MISTAKE!✨
We took Utopia, and turned it into misery! We did it with one (seemingly) innocent mistake! We are supposed to support our children in their own drive for their place in this world! We don’t support them! What we support is our own ideas of what’s good for them! Without our support, and because we…
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💡Want strong offspring? Let your kids keep their drive!💡
When they become adults, our children are going to be exactly as strong as we allowed them to be in their early years! That’s a universal truth! When we don’t allow them any power at all, helpless is the way they grow up! Helpless people fight! That’s all that’s wrong with our world right now!…
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💥The race to feel powerful!💥
This seems to be the next big thing! The winners get to feel as good as they did when they were infants! In the sixties we figured out people don’t have an evil side at all! It was only damage to people that was causing bad behavior! Now, we have discovered that feeling good makes…
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🦁We need to be allowed to keep our inner strength!🦁
Were born feeling powerful, and we need that! All life has its own driving force! Do we have anxiety? That’s loss of trust from having our power taken away! Anxiety will be ours until we can find a way to regain that inner strength! All life gets its own power! What would happen if we…
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😰As we abandon trusting ways, anxiety is the consequence!😰
If we have anxiety, it’s because our trust of others is gone! The only way to fix this, is to regain that trust! We are all born with absolute trust, and full inner power. We need both. The default beliefs of this generation damage inner power, which in turn destroys trust! Civilization is in crisis,…
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🤗Unlimited trust is a natural medicine for humans!🤗
Trust is real! Accomplish it, and we feel satisfied. We don’t want more! We are finally at peace! Absolute comfort! Our needs have been met. We have left anxiety behind us. There is no other goal that can do this. All other goals leave us still feeling the same, and still wanting more! Humans have…
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There is only one healthy expectation, for all life!
Any of us lucky enough to survive infancy, while still in full connection with our feelings, have only this basic natural expectation. Trust! That’s the one thing people crave, even above survival itself! If we’re not open though, we have to live without it! It’s all we should ever expect, or need from others! Every…
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❤How can we really feel like ourselves again?❤
First, we have to understand what happened to us. We lost trust, and our inner power. No longer do we feel powerful, or feel like everybody is our friend! This leaves us feeling helpless. Feeling helpless causes us to try being popular and important. With everybody doing that, our world has changed! These attempts cause…
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💗Why can’t people just love me?💗
We all want the same thing. Absolute trust, fairness, and approval to be and grow as ourselves! In this world, right from day one, we can’t have it! That makes our job of growing up unfair and painful. Right now, people don’t know how to just love others! 😥 Adults may be doing their best,…
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🌤Trust is the greatest comfort the universe ever gave us!🌤
Without trust, our lives become fearful! Our behavior becomes defensive. We withdraw! Then we become suspicious of others. We begin presenting ourselves not as we are, but as we wish others to see us. This is a lifetime task, and a lifetime disappointment! It’s also the same as living in exile! In these times, we…
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🎲Will love win?🎲
The way we treat our infants sets the world’s path! We are supposed to allow children to stay strong and self-driven. We all start strong! If allowed to remain that way, we are kind and gentle! That’s healthy, and natural. It’s our default condition! All life has inner power. It needs to stay that way…
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Will our kids become strong and loving adults❓
People have to feel strong! All life does! If we take their power away, helpless feelings happen, and these go on for a lifetime. People without inner power are also without common sense! It takes confidence to stay on top of life, to see and to estimate danger and consequences! That’s what the gift of…
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🗽A Successful Life, Angel Dust, and a Critical Difference!🗽
Some of us can comfortably challenge the world! Some of us can barely get out of bed! What’s the difference? INNER POWER The full and unrestricted expression of our real selves! It’s not about being loud! It’s all about feeling powerful! We all feel powerful in the beginning! It’s nature’s survival gift! We are supposed…
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💖What if I want old fashioned love, with absolute trust?💖
For that, we have to step away from what the kids are saying! We also have to step away from what the media is telling us! After that, we have to step away from what most of the authorities are telling us as well! Our world has made assumptions as to how people and life…
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🎭How can we get the most out of life!🎭
For people, the quality of life can vary from pure natural joy to an intolerable gray existence. Once we lose the pristine quality of our lives, we also lose the awareness of what life is really supposed to feel like! There are two problems with this “vanishing awareness”! First, we stop trying to get our…
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🧩How are people with high self-esteem different?🧩
They are pristine! They are fully connected internally! This difference alone is so great that they might as well belong to a different species! They don’t hurt inside! They don’t focus on making a fortune! Their goal is trust and relationships, needing only to have enough money to get by with. They appreciate and enjoy…
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💕In real life, everyone is our friend, and there is never a need for secrets!💕
This is not a dream of utopia! It’s our default condition! There is only one thing preventing natural loving life, such as this! With the best of intentions, we take over our children’s lives! After that, they can no longer survive using their own resources! All life needs its own power! Controlling our young is…
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❓How can we have better lives❓
Even the poorest of us can enjoy a far more satisfying life than the very rich! When we live in a world where everyone is our friend, our feelings and enjoyment of life just soars. There is no real need, or reason for the secrets that keep us isolated. If we use them to gain…
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💖What kind of people want trust and cooperation, but never conflict?💖
This balance develops in the first few years of life! The energy of all life comes from the inside! If that’s not allowed, then we get trauma! If treated with the same support and consideration that nature provides for all life, humans are invariably trusting, loving, and playful! If we support their own energy, our…
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💥What makes us feel strong?💥
Why rush about chasing things we think we want, when most of the time they don’t make us any happier than we already are. Better to figure out what we need first! All life starts out strong. We will have to understand what happened to the self-respect and confidence that we started out with, before…
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💖For real love we must feel strong and unafraid!
