How?
Stop causing conflict!
There is nothing natural about conflict.
Nor its consequences!
How do we cause conflict?
We interfere with the natural flow of life.
Life that doesn’t want our interference!
We direct it!
We push it down a path of our choosing.
But, life always comes from within!
It’s designed to find its own way, powered from within to satisfy its own needs!
Allow that flow, work with it, and conflict never happens!
But, that’s not what we do!
We interfere with the natural drive of our infants, force obedience instead, and unknowingly create a war that can’t end until we either stop or exterminate ourselves!
Unfortunately, that’s what we are doing!
We humans are a naturally loving species.
There is only one way to stop that love!
Block its driving force!
That’s what we do. It sends pain throughout the entire population. It’s a hurt that can’t repair itself!
We cannot be damaging the self-drive of our young. The consequences go from defiance all the way to annihilation.
Unless our help is welcome, of course!
CONFLICT
Every bit of conflict that exists in our world today is the long-term consequence of a fight that we started long ago!
Yes, it’s true!
Proof?
Don’t do it, and conflict doesn’t happen! Not now, not later! We get nothing but love every time!
Why do some of us declare war?
It’s a consequence!
They tried to live their own identity long ago, but were not allowed to do so!
Without the full function of their identity, they cannot live the loving life humans are meant for.
Lacking instincts, they also lack morals!
Just about all of the world’s problems are the direct consequence of not allowing someone to live their own identity!
Proof? Allow others their identity! Then enjoy the complete lack of conflict!
Consequences of not living our identity!
With the loss of our identity, we also lose our instincts, and consequently our moral compass.
Then comes defiance, hate, greed, shame, and just feeling bad for a lifetime!
Boy, do we pay for that lack of insight!
What are we doing wrong?
The energy of life comes from within! Always!
We aren’t letting it!
We interfere! We take over!
We present our own roadmap, and we insist on it under the threat of punishment!
That’s all it takes to damage an identity’s ability to function properly.
The consequence? Conflict!
We have converted our social structure from trust and love into anger and violence. That’s all it took!
Think about it though! We are stealing lives!
That’s a serious invasion of natural rights!
Natural rights of life!
What does every infant want, and expect?
As with all life, an infant wants protection until strong enough to manage.
That’s all!
The last thing it wants is to be overwhelmed and forced into obedience!
RESPECT
What happens when we allow an infant their own path and energy?
You won’t believe It!
We get everything we ever wanted out of life! So do they!
We get loving responsible people.
They get to be completely themselves, driven by their own interests and needs!
Their lives are driven from within!
What happens if we ignore that though, and push our infants into our own chosen direction?
Massive hurt happens. The consequences go from loneliness to serious issues, then on to annihilation!
That actually makes sense if we think about it!
Because the energy comes from within!
Self-drive should be a guaranteed right. It causes only good people!
We are expanding our quest to give disadvantaged people fairness through natural rights!
When we get to giving infants the very same rights, conflict throughout the world will immediately end. Try it on any scale!
The Children!
Who gets the most troubled existence?
Who gets the worst intimidation from their peers. Who endures the worst bullies?
Who walks down a hallway hoping to make it to the end without being hassled or being the target of another person?
The children!
Why is it worse for them?
Why, during their most innocent years?
Because that’s when the pressure to be many things, but never ourselves, reaches its absolute peak!
COMMUNITY ASSUMPTIONS!
Admittedly, allowing others their own identity can be a difficult road in these times. Not from the kids though. The kids will be capable and loving.
Others won’t see that difference!
Our world has drifted into controlling our children. That has left them without connection to their instincts or inner strength. That has changed adults as well!
These kids can’t protect their own survival, and can’t be allowed much freedom. It would be dangerous.
Therefore, we all see kids as helpless, needing discipline and strict limits. Of course, the more we do this, the more helpless they become!
That’s what we expect from kids these days.
If other parents see our kids doing things and managing life with infinitely more responsibility, ability, and competence than theirs, they are not going to see that difference.
Most kids lack instincts and inner strength. They are also in various stages of rebellion. Ours won’t be!
The difficulties we will face will be from other parents and authorities.
They are not going to recognize the difference!
Thanks for listening.
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Good luck on your own journey.
Take care,
Norm Cormier
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