Category: Confidence
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๐Every one of us desperately craves approval, for our lifetime!๐
The approval we need though, has to be acceptance of our real identity. What about approval we get for being what others want us to be? Doesn’t that help us? Nausea! That’s what that gives us! It puts us into nausea! That despair can and usually does get worse. It can get so bad we…
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๐งOur loving ways are almost gone! Can anything be done?๐ง
There is a clear answer. Mankind has found it’s way into believing in control. That’s what’s wrong. That’s the one drive that has put us here! That’s the difference. That’s what’s changed. People used to respect each other. People could play. People liked each other! Control is anti-life. With control, we hide inside and defend…
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๐ฉHow important is other people’s opinion of us?๐ฉ
Can we be immune to other people’s opinion? In our best possible condition, are we more, or are we less dependent on the approval of others? Wouldn’t we expect self-sufficiency to be nature’s preferred condition? It’s not though. That’s not who people are! We all need the acceptance of others. We crave it with every…
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๐Real people, in their free and natural condition are loving, kind, and playful!๐
Mankind hasn’t even tried freedom yet! When we do, we will get the expected result. A happy, fun-loving creature, who desperately needs the love and acceptance of others, and who will do absolutely anything for them. That’s a long way from what we see right now, isn’t it? It’s also utopia. Why the staggering difference?…
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๐Is our sadness a natural part of life?๐
The world’s trauma comes from each of us losing our struggle to live from our own identity! One simple event. Should the consequences be this tragic? Yes! The damage fits, just as it should! Try building your house on quicksand! How does that consequence turn out? The world disagrees on the value and the extent…
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๐งฏ We refuse to allow people to live in their own natural way. ๐งฏ
Sustainable and productive life has become impossible! People hurt! We have to buy from overseas, because it’s gradually become too difficult to make things at home anymore. Special interest groups, in their zeal and their assumption that they have a monopoly on the truth, have made it impossible to live a normal life. There just…
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โกWe cocoon ourselves, delude ourselves, and can’t see truth!โก
Every one of us are victims. None of us had any chance at all, of ever keeping the inner power we were born with! Our entire culture believes in power! Why? Because we each secretly want our power back. We want to feel right again! We want to feel strong again, like we used to!…
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๐Before we have love, we have to co-exist smoothly with others. What do we have to do?๐
Sadly, all parties need insight or therapy before this can happen! Regrettably, we have to unlearn most of what we believe about relationships! We think wrong! It’s not our fault! Our natural awareness, insight, and ability to relate and empathize has been re-directed by the world we were born into. Our environment has caused us…
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๐The confidence to think for ourselves can be re-ignited!๐
That spark we wish to ignite is our own identity. We have each become forced to give up on it in our early years, to be obedient. We all start out as a dynamo of energy, learning to talk and walk, and without interference we would have continued on that way. Mankind is causing itself…