Clarity of Innocence

Our young don’t get to see freedom, as a natural condition!

It’s never been part of their experience!

They grow up, expecting to be told what to do!

This isn’t about a few restrictions. This is about control over every action, every moment of their young life!

This is unnatural.

All other life is encouraged to flourish, through the power of their own identity. That’s where drive, instincts, and racial wisdom give us the best chance for survival!

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The identity of our children have no rights, not in these present times.

They all get treated much the same way, regardless of their objections, wishes, abilities, or interests.

How is this going to allow respect for others? What it does is demonstrate, that to be controlled is normal.

This attitude of normalizing control, combined with global information sharing, has put all of us in a similar, but arrogant condition.

We see conflict, we assume we know what were doing, and we insist on doing things our own way to fix it.

We are all living in an altered state of consciousness!

Normal, for all of us, has become either being controlled, or controlling others.

We have created a population, ready, and expecting to fight with everybody else.

People have lost the right to live through the power of their own identity!

Living through the power of our own identity, in the natural way, is where self-esteem used to be unlimited. That’s where everything magical, fun, spontaneous, imaginative, passionate, and real, came from.

People aren’t living their lives through their own drive, interests, goals and ambitions.

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Our lives now, are more like defending ourselves against being totally controlled, and then competing to be the one on top, immune to being controlled.

In this altered existence, others are no longer fun, entertaining, supportive, and good company. They have all become potential threats instead.

Does that leave us all alone? You bet it does, and it’s no longer fun.

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Step by step, our input causes each person to engage in a competition, to be on top, the one telling everybody else what to do. Most keep that ambition a secret. Some just give up.

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It takes each life out of the normal path of growth into independence, and puts it on an alternative path of competing for importance.

It puts each one of us, on a path leading away from our own happiness!

It throws each life into isolation and conflict.

Our identity was important to us, as you might imagine!

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It’s all about identity!

All life starts with identity. It’s created at conception. Each life can only be that one and only thing, ever!

And why not! That life is the end product of racial changes, each one for the better. Not only are there instincts and racial wisdom, each successful life has overcome incredible odds, to ever make it this far.

Every life has already won the lottery.

Every life deserves admiration. Any one of us, living in the normal and proper way, has qualities that anyone would not only be proud of, but astonished at how incredibly awesome, any one of us can be.

Nature amazingly supports each and every identity, never making a mistake.

Anybody living through their identity is enjoying a magic life, the way it’s supposed to be. Body tension doesn’t happen, not in a chronic way. Psychosomatic illness doesn’t happen. More importantly, life feels good. Others are support, not threats.

When everybody is our friend, just like when we were little, life is beyond awesome!

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But, we don’t get to be like that! All because people don’t support the identity of their young!

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People unwittingly crush identity!

Step by step, the repercussions take us into resentment, rebellion, anger, hostility, conflict, hate, and eventually war.

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That’s a lot of consequences for a seemingly small mistake.

Unfortunately though, it’s not a small mistake. It’s an attack. An assault on the free will of an absolutely helpless creature, at the most vulnerable time of it’s life.

The pivot point! The mistake! The difference between loving community, or conflict and war?

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Just what are we doing wrong?

We don’t support identity, we crush it!

Put that way, what we feel, and what we see, starts to form a picture, doesn’t it!

In one stroke, our failure to support the inner power of our young, we have created chronic fear, and this ridiculous competition for more money than everybody else can get!

Left alone, every one of us would support the identity of our young. It’s just a natural thing to do.

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It takes the weight of an entire society, mistakenly telling us how to raise our children, to break our concentration, and throw the inner power of our young into despair.

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With their identity encouraged and supported, they will be the best of the best, just as they were created. They will never question their own self-esteem because it will naturally be right off the charts. They will invariably be the happiest most supporting naturally playful and happy people anywhere. We don’t often see people like this any more. That’s the natural condition of a human though.

Unsupported, children retreat to a different path. Many day to day incidents hurt enough to cause each child to withdraw the sharing of their enthusiasm, and their feelings.

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Not sharing feelings seems to be a situation of “use it, or lose it”! We need to understand this relationship better.

Almost immediately, once we cease to “live out loud”, we no longer know what our feelings are. We also no longer know where our identity is trying to guide us, or what it’s trying to tell us.

We no longer know who we are!

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Natural kindness and morals disappear with the loss of identity. Our chances of loving relationships have tanked! Our chances of ending up in trouble have blossomed!

Life after this will be isolation and conflict! This is where most, if not all of us are, right now, in life.

We all just want to feel important, the way we used to feel!

We try to make sense of the confusion, and do the best we can.

Very few of us get through the fog of confusion far enough to work out that backing off, and allowing respect and recognition of the unique identity of each other person, fixes every bit of the conflict.

While doing this works, as far as eliminating conflict, we are not going to feel better anyway. That doesn’t happen until we are once again freely sharing our thoughts and feelings.

Doing that becomes difficult, because we are ashamed of all of it.

We are ashamed, because while we were little and being redirected over and over, to exhaustion, we made the natural assumption that we were inadequate in our natural condition!

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Conflict was, and still is, the consequence of disallowing someone else’s real identity!

It really is just that simple!

Our attempts to fix things with more rules, which of course amounts to increased denial of the identities of others, makes things ever worse.

Want proof? It’s easy to see, once we look.

For every person, the degree of control they suffered as an infant, re-emerges as the exact same degree of conflict, throughout their entire life!

Looking around the world, at societies and families, it is consistent, that their degree of social conflict, always matches the degree of control that happened to them!

And lastly, we can try getting out of the way, letting the children burn their own fuel for a change, and just watch them go.

Besides being vitally alive, they will naturally be self driven. Being self driven means following their own values, and hearts. That takes them into loving others, being loved, supporting their special people, playing, and enjoying being alive, in a way we haven’t seen in a long while!

If young enough to make the adjustment, they will begin living for themselves, right away. There is no better or happier person than one of these. Not only that, they do the dishes!

This post is part of the blog, clarity-of-innocence.com There are numerous posts. Thanks for checking in. I hope I have presented this well.

Norm.