Yes, we do spread hurt!!
It’s not supposed to be like this!
Pain-free people are loving!
The problem is – We’re not pain-free! Not by a long shot!
Is there conflict? Well, our hurt made that happen, just as surely as if we were trying to cause it!
Why do we hurt? Where is it coming from? Let’s have a look at that.
All life comes from inside!
All identities are fixed, for life, at conception.
For every life, identities carry racial wisdom.
Our identity, protects us, and guides us along our path, all through the use of feelings.
What that means, is that every life can only be the one thing, that it already is!
What, do you suppose happens, when we don’t allow our children to be their own identity, which provides their guidance, and their power?
Why, do you think, would we ever refuse to allow our children their own power?
Well, we wouldn’t. Not if we were on our own, away from society.
Without guidance from society, we would use our own instincts in caring for our young.
Just like the rest of nature, we would get it right. We would allow them, their own power, and build on it!
It is understood that very few if any of us, would ever cause hurt on purpose.
Well, we don’t have to wonder what happens when we don’t allow our young their own power!
! War happens !
It takes a while. It starts with people who hurt. They stop reaching out with trust. They become defensive. They form groups to ameliorate the hurt. They isolate and adopt an “every man for himself” attitude.
The hurting starts conflict in this way. The control we use to manage the conflict, adds more hurt. People become isolated and fearful. It escalates.
Conflict is a long-term result of hurt!
No life can be what we want!
They must be themselves!
That includes our children!
When we insist that our children become the way we choose, what we are asking for, is impossible!
They cannot do it!
Want to know what really happens?
They start hiding things!
Whatever they believe we don’t approve of, becomes a secret!
Which puts us where?
Our children take who they really are, underground!
They will never live out loud again! They will hide who they are, for their lifetime!
And, that’s who we all are!
To be what others want us to be, hurts! It hurts because it can’t be done, until our identity is defeated!
In the process of doing it’s job, our identity will not allow our innate wisdom to be discarded in favor of frivolous behaviors, that are not even good for our long term survival!
Our identity will not surrender, and just go away. As might be imagined, it will fight to do it’s job, almost to the death.
Our children hurt! We place a giant pile of hurt into each child, before they ever get strong enough to resist!
So now, every person in the world, hurts inside!
You know that’s true!
Because you have hurt!
Can you picture how much differently every single person, including ourselves, would feel and act, without that hurt?
That’s right, it would be the utopia, we imagine.
It’s not supposed to be like this! This is not who people are!
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Norm.
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