This balance develops in the first few years of life!
The energy of all life comes from the inside!
If that’s not allowed, then we get trauma!
If treated with the same support and consideration that nature provides for all life, humans are invariably trusting, loving, and playful!
If we support their own energy, our young remain emotionally healthy, and consequently kind and loving.
Identity
It’s when we ignore their efforts to learn on their own about life and survival, that everything goes wrong!
This is where kind and loving feelings turn defensive and hostile instead!
This is what we do though!
It’s our default parenting plan these days!
Following our present recommended methods of parenting, we ban the identity of our kids from participating whatsoever in their own development!
Then they have to escape from their own hurting feelings!
Not being able to power their own lives, as all other life does, causes enough hurt to cause internal disassociation!
This bring up an epidemic of low self-esteem! The world’s adults eventually all hurt!
Identities are powered by the energy of life. We call it self-esteem. It’s everybody’s inner power.
The spark of life comes from inside!
Kill that, and we will spend the rest of our lives wondering where we went wrong to cause such a damaged and troubled person!
If we listen to our instincts instead though, we will passionately protect that spark
Our instincts can be trusted absolutely!
Our Media
If we listen to our media, we will unintentionally crush the power of our children!
Our media has a powerful voice. It easily overwhelms our natural wisdom.
As our media becomes increasingly automated, its ability to change decreases. Artificial intelligence may be locked into mankind’s present point of view by now!
We have stopped spanking our kids. That’s a healthy start.
The evidence that everybody is supposed to have their own inner power is mounting. That means we need to allow kids even more freedom in managing and guiding their own progress.
Hopefully, at some point we will arrive at the truth. All life owns itself. This understanding is the root of peace.
The instant we stop trying to control other life, our world changes. Peace happens!
People want better self-esteem now. It’s becoming an epidemic.
That needs to be our goal. It keeps people in optimum health. It allows us to keep connection with our feelings. It allows everybody to remain nice, instead of fragmented.
At the moment, we force obedience, we cause consequential hurt, and consequently we create people who feel bad, feel helpless, and set out on a search for the self-esteem that they have lost!
This is our default behavior now, and it’s considered normal!
It has to go.
Personal power needs respect. Then it behaves with respect!
Doing that alone fixes a whole lot, if not most of the world’s problems.
Our hurt causes various degrees of disconnection, and then a life without guidance from our feelings. This, of course, causes further hurt and trouble!
That’s our world now. Trust is obsolete at this time.
We can have life back, the way it should be anytime we are ready.
All that’s necessary is to allow everybody to keep the power they were born with.
Everything changes if we do that!
Teenage rebellion will no longer exist. Children will be amazingly competent once again!
Society will readjust itself to accommodate peaceful, loving individuals.
Many laws will be redundant. The same with safeguards.
Our present society is designed for rebellious hostile people looking for outlets for their anger. That won’t exist anymore!
All we have to do is allow people to keep their own power!
All other life always does already!
Because it’s Valentine’s Day, I am going to publish this start, and then add to it, bit by bit.
Thanks for listening.
Good luck on your own journey,
This post is part of https://clarity-of-innocence.com
Take care,
Norm
I welcome considering other thoughts.