Love and kindness come from within!
Everything good in life comes from deep inside!
How then, could these qualities be missing in some people?
A growing number of us don’t get to live life from the lovely human qualities that come from deep within us!
EVERY ONE OF US IS PRESENTED WITH A CHOICE!
It may be true that we have no choice in our early years.
Most of us will have been torn away from living from the energy of our inner worlds.
Isolation becomes our world.
As adults though, we get a choice.
We can relearn how to live from our feelings, needs, and instincts. We can live in love!
HOW?
To do that we have to accept others as they are.
We cannot try to change others, and still live from our inner qualities.
Should we choose that road, we have accepted lives of never-ending conflict.
The reason people do things have deep roots. They will retaliate.
Our existance will become an ongoing condition of fending off the attempts of others to control our thoughts and behavior.
I expect we are all familiar with that path.
We don’t usually realize the criticism we live with is more often than not, retaliation for our own interference.
A DIFFERENT WORLD
Accepting others as they are, presents us with an entirely different life.
Sadly, there is just no way to get across to people how big this world actually is!
This is the real world.
Our world of conflict and infighting is a sad and pathetic corner of existance, while the real world lives on, in all its glory, while ignoring the pain and viciousness of our sad deviation from real life..
The real world is all good! There is no bad!
It’s a world of feelings, appreciation of needs, and the wisdom of instincts. It’s wide open imagination, and a land where we all feel appreciated and special.
A world where love has no age limit, and we all feel loved and valued.
How can we feel this way? Lack of criticism. Lack of control!
Why such a difference?
Because as we learn to reconnect with our own needs, instincts, and feelings, we also discover what we really want in life!
This changes our behavior.
It also allows us to succeed in finding our own happiness.
What do we want most?
We want approval and acceptance. We crave it with every cell of our bodies.
All by itself, that awareness makes us responsible and loving!
Our lives become successful in every real way.
We feel good. Really good. This is how life is supposed to feel!
What do the rich and powerful want? The very same thing!
Unfortunately, they don’t know it! They can’t feel it.
Therefore, they can never have real comfort and satisfaction. Their lives will be troubled and filled with excessive strive. They will steadily become more isolated.
Our inner worlds are full of feelings!
When we allow others to be who they are, we have no control.
We cannot make others behave. We must find and choose others that we are willing to include in our lives.
This sets the stage to be our complete selves once again, just as we were when we started life.
As we accept others the way they are, we also get to be who we really are.
We can reintroduce the loving qualities of our inner lives. We can live from our instincts. We can reconnect with our needs.
We can express who we really are, in full color.
With every step, no matter how small, we become more attractive to others, and we feel progressively better!
We can expect full acceptance in this, our real condition. It happens. People respond to it!
Full acceptance is the key to happiness. We don’t have to understand it. If it exists for us, we become content and confortable!
If we have this, we are happy. We no longer need to hold back any of ourselves.
Our needs cause us to be responsible and loving. It just happens. Our instincts carry the wisdom that others lack!
Children, allowed to be themselves, without control, are instinctively responsible and loving. Most of us don’t even know that.
When we surrender our efforts at controlling others.
Everything we do is a complete success, because we feel loved and valued. It doesn’t matter if we understand! This is what every human craves most, and if it’s happening, we are in heaven!
We are happy beyond the understanding of those who cannot feel their own needs!
Thanks for listening.
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Good luck on your journey,
Take care,
Norm Cormier
I welcome considering other thoughts.