In that condition, we don’t argue! We don’t want to!
We can feel our needs. We can feel our feelings. This is our natural language!
We can feel what we want!
We all want to be cared for, appreciated, and loved!
We couldn’t care less where the borders are. We aren’t interested in who’s the king.
We want only comfort and reality!
Real People Are Kind!
We only became difficult when we couldn’t feel our own needs!
Most of us at one time or another have been in an environment or group where we really felt comfortable.
Sadly for us, that experience wasn’t special at all. It’s the way we’re always supposed to feel!
Why aren’t we our real selves?
Because we’re never allowed to be!
Life comes from within. The power and drive come from within!
We are supposed to be encouraging our young to find their own way through their own efforts.
That way, they remain their real selves!
Then, they can still feel their own needs and feelings.
This is a whole different person than what we are causing now, with our massive overreach!
Real people don’t need discipline! They want only love and care! They are naturally responsible because they have a firm connection with their instincts!
Can you feel your instincts? Your needs? Your feelings?
We can’t! None of us can! Not to any extent! Not without a lot of therapy.
But, don’t ever assume our young can’t because that’s where they live!
This is what life is really about!
This is why children get so upset when we don’t understand!
What do we do in therapy? We work to get as close as we can to our real selves. That means reconnection!
Why, oh why, should any of us ever need therapy to find our way back to being ourselves? Seriously, how sad is that?
Have any of us ever seen anybody in therapy who wants to take over or destroy the world? Of course not! They only want natural love and appreciation!
People are the most loving creatures on the planet.
That’s who we really are!
We need only to welcome back the basics of life. Feelings, needs, and instincts! These all come from within!
Do that, and there are no problems!
All people with a firm connection to their inner world already agree with each other. Reality, responsibility, and comfort are their concerns, not conquering others!
Yes, people are naturally responsible! They are firmly connected with instincts and duties.
Want lovely people? Then let them be themselves!
We are not smarter than nature.
We don’t grasp that people have needs! We don’t know that our young are firmly connected with an inner life, rich with human values!
Thanks for listening.
Good luck on your own journey.
This post is part of https://clarity-of-innocence.com
Take care,
Norm Cormier
I welcome considering other thoughts.