There probably isn’t a person alive who feels as strong as we all should! We get a poor start. For all of us, life comes from inside. Our energy comes from within. Our needs come from within. Our feelings live within. Our instincts, senses, and awareness all lie within. Our identity expresses itself from within!…
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🤍People are better than this!🤍
We have needs! We don’t need all that much! Just support to survive as ourselves! Humans are kind and gentle when our needs are satisfied! Unfortunately, the vast majority of us have to do without one critical need! This is the one big thing that’s wrong in this world! It’s the main, and probably the…
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🎀Self-esteem is power of survival, we need to support it right from infancy!🎀
This is the path to non-destructive, trusting people! We all want world peace! That’s actually not difficult! We dream of an environment where we can trust others, we feel safe, and we feel accepted! We can have that! Ironically, it’s our default condition! All life gets its own power. All life get supported in using…
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🎇Our adult world is limited by our inner life!🎇
If love has been lost in our inner world, then it’s lost to us in the real world as well! If we have disconnected ourselves from our feelings, to avoid hurt, then feelings are gone from our adult life as well! If we have disconnected from our feelings, then we have also disconnected from our…
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⭐What makes the world better?⭐
There’s something that always makes a day special for us! What could that be? It’s any day we wake up feeling more comfortable expressing our real selves! Whenever we do that, it’s a special day, and we can feel it! Why then, do we hide ourselves so much? Why don’t we always live our real…
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🔥How to get more self-esteem and confidence!🔥
We are all born powerful. It can be seen in every infant. Most of us have lost our inner power! That’s our struggle. Every life gets it’s own energy. It’s for survival! It’s what we need to function! All creatures get encouragement to develop their own abilities through their own efforts and inner strength. Humans…
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💞Following their hearts is what makes kids special!💞
We all want peace, comfort, safety, and community. We all want to feel loved, accepted, and appreciated, just as we really are! Which way of living will take us there? More control, or more freedom? It’s complete freedom that does it! Right from conception! Control only takes us into anxiety, usually suppressed. Freedom is the…
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🎵💝The best possible lives for people!💝🎵
This picture? It shows how we should be feeling! We did once! The inner power shows through! Can you see it? That strength is not supposed to go away! We are all supposed to get the support we need to stay that way. All other life on our planet always does! We should all be…
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🏁Self-esteem is critical! Children should never, ever feel helpless!🏁
Children need their own inner power, just like all other life. With full self-esteem they will be successful, limited only by what is possible for them. They will be successful in tune with their own needs and wishes, not successful by our standards! This is the best thing that could possibly happen for them! Surprisingly,…
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💕Love and community are still possible, but a few things need to go!💕
Humans are a loving, compassionate, sharing, fun, and trusting race! Doesn’t sound like anybody we know does it? It’s true though, we are a loving race. As a group, we have accepted some assumptions about life that came from the past. Some of these are making the natural trust between people impossible. Unexpectedly, they cause…
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💎When children lose their power, it’s gone for good!💎
Our present environment is not natural. In good condition, people are kind and loving, not warlike! People don’t normally have hate in them. We don’t normally feel helpless either, or feel so inadequate that we keep much of our lives secret. What has happened to the kind and loving environment that we know can happen?…
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🔥Life has to be driven from within!🔥
Life has its own power! People too! Most of us don’t get to keep it. The more power a person gets to keep, the kinder they are and the less destructive they are. All the trouble we suffer from is coming from people who were deprived of their natural power. People will cause massive destruction…
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💔WHERE DID THE LOVE GO?💔
People don’t feel powerful any more! Instead, we feel kind of helpless! Feeling helpless, we live defensively. It takes a strong and confident person to care about others. But, we don’t make people that way anymore! Why not? Where did we go wrong? All life gets the power to survive! People too! Unfortunately, we don’t…
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💥How powerful should we allow our children to be?💥
Life has it’s ways. Every new life is provided with it’s own power. It’s for survival. We call it self-esteem. That’s what we see around us. Every life has it’s own power. Tons of it! We begin life with that inner strength. What happens when we allow our kids to keep it? On the other…
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💖We were made to love and please others!💖
That’s why love keeps coming up! It’s our default condition. We were meant to grow up wild! We were meant to lead from our heart, learning and growing in all the ways we, ourselves wished. We were meant to feel loved with every cell of our bodies. We were meant to feel the same way…
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😠People only do bad things because they’ve been hurt!
If we never caused hurt in the first place, we wouldn’t ever have to endure bad behavior! Nature provides support for survival, just the way it should be done, with assistance instead of hurt! People though, provide despair instead. We read the situation wrong, and we unintentionally cause hurt. There is no need to cause…
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😱If we live how we really feel, we get our best chance of regaining our full self-esteem.😱
Feeling helpless is not our failure. It’s something that happened to us! All life gets an explosion of pure energy to power it through life. People call it self-esteem. Nurture is the way all life respects and supports that power of survival. Mankind has gradually stopped supporting it. The price we pay for unintentionally taking…
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💡A better world happens when we feel strong!💡
Want a troubled world, then make people feel helpless! Some families do that all the time. The animosity and fighting are easy to see. How can we tell when someone feels helpless? They always try to be important in the eyes of others. Mankind has created the need to appear important. We did it through…
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🏆Power to the people, it’s our natural right!🏆
Life gets its own power. It’s part of the deal. It makes survival possible. People call that natural power, self-esteem. We all start out feeling invincible! All other life does too, and they get to keep it! People in full possession of their original power are the best people. Have any of us ever had…
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😛The best children got to keep their own power!
