We can get the real thing, but only when we allow humans to live from their own identities!
All life is driven from the power and the direction of its own inner world.
If us humans are to keep a lifelong connection to our inner worlds, we absolutely need to be allowed to live from within!
We need the same respect and freedom that all life gets!
Without that, we become traumatized, usually lasting for our lifetimes!
When not allowed to live from our identities, we hurt so much we need to disconnect from our own feelings!
Once we disconnect, we also lose awareness of our needs as well as our instincts.
This has already happened to most of us!
Without the compassion that our instincts and needs provide, we may as well be robots!
Without our instincts, or a firm connection to our need for love, we lose our moral compass!
Consequently, through our own behavior, we also lose love and companionship!
As if that’s not enough, we have less of a problem with destroying the world, including the people in it, just to get what we think we want!
And so, here we are! We live in anxiety, and we live alone, even with others around!
We believe we are supposed to demand what we want, and consequently we live in conflict!
Our refusal to allow our children to live from their own identities, has redirected the world into what it is today!
Realistically, that result sounds fair enough, considering the seriousness of what we did!
Removing access to our own inner world is bound to cause some serious issues, wouldn’t you think?
Could this be this true?
Of course it’s true! It proves itself! Allow any child to grow from the efforts of their own identity, and watch the difference!
Infants respond, and bond instantly when allowed the freedom to live from their inner world!
Any older than that, and we have to go through finding access to our trauma, and then reconnecting first!
Any reconnection that we manage will be full of the pain that caused the disconnection!
That pain is why we don’t spontaneously heal! Wounds normally heal. Disconnection doesn’t!
We go on, day by day using energy to hold off the pain that caused our trauma. If we weaken, the hurt comes back!
We have to accept that hurt to reconnect! It’s part of us now! Accepting it though, ends its dominance over our feelings and our behavior.
It ends our anxiety as well!
We get to be ourselves again!
Thanks for listening!
Good luck on your own journey!
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Take care,
Norm Cormier
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