It is critical that we support the natural identity of our young!
That alone, can and will, remove conflict throughout the world. It does that, because it eliminates hurt.
Most, if not all of us, live with a lot of hurt. Some aren’t aware of it, but feel it, and act it out, anyway.
Some of us hurt so much, we become blind to the pain in others. These people, have no limits to the pain they can cause, without even being aware of it.
That hurt is the only thing preventing the utopia that this world should be, could be, and probably has been, on many occasions.
Have you noticed that people in therapy gravitate to childhood issues? There’s a reason! That’s when we first enter a world where we feel hurt inside us, that doesn’t go away. It usually stays for life.
We need some background to proceed any further.
All life comes from within. Our identity is us. It contains instincts, racial wisdom, going back to the very beginning. Each of us can only ever be the one creature, that was created at conception. We are each the best of the best, having beaten unimaginable odds, just to be here.
People are loving, cooperative, giving, and fully supportive, until carrying hurt. Then we can become fearful and dangerous.
Now, where does the hurt come from?
Every life on the planet gets support in their own efforts, with one exception.
Children! They do not get support in their own feelings and goals.
Would that cause hurt? Well, what if our identity is serious at being us, and guiding us through life as efficiently as possible. It understands our needs in a way that no other person ever could.
This is our inner power. We have all seen others with no inner power, at all. They just seem helpless, and don’t get better.
Is it obvious that our basic identity needs support, rather that becoming overpowered by the wishes of others?
It’s only people, who don’t get support in becoming strong, as themselves. That hurts. It all happens, in the very early years, as well!
Mankind wants to believe that when we ask kids to obey, we are making them stronger, and more cooperative.
What really happens, is they learn to hide everything we don’t like. Then they stop living out loud, unlike every other life on the planet.
They are hurting.
That’s what happened to each of us. We cannot live out loud. We have secrets. We hurt. For what?
When mankind forms a group, it seems to become able to believe any amount of wrong ideas.
Any one of us, on our own, without the support of society, would never treat our kids in a way that minimizes the importance of themselves.
We would naturally encourage and support our children’s own power. They would respond with love and kindness, because that’s just what happens. It’s not hard to prove! Just do it!
The world can be fixed, in one generation. It requires the understanding that hurt causes conflict, and also some changing, which turns out to be a benefit, rather than a chore anyway. Why a benefit? Can you imagine absolutely no conflict?
We need the largest group possible helping spread this message. It has the power to end our creation of people, so damaged, that they make war!
All of these suggestions are easy to confirm.
Good luck on your journey, and please do what you can to verify these values, then help get them out there, into the population.
This post is a repeat of “We can stop wars, right now”, but presented in a more positive manner. It seemed that it might be easier to read. The results? People are reading this version of the very same story, far more than the other!
Take care. Good luck on your journey. Thank you for your interest.
Norm.
I welcome considering other thoughts.