Every life on the planet is provided with the power and the energy to survive and flourish! If every child got to keep it, this entire world would be comfortable, loving, and caring! They would be the strong ones! Strong people just want to enjoy life, be loved, and take care of others. And play,…
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💥Our health and energy come directly from self-esteem!💥
Our original selves lived full out, with force and power, no secrets, and nothing held back. That’s the way we used to be, and we felt invincible! We haven’t felt like that since we were little! I don’t expect this is a surprise to anybody. We can all feel the difference! The surprise though might…
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🥺Agreement is our default condition. It’s about acceptance of reality!🥺
Our widely divergent views are symptoms of trauma! Most, if not all of us, haven’t been lucky enough to live in undistorted reality! We are all quite correct in our different beliefs though! From our own experience, we all make perfect sense! We simply live in different realities. That doesn’t seem right, does it? Well,…
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👪Present-day relationships are a poor substitute for real ones!👪
We each need to feel fully accepted, and able to express our entire real selves. Outside of basic necessities, this means absolutely everything to all life as well as us. Other life on the planet already enjoys this natural right, and always has. For people, this right doesn’t exist anymore! That’s all that’s wrong! When…
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😛Support self-esteem, it’s our natural survival power!😛
It’s the strongest children that are the helpful, capable ones. For a sane and compassionate world, our children need to keep the inner power they were born with. It’s vital to them. It’s almost equally vital to us as well! This “balance” has been right in front of us throughout the entire existence of mankind.…
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💑👨👩👧👦Relationships can really be everything we ever wanted!
The people around us have, by far, the biggest influence on how good we are going to feel, as we go through life. Our existence these days amounts to feeling endlessly criticized while fighting to rise above the hurt that we live with. The alternative is we fall into line, do everything as we are…
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💖Our needs provide the only advice we should ever listen to!💖
If we can hear and respect our own needs, we will have immunity from anxiety, unless trapped of course! Not only that, but health, energy, good relationships, and just plain feeling good, become possible, things that just don’t normally exist in this success-driven environment! I would expect, that by any measurement, these comforts have by…
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💥We need our self-esteem. Support that, and love returns!💥
Nature provides the power for survival. It’s part of the package that life gets at conception. We call it self-esteem! When we don’t have that power, we feel helpless and we feel despair. Powerless, we live defensively and in fear, we attack others quicker than we trust them. When we do have good self-esteem, we…
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🏆The more of their power we allow our young to keep, the better our civilization gets!🏆
All life has it’s own power. It’s the drive to survive. We call it self-esteem! It comes from within! If we protect and encourage that power in our children, we get community. People with inner power still have their inborn sense of honor. They do the right thing because they want to. They enjoy and…
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🤬Why do people get arrogant?🤬
First, let’s look at life for people these days. We all want the power we were born with. All life does. It’s a natural right. Humans look at an infant and assume it needs taken care of. That’s the last thing it wants. That’s the last thing any life wants. It wants a safe place…
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🌹Now that we’re alone, can we get back?🌹
Finding the root cause for this gradual drift into isolation requires an absolute compulsion for truth, along with a lot of observation. What’s the cause? The support we give, or don’t give, for our young’s own power. Providing, or not providing that support, raises or reduces the self-esteem, and consequently the conflict throughout our entire…
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The condition of this world is the direct result of the way we treat our infants!
A very bold thing to say, wouldn’t you think? A small action such as caregiving shouldn’t have that much impact. It only does because it happens at such a vulnerable age, and because it’s interferes with the basic drive of every human, self-esteem. The conflict we have been generating ever since we stopped nurturing our…
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Life lives from within. Accept that, and the fighting ends!
It’s what we do with our children that sets the stage for a life of fighting, or a life of love and cooperation. The thrill and the power of life comes from inside ourselves. That’s as true for us and our children, as it is for all other life. If we are wise enough to…
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🥺Do people have to be self-driven to have feelings?😠
Yes, and for many reasons. It’s our power. Without that, our feelings, instincts, and all around awareness have no meaning or even connection! If we are no longer self-driven, we still have feelings all right, we just can’t feel them! Natural power is nature’s way. Life is self-driven. The power comes from inside. Unfortunately, we…
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How can people have good self-esteem if we prevent them from being internally driven?
Every life gets the energy to go “all out” for survival. Nature supports that in every way possible. Our infants go “all out” too. We call that energy self-esteem! It’s really the drive to survive! It come from inside! What, do you suppose happens if we don’t allow that? Terrible things, and we’re living them…
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💖Infants, allowed to remain powerful, become happy and loving adults!💖
Life really is just that easy. Look at nature. There’s the evidence! Allow power, and lives are productive and happy. Create helplessness, and the fighting begins! Infants, stripped of their power become lethal adults! Unfortunately, we have to let go of our counterproductive ways if we are to all have safe and comfortable lives! But,…
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🥺How can I feel better?🥺
As you already know, you’re not alone. This situation of feeling anxious, weak, and hopeless, has become an epidemic for all of us, young and old. We suffer from having our behavior overly criticized. Our power and our confidence has been devastated. We hurt. Most people conceal their struggle, then try to fix it by…
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🤷🏻♂️How to make kinder people!🤷🏻♀️
Let us keep the power we were born with! We need it. It makes us go! Nature provided it for a reason! There are going to be consequences if we take that away. Well, we do take that away, and boy, did we get consequences! It really is straightforward. All life starts out with the…
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Do you want your confidence back?
