What do we need?
Life comes from inside!
We need to be ourselves, expressing our own inner world!
We need to be respected and encouraged without censorship!
We need to have a function within the group that we live with!
Give us that, and we will never wish for more!
Wisdom!
These ambitions are not what we have been led to believe will make us happy!
They are accurate though! Our inner world knows that! Our instincts know that!
Anybody still connected to their inner world and still able to feel their own needs knows that!
This life!
In our present environment, we do not express our own inner world! That’s our secret!
We present the face we hope will be accepted best!
Any respect we get is only for that face. It doesn’t do our real selves any good at all. We don’t feel respected, because that’s not even us! It feels like a joke!
We work hard to get what we think we need! Success doesn’t satisfy us though!
Only our real identity and instincts know what we need! If we can’t feel those, we have no chance of ever feeling satisfied!
How did we get this way?
Our infancy!
Life comes from inside!
All life has the energy to survive, and then some!
We humans call it self-esteem!
All other life supports their young in learning to manage life through that awesome inner strength!
We forgot how to do that!
People no longer support the real nature of their offspring!
Infancy!
We no longer support the inner world of our infants!
With the best of intentions, we overwhelm it with our directions and beliefs!
Our help has no chance at all of ever competing with the value of their own instincts, feelings, and all around connection to life.
All we manage to do is leave them helpless!
SUPPORT!
That’s what infants need!
They will do the rest, and love you for it!
That’s what they need!
That’s all they want!
Give them that, and their health will be as good as it possibly can be.
Anxiety will be non-existent!
Strength will be full-out!
They will always be living from their own identity!
They can feel their own needs!
They can feel their feelings!
They will be real people.
Loving and cooperative, responsible and emphatic, they will be loved and they will be capable of real love.
That’s who people really are.
This is who we all really are!
Full support at the most important time in our lives is what makes the difference!
We all need to support our young along their own path!
Thanks for listening!
Good luck on your own journey,
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Take care,
Norm Cormier
I welcome considering other thoughts.