Clarity of Innocence

We have a natural right to be our complete selves, and still be supported and respected while in that condition.

That’s real life.

It’s the way our lives were all meant to be!

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Having every one of our unique qualities recognized, accepted, and allowed, all without change, puts us at our very best for ourselves and for everybody else as well!

This is our natural life. It’s our default condition.

There’s one thing we usually do to ruin that loving condition.

That one thing, is refusing to allow others to be their complete and natural selves.

Unfortunately, that is just what we do!

The farther away we get from our natural condition, the worse all of us feel in our day-to-day lives.

We have left comfort and trust behind now. It’s become a world of “everybody for themselves”.

Most of us are overwhelmed with more than we can manage. More likely than not, we will get reported to authorities if we ever drop the ball somewhere. It doesn’t even have to be a real danger. Somebody else’s perception of danger can be enough to bring in the people who can destroy our lives.

People are naturally helpful and supportive unless they are hurt and angry. Most people are hurt and angry now.

It takes a community to raise a child. Community also helps out when help is needed.

Very little of this exists anymore. People help for their own gain.

We have come all the way to misery. People smugly look down on neighbors who struggle.

Other people are regarded with suspicion, and kept at a distance. Especially those obviously needing some form of help.

Community is gone!

We have also been cheated out of our real lives!

Our ability to share our deepest feelings has been reduced to just about never!

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We are being told a load of crap when we look to improve our lives. Most of us believe it.

Follow the rules! Make up more rules! Report your neighbors!

These actions are what brought us to this point!

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We are leaving behind, everything most important to humanity!

People crave acceptance!

We have made that all but illegal!

It’s still getting worse!

People look for chemical relief from what’s left of their feelings. Others are fighting off dictators and would be dictators. Those who get ahead a little, take everything they can get!

Fewer and fewer of us are really happy.

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We are proudly going the wrong way!

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Imagine going through life feeling full support from every person we meet, as we go through each day.

That’s the real nature of people. It’s the real world!

That’s how we are all supposed to feel, always.

It’s the normal environment for people.

To feel as bad as we all do, and to receive so little support unless we follow all the rules to perfection, suggests we have somehow left everything important behind!

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The more we accept people, the kinder they get!

This takes us towards Utopia!

Good life is all about acceptance! It’s about respect!

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Would it be a surprise, that this all starts in the beginning?

Infancy!

What do infants need?

Approval and respect to remain themselves, and take on the world through their own power!

There is a name for that!

Nurture!

That means to assist new life!

It doesn’t mean to overpower it!

It doesn’t mean to force it to be something else!

Each of us is different. We are all the best of the best, but in different ways.

We all need respect, approval, and support! Outside of basic necessities, that’s all we really need. We will go get the rest. Whatever is available. We will be unstoppable. That’s what inner power does.

Ever try to stop an infant from learning to talk or to walk? The power of self-drive far exceeds the power of our demands!

If enough infants get that support they desperately crave, our entire civilization will naturally turn to becoming kind!

It makes sense, doesn’t it!

Will increasing punishment to make others behave as we wish, take us to a better place?

We all know that’s not what happens. Everybody gets angrier. Life becomes no better than a prison!

What we don’t grasp is the other side of this behavior.

The more we allow and respect others, especially the very young, into being exactly who they really are, the less hurt, anger, and hostility we have in our civilization.

That alone brings community back.

We aren’t allowing our young to be who they really are.

We tell them who to be when they are too little to object.

That puts so much hurt, fear, and anger into the entire population, that it has taken us here.

The road back is one of respect.

We allow others their own life, and we learn what their real needs are! Then we do our best to support that.

We never, ever insist on them changing to please us!

Changing weakens them because of the resultant internal trauma, and brings all of us right here!

They can only ever be the one identity that they are! It cannot be changed. All they will do is hide what we don’t like. That makes them traumatized, and incomplete.

We should know! That’s what most of us are now.

To nurture is to provide what is most needed.

Let’s all do that from now on!

This post is part of clarity-of-innocence.com

Thanks for listening.

Good luck on your own journey,

Norm