All life is created to compete with our environment for survival. All life begins that journey with an “all out” effort. People too! All other life gets full encouragement and support in their efforts. People have fallen astray. We have forgotten that it’s a need. We stop our kids. We shut down their power. This…
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Will our children be strong?
Life on this planet competes for survival. The strongest do best. To even be born, we already overcame incredible odds. Every one of us was born, ready to go “all-out”, in every way. All other life on the planet fully supports and encourages their offspring in their efforts to become good at life. Their offspring…
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How good our world can be, is limited by the power we allow our kids.
Look at the direction that all of our sciences are taking us. We know that our criminals were once troubled children. We know people become healthy adults unless they encounter some sort of trauma. We basically understand that people are lovely until damaged somehow. We know we can fix some trauma by encouraging the expression…
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We can still get a little back, of how wonderful our lives should have been!
Appreciated, loved, respected, and encouraged! That’s how it should have been. Right from the start, and all the way through! Something went horribly wrong, for every person on the planet. It happened in infancy. Instead of getting the support that all life gets, we became disciplined and forced to be what others wanted. It was…
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With one change, the world’s trauma just goes away!
I know, that sounds ridiculous! It’s not so ridiculous though, if there really is one single cause! Well, it’s true, there actually is a single cause! What are the conditions that put you at your very best? What if all other life causes it’s offspring to feel powerful? What if you could cause your children…
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💑The more powerful we allow our kids to be, the safer and more compassionate our world becomes!💑
And vice-versa!! This turns out to be the trigger point. The fulcrum. The ultimate “cause and effect” balance of good or else bad. Change how much of their own power infants are permitted to live with, and the condition of the whole world follows. Living our own power is nature’s way. It’s the normal way…
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🔨The world’s trauma has one cause, we stopped nurturing!🔨
We probably believe we still nurturing our infants, don’t we? Well, let’s see! To nurture is to oversee development. But, we don’t just oversee development anymore. We stop it cold, and we redirect all behavior, and most of the thinking! We decide what is good for our children. With nothing but good intentions, we direct…
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❌Nobody feels safe now! Our lives have gone all wrong!❌
We don’t nurture our young any more. We take over! The consequence is billions of people who hurt, and feel frightened. We live our lives hiding our wishes, and fighting with each other! Nobody feels safe! People have been made to feel helpless! Helpless people can be vicious and cruel. That’s the world we have…
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⚔ Do we need honor to have self-esteem? ⚔
What exactly is honor anyway? It’s standing up for the right thing, as defined by our instincts, feelings and all around awareness. It’s respecting only truth, regardless of the the cost. It’s behaving in a manner we have nothing but respect for. It’s being fair, never taking advantage, just because we can. It’s treating others…
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💑World Peace is Easy, Just Bring Nurture Back!!
All we did wrong was to stop our nurturing, and take over infant development! 😥 The consequences have been catastrophic! 😨 Proper nurture, as nature intended, brings peace and community! 👨👩👦👦 Troubled people, trauma, psychosomatic sickness, hate, defensiveness, conflict, and war are all results of not providing nurture! 🤬 We no longer nurture our young!…
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🩹What do we get, as we relearn how to nurture our children, in the natural way?🩹
Natural ways satisfy their real needs, instead of ours! We get infants who don’t scream! Children who don’t squabble! Children without psychosomatic illness! Children who openly love us, having absolutely no fear of what we might ask of them! Cooperative children that just want to help! Don’t believe me? I really don’t blame you. It…
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💜Our Failure to Nurture, The Terrifying Cost!💜
When we nurture, we support and we encourage the efforts of new life to flourish, through their own efforts. That’s natures way! But, people don’t nurture any more!!! Does it matter? That alone is pretty much responsible for everything wrong with our world! And rightly so! Without nurture, we are all lost in a cruel…
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💥Basic truths about people, in these times!💥
We all begin life in perfect shape, with full self-esteem! If we get full support, also known as nurturing, we become the best of the best! Kind, loving, fully connected with our feelings, instincts, and awareness of our inner and outer environment, we have honor, and compassion and we are playful. When we are all…
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👍🏻Do we need validation from others? 💥Is that self-esteem?
