We all want the same thing. Absolute trust, fairness, and approval to be and grow as ourselves!
In this world, right from day one, we can’t have it!
That makes our job of growing up unfair and painful.
Right now, people don’t know how to just love others! 😥
Adults may be doing their best, but they unknowingly cause children to hurt!
When it gets bad enough, hurt makes us avoid our own feelings!
Kids grow up, and then become adults that do the same thing! 😣
The world is stuck this way.
That’s why everything is so crazy. People are lonely, and sometimes they even kill each other. 💀
When we hurt, and others are causing it, we lose our trust!
That leaves us alone and hurting. 😢
Children usually don’t recover from these early years!
That’s why everybody in the whole world hurts! 😢,🤑
When we were little, we were right to cry and to defy!
We should never have been punished for trying to be ourselves! 🥰
Our parents loved us! They meant well.
They didn’t know they were making us hurt! 😰
We were living from our feelings!😭
They didn’t know, because they couldn’t feel their own feelings!
They were listening to other people’s advice instead!
They weren’t listening to their own inner voice! 😡
They didn’t even know how to listen to their inner voice anymore! 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♂️
Life comes from the inside of people! 🌱
That’s where the love is! 💖
In all of nature, life and love come from the inside. 🌴
If we live from the inside, everybody loves each other! 🥰
Right now the world is crazy, and getting worse! 😡
If we grow up through our own instincts, that doesn’t happen. 🔆
For now, I guess we have to live in a world where everybody thinks they are fine, and really don’t know they are acting crazy. 🤪
Then inventing rules to fix it, but making it worse! 👮🏽♂️
As we get bigger, we can fix this!
We can let our kids grow up being themselves! 💎
That will be just like every other life in the world.
Then everything will get better, as more people aren’t as crazy. 🤠
People’s instincts tell them how to live a real life! 💕
Our parent’s instincts were telling them to respect us, and let us grow, learning to manage life through our own inner resources!
That’s how all life works!
They watched us learn to walk and talk as though it was easy.
Then they decided it was a good idea to teach us, which made us stop wanting to learn. 😬
They were being told to demand behavior from us that the grown-ups all decided was a good thing.
They didn’t even notice we were already trying to please them just as hard as we could, while still being loyal to our own needs.
They didn’t notice when we stopped trying to learn what they wanted either and started doing just enough to get by.
Managing our lives was always our job. Their job was to protect us, if possible.
They couldn’t listen to us! They couldn’t listen to themselves either! 🙄
They just don’t know how to listen to their instincts anymore!
They can’t feel their feelings. They can’t feel what’s inside.
They probably won’t change!
This can be fixed, but first, they have to know they’re in trouble!
Most don’t want to know, because it hurts to know!
Some people go to therapy because they want better lives.
That’s when they begin to rediscover their own feelings. This helps them to realize that they should let us be ourselves!
How do we survive in a crazy world?
We need to find trust!
People aren’t made to live without trust. We crave total honesty. That’s what we had when we were two!
Remember when everybody was our friend, instantly and without reservation?
People that can still be trusted like that are hard to find now.
They won’t be the ones that go to great lengths to look like models.
They will talk from their hearts like we did when we were little.
They won’t be trying to get you to believe things. They won’t even try to get you to see them differently than they really are!
You can laugh and joke with them, without it going wrong.
It’s best to trust a little, then wait and see if it goes well.
Often you will pay for this, but finding one trustworthy person is well worth the hurt. Comfort then becomes possible.
The number of people who can really be trusted seems to be getting less and less each year.
Most have believed everything they’ve been told and are busy trying to be successful for themselves within the rules they have accepted as truth.
They don’t understand feelings, and usually don’t understand honor either. They can’t feel their identities. They live without emotional guidance.
They certainly don’t grasp that those with the most honor and those still living from their feelings never needed rules in the first place and resent the unfairness of them.
They don’t understand trust!
Unfortunately, that’s most people now!
We can’t find trusting people if we aren’t being absolutely honest ourselves. That means we must remain lonely.
Revealing our real selves, no matter how embarrassing attracts real people, those still living from their feelings!
These are the only people who can just love you!
Thanks for listening.
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Good luck on your own journey,
Take care,
Norm Cormier
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