THE REAL NEEDS OF PEOPLE!

Mankind is facing an ever-growing number of problems!

Why do our problems keep multiplying?

Is it because we are causing them?

As we continue to follow the same path, our problems increase.

We dig in and make more rules. Overall, though, our situation becomes less and less comfortable for us as we go along.

Shall we have a look at what we are doing, but with fresh and open eyes?

Life is driven from the inside.

There is no way to argue against that. Life arrives and proceeds to develop. It’s powered from within. Always!

Do we see that and work with it?

No, we do not.

We ignore our own feelings and needs. We ignore the needs of others as well.

We decide how things should be, and use force to make it so.

We assume we can do whatever we want without causing damage.

The result is the loneliness, the hurt, and the anxiety we all live with in these times.

Somehow, we have lost sight of our most critical issue.

We are only comfortable while living from our own instincts, needs, and feelings.

When we don’t allow our own children to do that, as all other life always does, we put each other into anxiety.

We ignore reality and nature.

Everything good and loving comes from within, not from some rule book!

Life is always driven from within.

When allowed to live from our energy within, we humans are the most loving creatures on the planet.

It’s the difference between comfortable, loving relationships and hostile ones.

Why have we chosen hostility?

In absolutely every example, those who were allowed to live from within are loving and kind. Those forced into compliance become unfeeling, difficult, anxious, and demanding.

Everything loving comes from within. What do we think love is?

It comes from inside!

When we allow life to come from the inside, we get love back!

It really is just that easy. Also obvious to anyone willing to see.

How is it that we have lost sight of that simple truth?

Instead, we cause damage and then live with the consequences.

What are a child’s needs? Almost all of us don’t know. Don’t care either. Most of us have never thought about it.

We aren’t looking to discover a child’s needs. We’re looking to follow the advice that we picked up from our peers and then expand on it through our own beliefs.

The last thing we do is attempt to discover what any child actually needs.

What are the needs of a child’s life?

Life is powered from within. That needs encouragement and support.

What happens when a child gets no support in being their own self-driven entity?

Loss of self-esteem. Loss of awareness concerning who they are. Sometimes, even what sex they are.

This is predictable.

We don’t allow a child to live from the power of their own needs, instincts, and feelings, and then suddenly they don’t know who they are.

This is not rocket science.

A child who never received support in the way they actually needed is no longer complete.

They lose awareness of their own instincts, needs, and feelings.

How will they bring up their own young?

Not through their instincts. That’s gone. They will take the damage one more small step further.

This trend has been going on for a long time now.

Each generation it gets a little worse.

We aren’t even looking for the needs of our young. We’ve already decided on our plan.

There really is good news for those of us with an open mind.

Mankind doesn’t have countless problems.

Only one.

The moment we change our ways and support our young in their own internal strength and development, we get all the good stuff back!

That’s because all the good stuff comes from inside.

It’s that easy.

We get trust. We get love. We get kindness.

This is who people really are! They simply need some support in being who they are!

It certainly does.

All life is driven from within.

It is a serious thing to overpower that and force obedience instead.

Our environment exactly matches what we are doing. Don’t allow another human to live from the power of who they are, and, surprise, they suddenly don’t know who they are.

Of course, there will be consequences. There is even worse to come if we don’t learn to respect the real needs of our children.

We have come a long way from what our own instincts were telling us to do with our young.

We have no idea how to nurture anymore. Nurture is support and encouragement, not demands and orders!

It really is time to wake up and pay attention.

We can support and encourage other life to come from within, as it was designed to do.

If we do provide for the real needs of our young, there are things we will miss. Defiance is one. Kids will have honor and respect. That comes from inside. When lives aren’t allowed to come from within, then nothing comes from inside.

The defiance we are used to is only a consequence of our own pressure to block the self-drive of our young.

There will be an absence of conflict. Did we really think we can ban a child from living from their own inner drive and not have conflict? The defiance we get from our children is absolutely fair. We cause it.

All the conflict was always caused by our pressure to not allow our young to live from their own inner drive.

Everything magical and wonderful comes from within. That’s what we will be left with now that we allow that. It really happens. The younger, the quicker.

This love, comfort, and cooperation are all things that exist in a normal relationship. Other lives are independent.

Support and encourage that, and others can’t do enough for you.

It is our lack of support for the independence of our young that has removed kindness from our world.

People are the most loving life on the planet. That’s who we all are when given the support in being ourselves.

Life is so very easy.

We have turned it into some kind of nightmare.

Life is driven from within. We must allow and encourage that. It’s the secret of life!

Yes, we created this hostile environment! We caused this chaos by ignoring the real needs of our young and refusing to see the real nature of life. It’s always independent!

We took the most loving creatures in the world and made them warlike. Why?

What have we done?

We did it to ourselves.

Let’s be ourselves, not spectators.

Thanks for listening.

Good luck on your journey.

Take care,

Norm Cormier

One response to “THE REAL NEEDS OF PEOPLE!”

  1. Good one I see a pattern

I welcome considering other thoughts.