Clarity of Innocence

Most of us have accepted our life, and this world, just the way it is.

😰 Is this all we get? 😰

For those of us willing to settle, yes, that’s all there will ever be!

🤐 It’s not living though, it’s more like waiting to die! 🤐

🐾 There’s a whole “Lion King” world, waiting out there. It’s supposed to be our world. We did briefly live that way, and we probably still have vague memories. 🐾

If we hold beliefs, that are straight out wrong, we cannot get into that world!

Our beliefs will prevent it! Our lives will become conflict, which locks us firmly where we are.

TRUTH

There really is truth! There is only one correct answer! There is wisdom!

Like all life, people have instincts and racial wisdom.

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This wisdom resides within our identity!

All people firmly connected with their identities, have common beliefs. They agree on every issue that we really understand, and they will agree that we are not completely sure, when we really don’t know.

On the other hand, people, who have lost connection with their identities, become capable of believing anything at all!

🧨 Which brings us to our world today. 🧨

People can insist they believe that the earth is flat, even while looking at pictures from outer space, that clearly show a sphere!

Now, that’s just silly. But it does prove a point. Any person still connected with their one and only unique identity is incapable of believing in a flat earth! It would be either “we don’t know”, or “it’s basically spherical”.

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Well, that may be interesting, but it sounds like the basic problem of mankind, is that we are somehow disconnected from our own identities!

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⚡ And, so we are! ⚡

Why?

🤐 Excessive hurt! 🤐

We all hurt!

This sounds like what is being suggested, is “we hurt so much that we disconnect from our identities, losing our natural wisdom in the process, and then becoming capable of believing things, that are not true”.

Yes!

That’s why we are the only life, that doesn’t live out loud!

How many of us struggle with who we are?

PART TWO

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Those, who still live in a world of action, self-esteem, and adventure, question how everybody else can be so stodgy, boring, and just plain stuck.

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We are supposed to live out loud, from our own well-respected identity, for all of our life, just like every other living thing on the planet!

😛 Any one of us, can still return to that life! 😛

To have a loving relationship, we need to unlearn most of what we already learned. Our science is accurate. Our understanding of relationships and feelings though, is stuck at “really bad”. Fortunately, our science is catching up to these issues. That does offer hope.

❌ If we have been hurt, our beliefs will be wrong! ❌

They always are!

That’s a problem then. How can a person with hurt identify truth?

Truth and instincts lie within them, but unconnected.

They can work their way back! It’s really hard to do that. It’s worth doing, a million times over. We get to discover our unique qualities, those places where we have loads of natural ability. We get to become proud of our who we are. We will become proud of qualities that, in the past, others have caused us to be ashamed of.

Reconnection of our feelings allows our identity to once again guide us, and does so, through our feelings. Life begins to be what it should, and was in our beginning.

Following, is one key truth that will reveal itself along that path!

Treat another person as though their identity is just as important as ours, and that will become a loving relationship.

This is ground zero! This is where the action is! Treat your kids like their identity is just as important as ours, and conflict is impossible. Treat your lover or friend that way, and conflict just doesn’t happen!

And no, they will not be spoiled. That idea is wrong too! Spoiled kids have invariably had their identity trashed. That’s the reason for all their anger.

They will be the best friend you ever had. They will be what you thought was impossible.

Surprise, surprise! This is how nature treats all life!

On the other hand, begin ordering others around, like our social system expects, and it’s conflict and fighting all the way through life!

So, what happened to us? Where did hurt come from? That’s the cause of all this trauma, and we haven’t even talked about it yet!

Oops, we did talk it over. Back when we talked about treating the identities of others, as important as our own!

Our childhood wasn’t like that! Our identity was ignored, and attacked. That explains the hurt. Too bad for our parents. They would have had infinitely less work over those years, and undying love and support, instead of conflict.

Unfinished from this point on!!!

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🏴‍☠️ Obedience happened! 🏴‍☠️

We all know that if we don’t use discipline, our kids will turn out spoiled!

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Wait a minute! Where did that come from?

Is it true?

It’s not only wrong, it’s so destructive, it’s the sole cause of identity loss, conflict, and eventually war!

Do we see that anywhere else in nature? Not likely! Nature does these things infinitely better! We do see voluntary compliance. Is it easy to see that voluntary compliance is no threat to an identity, while forced obedience is a direct assault?

There is no voluntary compliance, in the upbringing of our kids in these times. Like it or not, what there is, is direct and unconditional force.

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That belief, that obedient kids are are the healthiest and most productive, gets pounded into us until we unconditionally accepted it, causing us to doubt ourselves, and every one of our unique, and special qualities.

Check out a therapists office. Obedient kids will be there, looking to get their self-esteem back. They don’t know who they are! Does that sound healthy?

There isn’t a person in the world that would insist on discipline if they were on their own somewhere, and not part of a group of humans. They would manage life from their own instincts!

They would indicate to their young what is expected and needed from them, and the kids would do it gladly, and lovingly. That’s just what children do when treated as though their identity is just as important as everybody else’s.

The proof is easy. Watch it in others, or try it out. It works, just perfectly, every time, the younger, the quicker, to change from defiance to cooperation.

Please be patient, this post is still under construction.

It’s the reason why people hide inside ourselves, and no longer have the power to “live out loud”!

If there is hurt around, or any possibility of it, then it’s just not safe to expose our real identities.

This has been on display for all to see, and to experience, ever since the beginning of mankind!

Treat them like little robots though, and what do you get? Defiance, anger, lies, secrets, low self-esteem, behavior problems, gangs, helplessness, lack of morals, lack of incentive or motivation, bullying, and even suicide!

No matter how bad things get, we go on assuming it’s all inevitable, and quite normal.

We blame some basic weaknesses, in mankind.

Well, there is no weakness. None of this discouragement and conflict is normal for humans.

There is a reason for it though.

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A belief has the power to devastate an imaginative, spontaneous life.

When people get together in groups, the result seems to be common beliefs, that lack accuracy, or truth!

This is a phenomena that we really need to understand better!

For some reason, when in a group, people abandon their inherent natural wisdom, which is instinctive, and begin to adopt increasingly crazy ideas. There doesn’t seem to be a limit on how bizarre some of these ideas can get.

The form this takes, is the crowd discourages every individual from living through their own unique identity. People begin to live through common beliefs, many of which are so obviously wrong, they’re sometimes ridiculous.

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Our identity carries our racial wisdom. When disconnection happens, it starts in infancy. It is probably the worst hurt any of us will ever suffer through, short of death itself. No infant accepts this voluntarily. We all go down fighting. When it happens, it’s the end of natural wisdom, as well as full connection to our feelings!

Perhaps it’s natures way of preventing overpopulation.

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If we want peace, we will have to find ways to ensure that people can keep people living from their real identities.

Every time we revert to living from rules instead, things go horrible wrong.

Any one of us, left alone, will in time revert to the only wisdom available to us. Our own identity and instincts. This is hard won and accurate racial wisdom, assembled through many generations.

In this condition, we make no mistakes. Respect for other life is universal. It might take a while to abandon group beliefs, and trust internal guidance, but a reboot does happen.

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At the moment, we all live with various amounts of internal hurt, and many revert to therapy for relief. In therapy, we close in step by step, on our real and original identity.

We move quickly to childhood trauma, which is where most of the damage happened. It’s a losing effort though. Our only possible goal is to become ourselves, but still remain in a conflicted environment, where everybody believes different things, most of them extreme.

Is this the best we can look foreword to?