Like it or nor, we are all plugged into the human condition! We do indeed crave appreciation, validation, and approval. That’s what it is to be human. Trying to avoid that, is the doorway to loneliness! When life isn’t working, the problem is coming from others, usually far in the past. In this world it…
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♻Why Don’t We Have High Self Esteem Now?♻
I am going to suggest a slightly different picture of this situation. All life begins with “full-out” self-esteem. With normal nurturing, life keeps it! People have become a special case. We don’t nurture anymore. We ignore our infant’s drive to cope with life. We no longer encourage that. We prefer obedience and believe it’s a…
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🔨Our lack of nurturing is turning people destructive!🔨
It starts in the cradle. Like it or not, all life has a need to be accepted and appreciated for exactly what it is! It’s a critical need, so powerful the words to describe it, don’t even exist. Bit by bit, we have gradually stopped allowing our children that natural right! The consequences are a…
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💰Will designer children be happy and successful?💰
They will not! Every life on the planet is self driven, and unique! Every life is itself and needs support for being exactly that. It cannot be what we wish. If we force that anyway, it will try to resist. If we win, there will be less, or no self-esteem. The process of supporting the…
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😨Can we get over being shy?😨
The usual answer is to take a chance and express ourselves anyway. That doesn’t deal with the cause of being shy. It usually trades one fear for another. There is one thing that can be done, that will actually work. This removes the cause! Can we talk about the real reason for shyness? All life…
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☮Why can’t some people stop their arguing and fighting?☮
They can’t help it! The defiance keeps them out of fear. This always varies directly with nurturing! It starts in the beginning! (Doesn’t everything!) It’s always about either trust, or fear. The way we all experience the world is set up in infancy. The manipulators and fighters didn’t get any nurturing! To nurture, is to…
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🤍Our world doesn’t have to be a sick place!🤍
What do we have to do? We simply allow people to be themselves! Seriously, that’s all that’s wrong. It seems to be going unnoticed that people’s right to be themselves has become progressively more under attack! The consequences though are becoming serious enough to bury us! Respect has bottomed out! Shared feelings are rare. Even…
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💌Self-esteem and confidence, we can talk about it now!💌
Having confidence along with high self-esteem is the consequence of being lucky. We all have an identity. It uses instincts, feelings, all of our senses, and awareness of our inner condition and the world, to power and guide us in all of our efforts. As an infant and young child there is no such a…
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🥰Do we want to be our ideal self?🥰
There’s a far better self, which leads directly to the most happy and meaningful life possible! Our own real identity is the best self we could ever hope to get! Unfortunately, we don’t get to live our identity, not these days! It’s because our civilization has forgotten how to nurture. Not living our own identity…
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👍🏻Our quality of life is on a downhill slide! Why?👍🏻
We have forgotten how to nurture! We should be supporting every new life in its own efforts to flourish! “In it’s own efforts”! That’s not what we do any more! That’s one little thing. It has changed our civilization! It has destroyed trust! Generation after generation, we feel less “approved of” by others around us.…
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💗The easier it gets to look in the mirror, the more value our life has!💗
Our world is populated with people who hurt. Being immersed in it brings out the worst in people! As we accept the moral compass of this environment, our lives feel increasingly pointless. Want to feel naturally important? Our own, original identity can do that for us. We have to dig deep, and really listen for…
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🥰What makes us happy?🥰
“Living out loud” makes us happy! In today’s world though, we just don’t get to do that! Why? We are driven, working endlessly to make others behave as we think they should. When we do that, it prevents us from healing naturally from our own hurt. We use our hurt in a way that eases…
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💎Every one of us desperately craves approval, for our lifetime!🏆
The approval we need though, has to be acceptance of our real identity. What about approval we get for being what others want us to be? Doesn’t that help us? Nausea! That’s what that gives us! It puts us into nausea! That despair can and usually does get worse. It can get so bad we…
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🌱Want the natural world back? Would allowing others their own identity help?🌱
This presents a radically different point of view. It’s worth considering though, as it presents an awesome promise. This thesis is a look at what changed to make people wary, defensive, and untrusting. In doing so, it also reveals the way back to a trusting world. Can people actually live in peace, with cooperation, trust…
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💧Our loving ways are almost gone! Can anything be done?💧
There is a clear answer. Mankind has found it’s way into believing in control. That’s what’s wrong. That’s the one drive that has put us here! That’s the difference. That’s what’s changed. People used to respect each other. People could play. People liked each other! Control is anti-life. With control, we hide inside and defend…
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🟩How important is other people’s opinion of us?🟩
Can we be immune to other people’s opinion? In our best possible condition, are we more, or are we less dependent on the approval of others? Wouldn’t we expect self-sufficiency to be nature’s preferred condition? It’s not though. That’s not who people are! We all need the acceptance of others. We crave it with every…
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💑Real people, in their free and natural condition are loving, kind, and playful!💑
Mankind hasn’t even tried freedom yet! When we do, we will get the expected result. A happy, fun-loving creature, who desperately needs the love and acceptance of others, and who will do absolutely anything for them. That’s a long way from what we see right now, isn’t it? It’s also utopia. Why the staggering difference?…
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🔆Can we really be free?🔆
A world without chains! No rules for others! No rules for us! I doubt there is a person on the planet who can think about this, without a powerful reaction! Just imagine! Each of us began life this way though. All other life lives this way, always. People are the only life that cannot “live…
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⚛Only free people can be creative⚛
Creativity requires imagination. That requires connection with our instincts, our inner life, and the world around us. In other words, our identity. Spectacular imagination requires good connection with our identity. Many people have little or no connection with their identity. They weren’t allowed to keep it! The reason? Freedom means the opportunity to live as…
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🟢When we do build utopia, we are insanely vulnerable!🟢
The first “damaged” person that finds us, could bring us all right back to where we are now! That’s what has already happened to the many peaceful and gentle groups of people that did become discovered. Assuming we have worked our way back to a healthy society, where every person is fully connected to their…
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💔Is our sadness a natural part of life?💔
