Finding the root cause for this gradual drift into isolation requires an absolute compulsion for truth, along with a lot of observation.
What’s the cause?
The support we give, or don’t give, for our young’s own power.
Providing, or not providing that support, raises or reduces the self-esteem, and consequently the conflict throughout our entire civilization.
Not helping our even allowing our young to tackle life through their own energy, eventually takes every one of us into isolation. There is a series of events.
These “cause and effect” results can be seen in those around us, throughout nature, or they can be demonstrated.
It’s normal to provide support for the self-power of new life. All other life does.
Every life is driven from within, and in its beginning, requires only protection from danger that it can’t cope with yet.
Just to be clear, this protection needs to support the new life’s own power!
We look at a newborn. We see a helpless creature, and it’s easy to assume it needs to be taken care of.
That assumption, right there, is the source of world-wide loneliness.
No life wants that! Do it, and it’s going to rebel in some manner.
Every life is conceived with all of the necessary energy to survive.
It wants to survive. It wants to do that on its own. It is conceived with that purpose.
Do you want that power? Of course, you do! Well, you have wanted that right from birth! It’s your natural right!
All our children want from us is temporary protection until they are strong enough to take care of themselves.
Cooperate with them on that level, and your world is blessed with more love than you could ever imagine.
They are partners in their development. They are not followers.
If we take over, we will pay! And do we ever pay!
Our entire population is adults who have been so hurt, they will probably never recover their full self-esteem!
What kind of a world would happen, if all the adults were like this?
You guessed it! This troubled one!
We humans haven’t always taken over the lives of our children to this degree.
In an exact match, we also haven’t lived with this much conflict throughout society!
The best way to test this hypothesis is to back off and respect our children’s own quest to own their own power.
Life will change, to say the least.
This is when we discover it’s not a hypothesis at all!
It’s reality. Life becomes normal for humans. Everybody feels good. Trust and play happen.
None of this information is a secret. It’s all right there throughout nature and within our instincts and our all-around awareness.
We simply need to listen to our own inner voice!
Thanks for listening.
Good luck on your own journey,
Take care,
Norm
I welcome considering other thoughts.