With only good intentions, we killed it!
We did it with our childcare!
The power of life comes from within!
When we allow inner power in others, love flourishes.
Unfortunately, we don’t allow it!
Consequently, our children grow up feeling powerless and helpless!
They eventually build a sick world!
This isn’t a theory! It’s clearly accurate!
It’s also quite obvious! More control always causes more chaos and violence! Look around!
But, allow any infant to keep their inner drive into adulthood, and the result is a loving and competent person.
Remove hate-filled people’s access to infants, and the hate ends there!
Hate-filled people don’t allow infants any power. Without inner strength, first fear, then hate become the default conditions.
Freedom to power their own lives causes competence! Also, trust and love!
Spoiled kids are not that way because of a lack of discipline. They are that way due to a lack of respect for their feelings and identity!
Is it safe to allow kids to manage their own lives?
Surprisingly, it’s the only safe thing to do!
First of all, a child is the only one who can feel their own needs!
Secondly, we all need our instincts! But, we can’t feel our instincts if we’re not managing our own lives. Our instincts carry the entire wisdom of the human race! They’re free. No amount of learning could ever replace our own instincts!
Can you feel your instincts?
Those allowed to manage their own development from the very beginning can!
How?
The language of instincts is feelings! Can you feel your feelings?
Those allowed to manage their own development still live in feelings! That, all by itself, makes them infinitely more competent than anything we can do for them!
Instincts cause love! With instincts comes our ability to feel our own needs! What are those? Love and acceptance! That’s everything to a human! Most of us don’t know that!
When we can feel those needs we treat others with love and respect! That’s because we need them. Another name for this could be “natural morals”!
Thirdly, life is designed to find its own way! Only damage can allow it to work any differently!
Where did the love go?
We took it away. We can give it back! Then we get a loving world to live in!
Your choice!
How can we get back into our own feelings?
We lost our identity one piece at a time as we surrendered each part of it to the will of others.
This post is part of https://clarity-of-innocence.com It is still in the process of being created.
Thanks for listening,
Good luck on your own journey,
Take care,
Norm Cormier
I welcome considering other thoughts.