Category: Infant needs
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🧻What’s really wrong? Why all this trouble?🧻
It starts in the cradle! We don’t get to live our identity. Every other life on the planet lives from their identity! If we can’t live from our identity, people cannot remain healthy! We fragment! This violent and troubled environment, and that’s all that’s wrong? Yes, it is! Fragment every person, and this is what…
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🚧Does worry cause low self-confidence, or the other way around?🚧
What a question. It could go either way, couldn’t it? Either system could cause the other. My feeling is that they happen together, as disconnection from identity causes both. Probably low self-confidence happens first, causing worry. I can see a few reasons. I doubt we are ever going to see an infant worry. I am…
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🌱Can we be completely ourselves in this violent world?🌱
This world is a tough place to be. Emotionally, it’s probability about as bad as it gets. The reason I say that is because if any of us were to suddenly turn up in a world as it should be, where love is normal and our entire identity is welcome and accepted , it is…
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💑Do we all need self-improvement?💑
The sad truth is our accepted ways of raising infants and children causes damage. We unintentionally cause them to disconnect from their own identity, in an effort to reduce the hurt that they are feeling. All these children eventually enter the adult world in a quest to self-improve. What that really amounts to, is they…
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🚸What are some simple and effective ways to become less anxious and more self-accepting?🚸
Sorry, the easy ones don’t work. All the simple ways just move problems around, trading one for another. That’s because what happened to us is far from simple. We started out anxiety free, and so completely self-accepting, that we never would have thought to question it. Then it happened! It’s all about identity. All life…
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🟢Did the West put the individual first?🟢
We tried! But —— We didn’t know how to do that properly, or completely! Therefore, the results we got, are a pale shadow of what should have happened. Life has identity. All life. It runs the show. It is fixed and cannot be tweaked to suit others. It provides instincts and wisdom. It helps with…
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💡Life is only complicated when we don’t accept truth!💡
All life has identity. From the moment of conception, each person has a firm, fixed identity, that is absolutely unnegotiable. That provides instincts, connecting us intimately with our environment! Strong identity causes natural life, instincts, morals, and instinctive awareness of everything human. It’s our natural and default condition! With weak (disconnected) identity, people can believe…
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💖❌As we choose identity, or else obedience, the world follows.❌💖
The best relationship on the planet is between a mother, still connected with her instincts, and her baby. It’s about trust, it’s peaceful, and if left to mother’s instincts, and not the pressure of humanity, it’s cooperative and loving. I expect people will agree, it’s the best life we ever knew! Life lives from instincts,…
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⭐Natural identity makes us equal, and excited to be that way!⭐
Loss of identity, on the other hand, through disconnection, causes feelings of being really unimportant, and then comes struggle and conflict! Identity drives all life. It provides all the good stuff such as instincts, feelings, and awareness of our environment within ourselves, and out in the world. Confidence is natural. Ever seen an infant doubt…
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⚡Only the lucky get to feel normal throughout life!⚡
If in doubt, look to Mother Nature for natural wisdom!