💕How to get the very best others can give you!💕

All life is driven from within!

LET IT DO THAT!

This will bring out the best that another person can give.

Every other method, especially pressure, takes things downhill!

Our world is overwhelmed with beliefs that are not true! These have put the world in pain!

The beliefs are there to comfort us as we carry on doing and saying things that can’t possibly work, but instead cause anguish for us all.

As long as we are causing anguish, we will need to create beliefs to comfort ourselves!

Of course, this situation will get steadily worse! Does this sound like our world right now?

As things worsen, we double down on demanding our rights and making more rules!

People are loving!

We can’t do enough for each other!

That’s who we really are! Every one of us!

If we could say everything we would really like to, and open up completely, living out loud again for the first time since infancy, we would feel awesome!

We would feel strong again. This is what therapy attempts to do.

We would also be loving!

If feeling really good again is the goal, then in this case, we managed it without having to get rich first. On the other hand, getting rich doesn’t lead to feeling good anyway, does it? It actually prevents that! How many rich people glow with the feeling of being “high on life”?

But, infants do!

Believing the nonsense coming from our leaders and the media, and then behaving accordingly, we have destroyed trust everywhere.

What has come to pass is exactly what we have caused!

The nonsense that we believe now is exactly what is needed to allow the greediest of us to grab as much as we can get.

The rest of us are overwhelmed by the vast majority, as they chase the counterproductive goal of owning everything! This leads us into conflict instead of trust and compassion.

Greedy people don’t understand the value of feeling strong and proud!

If we get everything we now struggle for, will we be happy?

Absolutely not! We will be more miserable than we are now!

Countless people have discovered this too late!

If I tell you now, you probably won’t believe it. So, let’s sneak up on it!

I can think of a few times.

When we were little, while life was all promise! We felt strong and confident. We lived directly from our own needs, feelings, and instincts.

What happened to this? Our environment fed us incorrect information. Beliefs that favor the wealth of the powerful.

We believed it! Everybody is confused about these things. The authorities, though, insist that their way is right.

Unfortunately, they have the power to control what is believed.

In the face of declining cooperation and comfort, we believe it anyway. We dig in and try to earn our share.

Over the years, we have steadily become more unhappy and distrustful of each other.

We have lost our joy! We lost that when we chose to accept ideas that were never true!

FIRST LOVE!

We were immersed in love. It felt real, and it was. It felt like it should last!

But, it didn’t!

Why? The dream was good. It was accurate.

But we believed many things that doomed its success!

There is one accurate belief that allows relationships to remain loving and trusting!

Life comes from within!

Respect and support that, and the world becomes peaceful.

All life is powered from within! We allow it everywhere else. People, though, have learned to believe we all need to be controlled!

Well, if they are to be rich, we do!

We must be onboard with their beliefs, or they can’t maneuver to own everything.

Now, the truth is that if we go ahead and allow others to live from their inner feelings, needs, and instincts, they turn out lovely! Always! Supporting and loving.

We, however, don’t believe that. Why not?

Because the population must remain suspicious and compete with each other, or the greedy can’t take advantage!

The wealthy have taken a strong interest in controlling what we all believe! They need us to remain fooled.

If we allow others to be who they really are, none of us will compete with each other. We’ll help each other and then play!

Why didn’t the promise of our “first love” lead to a permanent loving relationship?

Because we believed we must defend our rights! We are convinced we must do this while having no idea at all what our rights really are! Of course it didn’t work!

If we can get a handle on our natural rights, we can still have a loving world that can make us glow with happiness. Our rights are not difficult. They’re fair.

Of course, we have to grant others those same rights!

How about a newborn? Can a relationship ever feel better than that?

Sadly, in this world of rules, these relationships are doomed! Alone, and away from social pressure, they wouldn’t be doomed!

Life is designed to be driven from within. It starts out with all the wisdom and power it needs.

Without social pressure, we would all follow our instincts. We would encourage self-sufficiency. We would encourage ability and independence.

Our children would want to help. That’s just what happens when we support and encourage them, instead of controlling their lives.

That early bond of trust should never be lost!

All life is driven from the inside!

We have the right to live from our own hearts! Our own instincts, feelings, and needs!

This doesn’t make us bad. It makes us wonderful, as it does with all life!

We need to allow others to live from their energy within!

This always makes them as compassionate as they are capable of being!

Everything!

On any scale!

Within a family, life becomes supportive and loving. Children wish to help!

Within a country, people begin to be on the same page.

That’s because life needs certain things, and while listening to what comes from the inside, we discover it’s the same things that make us all happy.

The wealthy and controlling people of this world can only stay on top if enough of us believe the selfish things they tell us.

They can only remain important if enough of us line up under them.

When we begin believing in each other instead, wisdom comes from within! The greedy become irrelevant. They cannot remain wealthy unless they can keep the rest of us greedy and competitive, and they know it!

They keep us prisoners by causing us to believe things that are not true! They are getting better at it with better technology.

The wealthy are not after a comfortable, loving world! They are after protecting their advantage.

They can also see the world becoming a more hostile place. They will never take responsibility, though. They only understand greed.

Normally, it’s we who set up what our young believe. We don’t though. Not now! The media does. How well do you think that’s working?

Of course, we shouldn’t be doing that anyway.

That should come from their own instincts, feelings, and needs.

That’s the road to the strongest and most loving people.

Nature designed life to be understood and driven from within! The wisdom of our instincts far outweighs the wisdom of our media!

We have taken over the job of deciding what our children will believe! We aren’t qualified!

We never considered the implications!

Living from within, our kids knew who they were and felt strong and capable!

Now, they don’t even know if they’re boys or girls!

We have caused a self-esteem crisis! Our children don’t feel powerful!

They don’t know who they are or what they want!

They have no natural morals! Right and wrong, though, are instinctive.

If we can feel our feelings and needs, we know how much we need others! That awareness becomes our morals!

Why is this a surprise?

Did it not occur to anybody that if we stop allowing power and internal growth, children might not know what they want? Or who they even were?

We have a natural right to live from our own hearts! Everybody else does as well. All life does!

Love, trust, compassion, and cooperation among all people vary directly with how much we are allowed and encouraged to live from our own inner values!

Test these understandings all you want.

These are universal truths! Allow life to drive itself, and it’s always non-destructive.

Why don’t we know that?

We don’t understand basic human needs!

Well, we did once! Somebody turned us aside and fed us false goals! Selfish goals!

Everybody is our friend when we allow them their own power!

That’s how to get the best from other people!

It generates the most compassion they can give.

Pressure sets up conflict, making everything worse, and causing it to be permanent!

Let them be free to live from their own hearts! If they don’t have enough heart left to be a good person, then let them go for now. Force will always make everything worse!

Thanks for listening.

Good luck on your journey.

This post is part of https://clarity-of-innocence.com

Take care,

Norm Cormier

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