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🏁What are people really supposed to be like?🏁
We started out fully alive! We felt powerful! Back then we feared nothing, with the one exception of instinctive danger. We lived full-out from our hearts and from our needs. Our trust was absolute. We had a craving to understand everything! Our eagerness to try things knew no limits. Our goal in life was play.…
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🕯Why are some people confident, while others are insecure?🕯
It’s all about being lucky. We need the approval and support of others so much, we self-destruct without it. The energy of life comes from within. If we got respected and encouraged for everything that we really are, as all other life does, then we are a strong and loving person. This is true for…
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💡How To Be More Confident💡
We all begin life strong. In this unhealthy environment though, just about all of us have lost most of that power. Full support and encouragement is normal for new life. People though, have to get by on our own, without getting that approval. Can we become strong and confident again? Yes we can, and it’s…
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How do we destroy someone else’s self-esteem?
That is the greatest, most wonderful question ever! We do it by causing them to doubt their own feelings, and then eventually their entire inner lives. We cause them to be hurt, then angry, and then to be ashamed of those feelings. We cause them to have to hide their real nature along with those…
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❓How can we get strong again❓
Contrary to our normal beliefs, how comfortable we feel expressing everything that we can is what determines how brave we will feel. What limits our expression? We do! Every time we control the actions of another person, we limit it more. Controlling others puts us in fear! Backing off brings us back out. For every…
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🖤Evil is winning, and it’s our fault!🖤
We raise our kids to succeed! That’s not what they want, or will ever want! They want to feel strong! We need to be raising our young to be strong! That’s what they want! That’s what all life wants! Given a choice, they will choose strength every time! It’s their life, not ours! We are…
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🧡People are wonderful if we just let them be!🧡
The energy of life comes from within! That’s how all life works! Whenever we allow that in people, we get warm and loving creatures! On the other hand, when we interfere, choosing to direct others, especially our children, we end up with confused and self-centered people. Why? Because overpowering their inner systems damages the connections…
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💖For proper self-esteem, our energy must be coming from our identity!💖
Life comes from within. To be healthy, that has to happen. We all began our lives with no limits to our behavior. Without limits we feel naturally powerful. It’s the limitations imposed on us, and the bad feelings we get when we feel helpless because we can’t fully express ourselves, that cause low self-esteem. Can…
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🌟Can we get people to be nice again?🌟
Sure we can! Nice comes from inside! Everything good comes from inside! First, we stop telling others what to be! Then we seek out an environment where we get the same support! Then, everybody gets kindness back! We may need convincing that this can work. Most, if not all of us believe that other life…
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🤢What happens when we make people feel bad enough?🤢
We get drug problems! We get people so angry they no longer care about right or wrong! We get hostile people! We get people who will find drugs to escape the painful lives that they are left with! Blaming drugs is just sloppy thinking! Our job is to stop causing misery! WHY DO PEOPLE FEEL…
