Most of us can’t have a proper relationship anymore.
Sadly, we can’t feel how much we need them.
We aren’t acutely aware of how much others really mean to our lives.
What caused this loss?
We aren’t living from our inner power. Or our instincts! Or our needs! Or our feelings!
If we were, we wouldn’t behave as we do.
We would treasure any others who know how to treat us. We would never risk those bonds, not for anything.
We also wouldn’t waste any effort over those others who can’t feel anything. They can only bring us pain, and we can’t help them.
Only they can do that.
WHY AREN’T WE LIVING FROM OUR OWN FEELINGS?
We should be. Anxiety is what happens when we can’t.
We aren’t designed to live alone like we do.
We’re designed to “live out loud” in a sort of group consciousness.
The agony we suffer, from missing that way of living is something we keep hidden, even from ourselves.
We all began life living from our own power.
In the beginning, we get energy as our life force rearranges matter and creates our bodies.
We are meant to live from that energy and wisdom for all of our lives.
But, we didn’t get to! None of us did!
That’s all that’s wrong with this world.
People are naturally loving, cooperative, and responsible!
Any one of us can prove that. Allow any child to continue living from their own resources instead of our instructions, and that’s what happens, every time!
We get a kind and loving human. We also get the strongest, healthiest, and most capable person that they could ever be!
Life is designed to be driven from within. That’s the only way it can successfully work.
THE SAD TRUTH!
When living from the energy within, bad behavior doesn’t exist.
That’s right! We are causing all of our own problems.
We do that by trying to instruct infants, who are already designed by nature, to live from their own inner drive and instincts!
The proof is easy. Allow any infant to live from their own resources and what do you get?
A complete lack of bad behavior.
Every single time!
WHAT ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS
What limits how close to others we can get?
Our ability to live from our own needs, instincts, and feelings sets our solid limit!
If we can do that, others fully accept us, and that never changes.
If we can’t do that though, every relationship is going to go bad! Always. Our own behavior causes it.
We can see it happening all around us.
What we can’t see is the pain. We suffer in silence.
But, we do not behave well!
LIVING THE DREAM!
To live in the warm comfort of the embrace of others is the ultimate peace!
That’s always true, whether we understand it, or not.
Whenever it happens to us, we feel it. We feel great.
But, if we don’t understand why, we lose it. Because of our own behavior.
To keep relationships, we must always allow the energy of others to come from within them.
That’s the secret to life!
Few of us know how to do that!
Which is why we all suffer conflict in these times. We destroy our own precious relationships.
Especially with our children!
Thanks for listening,
Good luck on your own journey.
This post is part of https://clarity-of-innocence.com
Take care,
Norm Cormier
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