The world’s trauma comes from each of us losing our struggle to live from our own identity! One simple event. Should the consequences be this tragic? Yes! The damage fits, just as it should! Try building your house on quicksand! How does that consequence turn out? The world disagrees on the value and the extent…
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🧯 We refuse to allow people to live in their own natural way. 🧯
Sustainable and productive life has become impossible! People hurt! We have to buy from overseas, because it’s gradually become too difficult to make things at home anymore. Special interest groups, in their zeal and their assumption that they have a monopoly on the truth, have made it impossible to live a normal life. There just…
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🎱 We tried to make life safe. Now it’s boring, frightening, and far more dangerous than it was before! 🎱
Each of us started life with an intact, dynamic, explosive, but loving identity. Others put chains on us. It allowed them to feel safer! Now, we are no longer “one” with our identity. That’s why all the trauma and secrets! That disconnection on a world wide scale is also why we cannot make any progress…
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⚡We cocoon ourselves, delude ourselves, and can’t see truth!⚡
Every one of us are victims. None of us had any chance at all, of ever keeping the inner power we were born with! Our entire culture believes in power! Why? Because we each secretly want our power back. We want to feel right again! We want to feel strong again, like we used to!…
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🧻What’s really wrong? Why all this trouble?🧻
It starts in the cradle! We don’t get to live our identity. Every other life on the planet lives from their identity! If we can’t live from our identity, people cannot remain healthy! We fragment! This violent and troubled environment, and that’s all that’s wrong? Yes, it is! Fragment every person, and this is what…
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💘Before we have love, we have to co-exist smoothly with others. What do we have to do?💘
Sadly, all parties need insight or therapy before this can happen! Regrettably, we have to unlearn most of what we believe about relationships! We think wrong! It’s not our fault! Our natural awareness, insight, and ability to relate and empathize has been re-directed by the world we were born into. Our environment has caused us…
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🚧Does worry cause low self-confidence, or the other way around?🚧
What a question. It could go either way, couldn’t it? Either system could cause the other. My feeling is that they happen together, as disconnection from identity causes both. Probably low self-confidence happens first, causing worry. I can see a few reasons. I doubt we are ever going to see an infant worry. I am…
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🌱Can we be completely ourselves in this violent world?🌱
This world is a tough place to be. Emotionally, it’s probability about as bad as it gets. The reason I say that is because if any of us were to suddenly turn up in a world as it should be, where love is normal and our entire identity is welcome and accepted , it is…
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🌟The confidence to think for ourselves can be re-ignited!🌟
That spark we wish to ignite is our own identity. We have each become forced to give up on it in our early years, to be obedient. We all start out as a dynamo of energy, learning to talk and walk, and without interference we would have continued on that way. Mankind is causing itself…
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💮I want to be confident? Am I a failure?💮
To feel that we might be a failure suggests that we are not meeting some goals we have set. At the same time, it seems that we have doubts. As infants we all lived from our identities. There was no pass or fail. We just kept expanding the limits of what we could do. We…
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🌞Freedom’s Advantage, Lives Or Dies In The Cradle!🌞
Free people have an advantage. They can go crazy on you! Unburdened by that heavy cloak of repression, and intimately connected with the spontaneous and unrestricted resources of their identity, they can explode with unrestrained fury, in imaginative, and unexpected ways. First though, they have to really be free. Which doesn’t exist these days. We…
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💑Do we all need self-improvement?💑
The sad truth is our accepted ways of raising infants and children causes damage. We unintentionally cause them to disconnect from their own identity, in an effort to reduce the hurt that they are feeling. All these children eventually enter the adult world in a quest to self-improve. What that really amounts to, is they…
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🚸What are some simple and effective ways to become less anxious and more self-accepting?🚸
Sorry, the easy ones don’t work. All the simple ways just move problems around, trading one for another. That’s because what happened to us is far from simple. We started out anxiety free, and so completely self-accepting, that we never would have thought to question it. Then it happened! It’s all about identity. All life…
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🟢Did the West put the individual first?🟢
We tried! But —— We didn’t know how to do that properly, or completely! Therefore, the results we got, are a pale shadow of what should have happened. Life has identity. All life. It runs the show. It is fixed and cannot be tweaked to suit others. It provides instincts and wisdom. It helps with…
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💧Is it normal to feel like you lost something important?💧
Yes it is! Believe it, or not, it’s our own identity. Mankind, over many years has drifted away from nature’s ways. Mother Nature supports all life in it’s own efforts. Natural identity includes instincts, feelings, and countless ways to be immersed in, and connected with our environment. Every human is born with all of that!…
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💡Life is only complicated when we don’t accept truth!💡
All life has identity. From the moment of conception, each person has a firm, fixed identity, that is absolutely unnegotiable. That provides instincts, connecting us intimately with our environment! Strong identity causes natural life, instincts, morals, and instinctive awareness of everything human. It’s our natural and default condition! With weak (disconnected) identity, people can believe…
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💖❌As we choose identity, or else obedience, the world follows.❌💖
The best relationship on the planet is between a mother, still connected with her instincts, and her baby. It’s about trust, it’s peaceful, and if left to mother’s instincts, and not the pressure of humanity, it’s cooperative and loving. I expect people will agree, it’s the best life we ever knew! Life lives from instincts,…
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⭐Natural identity makes us equal, and excited to be that way!⭐
Loss of identity, on the other hand, through disconnection, causes feelings of being really unimportant, and then comes struggle and conflict! Identity drives all life. It provides all the good stuff such as instincts, feelings, and awareness of our environment within ourselves, and out in the world. Confidence is natural. Ever seen an infant doubt…
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🌱🌴Life in the cradle, generates our world!🌴🌱
If birds strapped their chicks into the nest, restricted their movements, and then refused to allow them to fly until the parents thought they were ready, then all bird life would be different. There would be consequences! Without their full and natural expression, the nestlings would be unable to feel their natural power. That alone,…
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⚡Only the lucky get to feel normal throughout life!⚡
If in doubt, look to Mother Nature for natural wisdom!
