Clarity of Innocence

Every bit of conflict in our lives takes it’s toll.

That’s what happened to our self-esteem!

What’s the source of conflict?

It’s not about fighting over things we want, as one might assume.

It’s about the loss of identity.

Conflict usually, if not always, happens when an identity is trying to be itself, and then encounters others who won’t allow that.

It may get confusing when people have built elaborate social images, to boost the self-importance, that they lost.

Threats to that improvised image can bring on conflict as well, but as always, it’s really about the loss of people’s real identity.

People don’t usually react until their identity is somehow threatened. That’s when all the trouble starts.

People do that to each other.

Nature never does!

Any person fully alive through their own identity, is the best person ever. Kind, compassionate, thoughtful, and full of fun, there is never conflict.

Go ahead and test it. It will have to be with children, the younger the better. That’s because it takes a long time for adults to come back from being defensive, and controlling, to protect themselves.

Undamaged children have instincts, and more drive than anybody is ever going to believe until they really see it in action.

They don’t want, or need our guidance.

Neither do flowers. Or any other life!

Their identity was already fixed at conception! They simply cannot be what we want, not without damage.

Just consider the trauma within all of us! Where do you think that came from? Did you think it was natural?

Children will always thrive, when allowed to be completely themselves. This is the strongest it is possible for them to be!

They are not our toys. They are other life, in our care!

They are already who they are, and nature has provided them with everything they are going to need.

Just like a flower, they only need protection while they bloom, and they have a critical need to do that all by themselves.

The results will be a force to behold! Qualities that we are completely unaware of are going to appear. It has become possible for this to happen!

Our suggestions and interference are a direct challenge to their own identity. They have to crush themselves, to become as we wish. Once they do that they have lost their instincts, and everything human.

That’s the sole reason society is in trouble. Allow people their identities, and everything gets better!

The result of not allowing children to live through their own identities, is the fear we all live with, in our world today. That’s what happened to make it this way.

Crushing identity causes autoimmune diseases. The more we interfere with other identities, the more autoimmune diseases that happen. We call it stress.

What could be more obvious and expected than sickness, when we refuse to allow another person to be who they are!

A person forced to be as others wish, and consequently having been forced to create distance from their own identity, is always trouble. There is trauma, and it will cause chaos throughout our world. It’s happening now!

Without that natural importance of their own identity, they are going to damage the world, trying to regain their feeling of importance.

That’s who we all are now, to various degrees.

Nature supports every identity in it’s own efforts. She supports independence, and ability.

When we do the same, conflict won’t be part of life!

What’s really cool is all the other wonderful things that happen in the presence of strong identity.

There is so much of the world we just don’t see or encounter, while engaged in fighting with each other.

This post is part of clarity-of-innocence.com Thanks for your interest.

Norm