Clarity of Innocence

All we did wrong was to stop our nurturing, and take over infant development! 😥

The consequences have been catastrophic! 😨

Proper nurture, as nature intended, brings peace and community! 👨‍👩‍👦‍👦

Troubled people, trauma, psychosomatic sickness, hate, defensiveness, conflict, and war are all results of not providing nurture! 🤬

We no longer nurture our young! 😮

What’s nurture? It’s supporting new life in its own efforts to master life! 🌱

That means we are supposed to support our children’s own efforts to learn and survive! 👸🏻

It doesn’t mean we should replace their own “drive-to-survive” with our own ideas, and it certainly doesn’t mean we should use violence to do it.🔨

That’s what we do! We can “sugarcoat” it all we want. 😨

Nurture is nature’s way! It supports the efforts of new life, right across our world! 🌴

But, we parents don’t nurture anymore! 😱

The bottom line is, we want obedience, and we are ready to use force if necessary to make that happen! 🥶

Well, we shouldn’t be doing that! The consequences are troubled people, misery, and worldwide conflict! 😰

It really is just that simple! 🎯

Without support for our own efforts in coping with life, we all become troubled people. Troubled people are angry and aggressive! We did that! We caused all of that! 😈

Now we are all troubled people! We all hurt! 🤢

We flounder! We withdraw, and we fight! We have poor esteem, and we keep secrets because we no longer have the confidence to “live-out-loud”! 😬

We have been making a bad mistake! ❌

There is no middle ground! We can’t cheat, and get away with it. 🤫

We either nurture or we don’t. We get either happy adults with good self-esteem, kindness, and compassion, or we get traumatized adults, with hate and anger issues. 🔀

Life is a fixed entity! We cannot do whatever we want, then walk away expecting no consequences!

Of course there are degrees of nurture, and therefore degrees of trauma! ⚖

The aftermath though, holds true in every instance. ✔

Nurture leads to utopia. It invites comfort, trust, and cooperation. 💕

Demanding obedience leads to trauma and war! 🛑

Ironically, even our own lives are infinitely more fun and easier when we back off, and allow our young their own identities, instincts, feelings, and drive! 💎

They become our friends and can’t do enough for us! I know how this sounds! Try it though! Prepare to be amazed. 💝

We can have world peace in one or two generations. 🌍

For verification, try this on a smaller scale. The younger, the more dramatic and instant the results appear. 👼🏻

Thanks for listening!👂🏻

Take care. 🖖🏻

Good luck on your own journey! ✈

Norm 😊