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💎The secret of life, living our identity!💎
Attempting to navigate our way through life, without causing conflict with others, has become a nightmare. Can we live without conflict? We can try! First, we need to remove any habits we have fallen into, that cause conflict, coming from us! We need to find and remove any of our own behavior, where we put…
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🏴☠️Life is not fine! We can’t accept complete people!🏴☠️
We are each getting cheated out of our real lives!
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How to get confidence back!
Our identity holds the wisdom of the ages. Our rules hold no wisdom at all.
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🏁Respect identity, and all life gets better!🏁
Our quality of life took a “nose dive” with the loss of our inner power.
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All in all, it’s just another brick in the wall!
The full identity of every life, is already set in stone!
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🤸♀️🤸♂️A strong identity fixes everything!🤸♂️🤸♀️
Every bit of conflict in our lives takes it’s toll. That’s what happened to our self-esteem! What’s the source of conflict? It’s not about fighting over things we want, as one might assume. It’s about the loss of identity. Conflict usually, if not always, happens when an identity is trying to be itself, and then…
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🐣What’s the Best Self-Care?🐣
Self-care normally happens naturally. Instinct, feelings, needs, and interests all work together, helping us to pursue our goals, which naturally include taking care of ourselves. The reason we struggle with it at the moment, is because mankind is blocking this natural process. All life lives it’s identity. That’s the drive, the power, the motivation, the…
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🤬An epiphany for the dictators of the world!🤬
You aren’t winning. Aware of it, or not, you have lost everything important, important to yourself! Every infant in the world is infinitely happier than you! So is most, if not all, of the rest of the population. Honestly, beating everybody else to grab the material wealth of the world is not real success. You…
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🌼How amazing our world would be, if we encouraged the self-drive of our young.🌼
All life is driven from inside! That’s where headquarters is. It’s the source of everything. Feelings, needs, ambitions, right from wrong, self-esteem, love, interests, (to be continued) (suggestions are welcome) This is who everybody is! Nature’s job is to support and encourage that! Nature does that in magnificent fashion. Mankind has fallen into the habit…
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🚧 Mankind, is caught in a death spiral! 🚧
Our quality of life is desperate. People in a crowd are lonely. Trusting one another is a rare occurrence. Few relationships work. Most people feel the need to relieve their anxiety with drugs or belief systems. Is this normal? Life could be, and should be, “The Garden of Eden”, with love, trust, and comfort, all…
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🤸♀️🤸♂️How to boost self-esteem! Is identity part of it?🤸♂️🤸♀️
Having good self-esteem is pure luck. We need the right environment! We all start with a very powerful identity. That’s natural. Most of us are unintentionally maneuvered into being ashamed of it! Quality of life is therefore locked in for life, at rock bottom. If that’s us, recovering our self-esteem is the most important task…
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⭐People are wonderful, if we don’t mess them up!⭐
The only thing wrong with our world, is that we don’t allow our young to be who they are!
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🗽 Each of us was once a powerful identity! 🗽We want to live out loud, and feel good again, like we used to!
Mankind has drifted away from nature’s ways!
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Does complete freedom allow life to be the most cooperative, and fully alive? We haven’t actually tried it!
In all of nature, every living thing enjoys complete freedom of life! Except us! Mankind is stuck in ideology! None of us get to enjoy what nature has made possible! Even when others think they are allowing us freedom of choice, they still apply so much control, that none of us have any idea what…
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Kind and Gentle Living? Enter “Conflict Free” Life! Our Kids Need to Live, From Their Own Identity!
Want to escape from 95% (or more), of the depressing conflict, and problems we all suffer through? 💔 💔 It’s actually easy to fix. That’s because it’s us causing the conflict. We mistakenly cause the excessive levels of fear, and lack of trust, that everybody suffers from these days! All we have to do is…
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👮♂️Why does everybody seem to want to be boss of the world?👮♂️
None of this is ok, or even remotely normal!
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Why doesn’t democracy create people, happy to be free?
Our young don’t get to see freedom, as a natural condition! It’s never been part of their experience! They grow up, expecting to be told what to do! This isn’t about a few restrictions. This is about control over every action, every moment of their young life! This is unnatural. All other life is encouraged…
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🎭Everybody’s never ending struggle to be heard!🎭
It happens to all of us. Surprisingly, it begins in infancy. From day one, we struggle to be independent, accepted that way, and to be heard that way! What we really get though, is to have all of that ignored. Instead, we become forced to accept direction, and are expected to be obedient, under the…
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💎Our Real Identity Wants Us To Live “Full Out” Again!💎
The problem these days is people have fallen out of the habit of allowing others to have an identity.
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🌼🦋A Far, Far Better Life!🦋🌼
Most of us have accepted our life, and this world, just the way it is. 😰 Is this all we get? 😰 For those of us willing to settle, yes, that’s all there will ever be! 🤐 It’s not living though, it’s more like waiting to die! 🤐 🐾 There’s a whole “Lion King” world,…
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⚡We can easily set the condition of people, way, way better.⚡
We are feeding hurt to our infants! We all are. It’s the new world-wide way!
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😥Wonder, imagination, genuine comfort, unlimited pleasure, and love, are promises of life. 😥
We struggle to really feel good again, and usually fail.
