Living without conflict is possible.
It’s infinitely easier. It’s infinitely rewarding.
It’s nature’s way. It’s the way of life.
The peer pressure we have accepted and trust is wrong. It has brought our civilization to the brink of destruction.
WHAT DO WE DO WRONG?
People, by nature, are kind and loving.
But we destroy that. We do it in infancy.
We force them to obey us.
The result is anger, defiance, and loss of trust.
We have been doing this for so long that we think our children’s defiance is normal.
A BETTER WAY?
The better way is already built into our own instincts.
Any one of us, isolated from the pressures of this environment, would raise loving, cooperative children.
Left to our own methods, without external pressure, we would support and encourage our young along their own path.
That’s nature’s way. Life comes from inside.
Life arrives already complete. With support, encouragement, and an environment that allows life, it already knows how to proceed.
It has the wisdom of its entire evolution to guide it.That comes from within.
Our guidance is pathetic in comparison. We don’t even consider life’s needs. With stupendous arrogance, we take over, expecting wonderful results. What happens instead, though, is that we manage to remove all the self-esteem and instinctive wisdom already within our young.
Now, many of them don’t even know what sex they are.
Deprived of their instincts, feelings, and awareness of their own needs, they are crippled in the art of living.
HOW CAN IT BE DONE BETTER?
We need to allow our children to be whoever they already are!
Listen and enjoy their unique qualities.
Everything is already fixed. Life can’t be modified. It can only be damaged.
It’s already complete at conception.
Allowed the freedom to be everything they were born as, people are loving, cooperative, and kind.
Support and encouragement are what they need. Orders are not what they need.
Life is driven from within. Allow that to happen.
ENVIRONMENTAL PEER PRESSURE ISSUES
Won’t allowing more freedom make children undisciplined and dangerous?
This is what our world is telling us.
Is it true?
Absolutely not!
When we see difficult children, there’s a reason.
We are seeing defiance, anger, isolation, and the resultant behavior.
Our own attempts to force our young into our chosen behavior are causing the trouble we all have to live with. Our children grow into adults lacking inner connection.
They can’t feel their own instincts, feelings, or real needs.
They are without internal guidance, and they can be dangerous!
LIFE COMES FROM WITHIN
People are naturally cooperative and loving.
Allow us to be our natural selves and to express everything that we naturally are, and we are all kind and loving.
That’s who people really are!
Allowing that brings out the very best.
What happens as we demand obedience instead?
Conflict, isolation, defiance, and hurt. Lots and lots of hurt.
Life comes from inside. It begins with everything it will ever need. All it requires is support. Support and encouragement.
People are especially lovely.
Loving, kind, and gentle, we can’t do enough for each other. That is who an undamaged human is.
That’s what we get every time we support our young without demanding that they abandon their own inner drive.
They then grow into loving, cooperative, and gentle adults!
BUT, OUR ENVIRONMENT IS HORRIBLE
Can we live in this and still enjoy love and comfort?
Can we live in peace?
Well, we can do a lot.
What we do attracts others with the same mindset.
Allowing others their freedom to be who they are makes it possible for us to see who they are.
We can find ourselves in a “bubble of sanity” environment, far gentler and more comfortable than the combative situation most of us live in now.
People really are lovely and loving. All we have to do is stop slamming the door shut on that kindness!
Thanks for listening.
Good luck on your journey.
Take care,
Norm Cormier
I welcome considering other thoughts.