Kind and Gentle Living? Enter “Conflict Free” Life! Our Kids Need to Live, From Their Own Identity!

Want to escape from 95% (or more), of the depressing conflict, and problems we all suffer through?

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It’s actually easy to fix. That’s because it’s us causing the conflict. We mistakenly cause the excessive levels of fear, and lack of trust, that everybody suffers from these days!

All we have to do is to stop making the same tragic, but universal mistake!

Sounds silly and simplistic, I know, but it’s truth anyway. For a long time now we have been causing our population to feel weak and helpless, which makes all of us more isolated, and then fearful.

We now live in a world of conflict, and secrecy.

How do we feel?

Probably, not many are going to want to talk about it, but the fear we all feel, is not normal!

Everybody else feels like a threat to us! We are the only life that can’t live out loud, but instead, we all live secretly!

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We don’t have to live like this!

Let’s get our normal lives back!

Our world is full of people trying to prove themselves. We have anger and defiance. We have disagreement and violence. We have a society where nobody feels safe, not while trusting other people!

We don’t have to live this way! We never did. It isn’t natural.

This trouble all comes from the same source. One unnatural act, that we all do!

We defy nature, and we pay dearly for it!

Every life on the planet lives from it’s own identity.

That’s nature’s way. That’s the way of all life!

What happens when we don’t allow other life to live from inside, through their own drive and identity?

Now, that’s a big change! Is it a big enough deviation from nature’s ways, to cause these unlimited amounts of trouble? The loss of our own identity?

Of course it is! Here we are, living the results.

The good news? We only have to fix this one thing! It will swing our entire world of trust and feelings back to where it used to be, and where it belongs.

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Bad things happen when we attempt to control the life of another!

That life, like all others, is supposed to be guided, and inspired by it’s own identity. That’s how it has to live. That’s the only way it can have self-confidence, wisdom, and power.

Evolution never created a defense for the loss of our own identity. The long term results are excessive fear, bringing on conflict, and eventually war!

All life lives from inside. The drive and the power come from within!

Our identities carry racial wisdom and memory. Right and wrong, our needs, our interests, and our love, they all originate from here!

Is it really safe to take that away? Is it wise?

Our identities normally guide and protect us through life, just the same as all living things.

What happens when we don’t allow our young to do that? What if we take over everything, no longer allowing them use of their own identity to do that job?

What if we take away their power?

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What have we done? We have disconnected them from their own morals. We have broken their connection to their identity, their wishes and needs, even who they are!!!

Could we do a thing like that without consequences?

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What do we have to do, to fix this? How can we stop causing trauma?

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We start by using our own natural wisdom and instincts, to manage the care of our offspring, and no longer somebody else’s poor advice.

Just like Mother Nature, we need to protect, but at the same time, allow our kids to bring themselves up, the same way all of nature does!

We need to let them have their own power! We need to encourage that! It will save them, and give us the best life possible, as well!

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This, alone, is an astonishing difference! It makes an entirely different world. The one we all want back!

Take their power away, and we have helpless children!

We don’t want helpless any more. Helpless causes fear, fighting, and people demanding to control other people.

An entire world of helpless children will grow up to become a world of people who feel helpless, and consequently, afraid, and defensive.

These feelings cause everyone to compete for importance. We don’t want that any more! We need our inner strength back, just like we all used to have, and naturally should have!

We can all celebrate once we leave the fighting behind. Allowing others independence, really does do exactly that!

This post is part of the blog, clarity-of-innocence.com

Thank you for this sharing of our thoughts!

Norm.

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