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🐣Be yourself! The energy, and the power, lie within!🐣
Yes, we do have a choice! We can be what others wish all right, but we give up everything important in our lives, when we do it. Most people are unaware, that we cannot be what others wish. We can only ever be the one, and the only person, that was created at conception. That’s…
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🌅Want to be loved and valued? Learn to give it!🌅
We can each claim our own place in this universe! We can stand as tall as we choose. But we can’t do it secretly. It has to be completely out loud! We decide our own value. We pick out for ourselves, our own relative importance. Where we place ourselves, determines the issues we will struggle…
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💝We can have utopia, right now!💝
It is critical that we support the natural identity of our young! That alone, can and will, remove conflict throughout the world. It does that, because it eliminates hurt. Most, if not all of us, live with a lot of hurt. Some aren’t aware of it, but feel it, and act it out, anyway. Some…
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⌛ Spreading hurt, the way we do, has got to stop now! ⌛
Yes, we do spread hurt!! It’s not supposed to be like this! Pain-free people are loving! The problem is – We’re not pain-free! Not by a long shot! Is there conflict? Well, our hurt made that happen, just as surely as if we were trying to cause it! Why do we hurt? Where is it…
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💫There is only one road to peace!! Can we get on that better road? What we are doing makes war!💫
Mankind has not been paying attention to our most exciting quality, our feelings, which are also the joy of living! Consequently, we don’t have the wisdom to make rules. When we do, they take us into more trouble than we ever started out with! Our rules, always lead to steadily increasing conflict! Proving that observation…
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🌼Natural life! Real people, living as humans are meant to live.🌼
A universal truth, regarding freedom, does exist! Let’s bring this into the light before we begin our story. Freedom is natural. It’s the way of all living things, except for mankind. Voluntary cooperation, of course, is still a choice of freedom. What is it in us, that establishes a preference for freedom, or else, a…
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🦋Is it possible to live sane, with love and compassion, in this crazy world?🦋
People, who are not hurting, are lovely! Light hearted and fun, people living through their identities and instincts, are all about feeling loved, playing, loving, and taking care of each other. That’s what people are really like! Why then, are so many people selfish and cruel instead, in these times? Because they hurt! Massive hurt…
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😥We cause human hurt, isolation, despair, and fighting! We do it by pumping hurt into our young. They will each struggle with it through their lifetime! Are we ready to change our ways, or must more people suffer?😥
Let a child grow through their own instincts, and drive, and the sun comes out.
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🤯 Can I ever feel strong, and complete again? Will others like me? 🤯
Life hurts when it’s not allowed to be itself. That’s why people hurt.
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💡 Is there an end to self-improvement? 💡
People do not live out loud. We hide our feelings, wishes, hopes, and dreams.
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💝 Is it Possible to Love Ourselves? 💝
All we can do, when others make demands on us, is to hide every one of our qualities that they don’t agree with!
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😥I Feel Shame! What Happened To Me?😥
Instead of being allowed, and encouraged to feel proud of everything that we are, we have been taught to be ashamed of most of it!
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🏜-Is a Healthy Environment, One of Our Basic Needs?-🏜
Nature does that well. Mankind doesn’t do it at all!
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👍Is Good Self-Esteem Possible, in a Destructive Environment?👍
Authorities, right across the planet, don’t even seem to be aware of the existence of hurt.
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👮♀️👮♂️I Feel Like I’m A Bad Person! What Happened?👮♂️👮♀️
Our civilization is unaware of the real needs of life.
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💥💘💥Remove the distance between us, instead of more bitterness!💥💘💥
Some of us can live in peace and harmony, always surrounded by love. These people respect others, and enjoy being respected. A magic life, perhaps. The default life for an undamaged human, absolutely. Most of us want to enjoy those feelings. Unfortunately, it’s not possible for most. Changes back to our original condition are necessary,…
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💘Pure Love, Or Fearful Misery, How Is Your Life?💘
Feelings are a difficult topic. They are a secret!
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💀Social Media Addiction, Hate, and Drugs. We Create That Need!💀
To end the hurting, we have to work what the needs of people really are!
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What if We Want Ourselves Back?
Our young are indeed warriors. They are all that stands between themselves, and sudden death! Treat them with that degree of respect, and they will treat you that way, as well.
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The World is Not Like What We Think!
A healthy human needs to feel loved, more than anything else on this earth.
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At it’s Roots, There is Really Only One Issue That Mankind Struggles With!
People, insisting on control, might have doomed the entire race.
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Stop the Madness! People Don’t Have to Be So Troubled!
Respect is seeing and reacting to other life as it really is.
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👨👩👧👧 Our Ways Pump Hurt Into Our World, Then We All Suffer. 👨👩👧👧
To be obedient, we have to defeat our own inner drive!
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We Want Everything Better, So Long As We Don’t Have To Change Anything!
Grasping the real condition is difficult. It is so far away from traditional thinking.
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💔I’m so Tired of Always Being Angry. How can I Feel, and Get Along Better?💔
We thought we knew how before, but being fully connected, and feeling it right to our toes, love is a lot different.
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⚡Support Their Spirit, Kids Will Blast Through Life, and Love You Forever!⚡
When we can live out loud, like every other life already does, perhaps then we can call ourselves the dominant species!
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🌋For life, development must come from within!🌋
Life is not built to be obedient. It is built to survive!
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💎 We can Only Ever Get Respect, If We Allow All Others Power Over their Own Survival. 💎
To rid ourselves of others who wish to control us, we first need to stop all of our own control over other life.
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💡Causing New Tyranny, by Behaving the Same, after Escaping Tyranny.💡
We cannot be an absolute dictator in our own lives, and not cause our world to follow.