Category: Raising infants
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💞Following their hearts is what makes kids special!💞
We all want peace, comfort, safety, and community. We all want to feel loved, accepted, and appreciated, just as we really are! Which way of living will take us there? More control, or more freedom? It’s complete freedom that does it! Right from conception! Control only takes us into anxiety, usually suppressed. Freedom is the…
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🏁Self-esteem is critical! Children should never, ever feel helpless!🏁
Children need their own inner power, just like all other life. With full self-esteem they will be successful, limited only by what is possible for them. They will be successful in tune with their own needs and wishes, not successful by our standards! This is the best thing that could possibly happen for them! Surprisingly,…
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💕Love and community are still possible, but a few things need to go!💕
Humans are a loving, compassionate, sharing, fun, and trusting race! Doesn’t sound like anybody we know does it? It’s true though, we are a loving race. As a group, we have accepted some assumptions about life that came from the past. Some of these are making the natural trust between people impossible. Unexpectedly, they cause…
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💎When children lose their power, it’s gone for good!💎
Our present environment is not natural. In good condition, people are kind and loving, not warlike! People don’t normally have hate in them. We don’t normally feel helpless either, or feel so inadequate that we keep much of our lives secret. What has happened to the kind and loving environment that we know can happen?…
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💥How powerful should we allow our children to be?💥
Life has it’s ways. Every new life is provided with it’s own power. It’s for survival. We call it self-esteem. That’s what we see around us. Every life has it’s own power. Tons of it! We begin life with that inner strength. What happens when we allow our kids to keep it? On the other…
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🥺Agreement is our default condition. It’s about acceptance of reality!🥺
Our widely divergent views are symptoms of trauma! Most, if not all of us, haven’t been lucky enough to live in undistorted reality! We are all quite correct in our different beliefs though! From our own experience, we all make perfect sense! We simply live in different realities. That doesn’t seem right, does it? Well,…
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😛Support self-esteem, it’s our natural survival power!😛
It’s the strongest children that are the helpful, capable ones. For a sane and compassionate world, our children need to keep the inner power they were born with. It’s vital to them. It’s almost equally vital to us as well! This “balance” has been right in front of us throughout the entire existence of mankind.…
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💑👨👩👧👦Relationships can really be everything we ever wanted!
The people around us have, by far, the biggest influence on how good we are going to feel, as we go through life. Our existence these days amounts to feeling endlessly criticized while fighting to rise above the hurt that we live with. The alternative is we fall into line, do everything as we are…
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How good our world can be, is limited by the power we allow our kids.
Look at the direction that all of our sciences are taking us. We know that our criminals were once troubled children. We know people become healthy adults unless they encounter some sort of trauma. We basically understand that people are lovely until damaged somehow. We know we can fix some trauma by encouraging the expression…
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💑The more powerful we allow our kids to be, the safer and more compassionate our world becomes!💑
And vice-versa!! This turns out to be the trigger point. The fulcrum. The ultimate “cause and effect” balance of good or else bad. Change how much of their own power infants are permitted to live with, and the condition of the whole world follows. Living our own power is nature’s way. It’s the normal way…