Clarity of Innocence

Preferably, we stop our habit of breaking them in the first place!

Let’s look at that first.

Life comes from inside!

All we have to do is let it!

It seems to be a universal belief now that our job is to guide our young!

Our convictions have ignored the most wonderful cultures that have ever happened, and our convictions have brought the human race to the brink of extinction!

Are we sure we’re qualified?

What if there were something far more qualified?

We are all born with a fixed identity determined to survive and enjoy life, guided by instincts developed over millenniums, along with awareness of our own needs.

That’s how all life starts out!

How should we guide that?

Seriously, we are infinitely far from being capable of competing with that enormous advantage that every infant has as to their own welfare!

All we really have to offer our young for guidance is a whole bunch of guesses!

Of course, we are each determined that our viewpoint is the right one!

Right or not though, this isn’t the real point!

All guidance harms!

Instincts know far more.

Each child is aware of their own needs. We aren’t!

Their identities carry the wisdom of life, from all time!

When we interfere with the progress of their identity by overwhelming it with our demands and suggestions, we only cause damage!

We cause them a loss of connection with instincts, as well as feelings, and the identity itself!

That’s the issue!

That’s what we are doing wrong!

On the good side though, it’s all we’re doing wrong. There aren’t a million problems to soles at all. Only this one!

Lack of trust is why people are alone and untrusting now!

It’s why we don’t live in a loving community!

No infant is going to trust any other who is causing damage, intentionally, or unintentionally!

So they don’t! That’s why we get anger and defiance!

Even if we overwhelm the identity of our children with perfect information, we have still destroyed their inner power!

And, there it is!

The sole reason we the human race is living in conflict instead of trust and love right now!

We destroy the inner strength of our young!

We kill self-esteem!

We just have to stop doing that!

We want desperately to believe our input is necessary, and that we are helping!

Unfortunately, nature knows far more about life than we do just yet!

We could learn. But, that’s not what most of us are doing!

Each infant we interfere with affects those around them, as well as our environment.

Some of these people go on to cause war and kill thousands of others!

We seem to believe that people are naturally destructive. We think we all have an evil side!

Well, we don’t!

Humans are the most loving life on the planet!

It’s our own interference causing all the trouble.

The proof is that the moment we stop, the destruction ends!

We can help though! Really help!

We do that by supporting the fixed identity already in place, within every infant.

This supports instincts and inner strength. It supports independent life, peace, cooperation, and health!

But, right now, we cause enough hurt to our young to cause internal disconnection, before they are strong enough to resist!

As we cause disconnection within each child as they come along, we cause our entire world population to always be traumatized!

Our world is a mess! We need to accept that with the best of intentions, we are causing this!

To solve every problem the human race struggles with, all we have to do is stop causing our young to disconnect from their own feelings!

We need to grant them natural rights!

The right to be themselves!

Is that so unreasonable?

Well, it just fixes everything!

Try it! It works!

Can we imagine not allowing others to be themselves?

Well, that’s exactly what we do!

Allowing our young their own right to be themselves, and to guide their own progress in life, lets them stay as powerful and responsible as they were at birth!

All they need is already within them at conception!

If we allow them to keep their natural power, we get natural and normal, loving, supportive, and cooperative life!

We are, at the moment, dynamically preventing that, one infant at a time!

It should be no surprise that we have an epidemic of low self-esteem!

Any one of us can allow our young to keep their own drive and inner power!

The result is cooperation and help!

It really is just that easy!

Is it not obvious that humanity is on the wrong path?

The awesome power of allowing the identity of our young to remain intact is astonishing!

We bring up the strongest adult possible!

Why would this be a surprise?

Life comes from within!

It needs to keep the inner power it started life with!

When we allow that, we get loving adults!

We also get cooperative and loving children!

How to fix ourselves!

Finally, we get to the promise of the title!

Yes, we are broken!

Does anybody really believe it’s natural and normal to be hurting inside, and so lost?

Of course not!

We are hurting because our feelings are hurting.

Our identities are trying to guide us with the wisdom of the ages, and of life itself.

But, we can’t feel this, and being adrift, our every action takes us further away from our own happiness.

Our identity is aware, even if it can’t tell us. Our feelings follow as well, even though we can’t sharply feel it.

The result is more like despair!

Where do we start if we are to repair this?

Clearly, we must reconnect internally!

Remember why we disconnected?

It was because we hurt more than we could live with!

What will our condition be like now?

Of course, the hurt will still be there! Here we remain, holding it off, and using energy to do it!

If we are to reconnect with our feelings, we obviously must do something with that hurt!

That hurt was all about us not being able to express our own identity, which was also our joy.

It was supposed to lead our progress through life!

That’s not a small loss. It’s a life-or-death loss!

The only way we survived was to disconnect!

We must deal with that hurt! We might as well.

We live it every day anyway, as we continually maneuver to avoid it!

Much like getting a tooth pulled! We hurt forever, or we take the plunge and fix it!

This time though we get real life back! We get ourselves. We get inner strength! We get joy! We get to open up and express ourselves full-out! No more holding back!

We get to be like we were in the early years!

If we have to die eventually, this is the condition we want to do it in!

Ironically, it seems to be true that the fear of dying eases off as we regain inner connection. Therefore, there might be more to that thought than we might assume!

Where to start?

Secrets!

One by one we stop concealing our real experiences!

Our ultimate goal is to express all of who we are, without holding anything back!

What stops us from revealing our secrets?

Shame!

It feels like we would die of shame!

Why would we be ashamed of our own actions?

We have been told how to be! How do we feel when we defy that?

If we think this through, we are clearly ashamed of revealing our real identity, or else something shameful we did while disconnected, but still because we were disconnected.

Realistically, we never did anything wrong!

All we did was defy the way we were told to live!

Our identity would understand!

It has to be all the other people we are worried about!

Rightly so, too, as trust is the most important thing in our human lives!

It becomes important to get a handle on those who would understand, as opposed to those who will condemn us!

Learning this lesson is never a waste of time!

Professional therapy is supposed to support us! It also helps us make faster progress!

Barring that, we can start small, learning who we can trust as we go along!

Unsurprisingly, those we trust are going to turn out similar to how we will eventually return to being!

Revealing our secrets is full of embarrassment and shame! There will be hurt as well, but those we choose will have a lot to do with how much of that we must endure.

All by itself, this will return us eventually to our identity. It’s one way to get there.

Hopefully, we will get better at this! Our world is full of hurt! Fixing that is a whole lot cheaper and more comfortable than going through all the violence and pain that happens!

We can hurry the process by expressing ourselves as completely as we can. If we can live out loud, the process is much faster.

Secrets have less power this way! We become afraid less intensely and less often!

Any way at all that we can get ourselves through the shame and the hurt, reestablishing a connection with our own feelings, brings us closer to becoming fully alive again.

As we progress, we gain strength. It just keeps getting progressively easier!

This almost finished post is part of https://clarity-of-innocence.com

Thanks for listening.

Good luck on your own journey!