Category: Feeling strong
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๐Do other people have needs?๐
A timely question, wouldn’t you say? Life today completely ignores this issue! Very few of us are capable of real relationships anymore! Sure we think we’re great at it! We do everything the books tell us to do! We give others everything we think they should get! Unfortunately, it doesn’t work that way, and it…
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๐Our behavior makes sure we can’t get what we need!๐
What do we need? Life comes from inside! We need to be ourselves, expressing our own inner world! We need to be respected and encouraged without censorship! We need to have a function within the group that we live with! Give us that, and we will never wish for more! Wisdom! These ambitions are not…
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๐ผThe astonishing power of new life!๐ผ
The energy for life comes from within! Support that, as nature does, and life flourishes. People too! Ignore that self-drive, obstruct its flow, and watch the trouble that begins! This is, by far, the single most important issue that humans need to be aware of! It sets both our civilization and our remaining strength in…
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What determines our ability to “live out loud”?
Surprisingly, it’s our own respect, or lack of it for other people! Change how we view others, and our whole life changes with it! Any hate we have causes damage. What damage? It suppresses our own ability to express ourselves. It’s the hater that gets shut down. Haters live in fear! If we go around…
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Ever more, we relentlessly become more incapable of relationships!
Few appreciate that there is a root cause! Life comes from within! We aren’t letting that happen! This will not end well! Things are already pretty bad! There are consequences for ignoring the self drive of our infants. We are living these consequences. It can get far worse. The process of decaying relationships begins with…
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๐Our upbringing sets the value of how important we each feel!๐
It also determines how much self-doubt, anxiety, and internal stress we will live with, for all of our lives! It shouldn’t, but it does right now, and that’s what this blog is all about! The repercussions are staggering! All together, this situation sets the values of our civilization! This is the cause of war! It’s…
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๐Is it still possible to be strong and free?๐
Yes it is! We just need to be lucky! We need to be born into an environment where others support and encourage us to face life, but only through our own resources! That’s all it takes! That’s the whole difference! That’s the only difference between severely troubled people full of anxiety, and others with plenty…
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We have made ourselves helpless!๐ข
Every life already has the inner drive and instincts to find its own way! Living is normally exciting, and we should be feeling powerful, enjoying companionship, and behaving well. That’s what people are really like! None of us though, are enjoying much in life during these times. Compared to how we felt in our earliest…
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๐งA better life, the way it should be!๐ง
People aren’t really hostile, angry, and insecure! They are actually gentle, loving, and very much aware of their responsibilities! We are all born this way! That’s who people really are! But, as parents, we don’t allow our kids to stay that way! Instead of kind and gentle, helping, and loving children, most of us cause…