Category: Needs of life!
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💎Every one of us desperately craves approval, for our lifetime!🏆
The approval we need though, has to be acceptance of our real identity. What about approval we get for being what others want us to be? Doesn’t that help us? Nausea! That’s what that gives us! It puts us into nausea! That despair can and usually does get worse. It can get so bad we…
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🟩How important is other people’s opinion of us?🟩
Can we be immune to other people’s opinion? In our best possible condition, are we more, or are we less dependent on the approval of others? Wouldn’t we expect self-sufficiency to be nature’s preferred condition? It’s not though. That’s not who people are! We all need the acceptance of others. We crave it with every…
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💑Real people, in their free and natural condition are loving, kind, and playful!💑
Mankind hasn’t even tried freedom yet! When we do, we will get the expected result. A happy, fun-loving creature, who desperately needs the love and acceptance of others, and who will do absolutely anything for them. That’s a long way from what we see right now, isn’t it? It’s also utopia. Why the staggering difference?…
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🔆Can we really be free?🔆
A world without chains! No rules for others! No rules for us! I doubt there is a person on the planet who can think about this, without a powerful reaction! Just imagine! Each of us began life this way though. All other life lives this way, always. People are the only life that cannot “live…
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💔Is our sadness a natural part of life?💔
The world’s trauma comes from each of us losing our struggle to live from our own identity! One simple event. Should the consequences be this tragic? Yes! The damage fits, just as it should! Try building your house on quicksand! How does that consequence turn out? The world disagrees on the value and the extent…
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🧯 We refuse to allow people to live in their own natural way. 🧯
Sustainable and productive life has become impossible! People hurt! We have to buy from overseas, because it’s gradually become too difficult to make things at home anymore. Special interest groups, in their zeal and their assumption that they have a monopoly on the truth, have made it impossible to live a normal life. There just…
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🎱 We tried to make life safe. Now it’s boring, frightening, and far more dangerous than it was before! 🎱
Each of us started life with an intact, dynamic, explosive, but loving identity. Others put chains on us. It allowed them to feel safer! Now, we are no longer “one” with our identity. That’s why all the trauma and secrets! That disconnection on a world wide scale is also why we cannot make any progress…
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💘Before we have love, we have to co-exist smoothly with others. What do we have to do?💘
Sadly, all parties need insight or therapy before this can happen! Regrettably, we have to unlearn most of what we believe about relationships! We think wrong! It’s not our fault! Our natural awareness, insight, and ability to relate and empathize has been re-directed by the world we were born into. Our environment has caused us…
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🚧Does worry cause low self-confidence, or the other way around?🚧
What a question. It could go either way, couldn’t it? Either system could cause the other. My feeling is that they happen together, as disconnection from identity causes both. Probably low self-confidence happens first, causing worry. I can see a few reasons. I doubt we are ever going to see an infant worry. I am…
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🚸What are some simple and effective ways to become less anxious and more self-accepting?🚸
Sorry, the easy ones don’t work. All the simple ways just move problems around, trading one for another. That’s because what happened to us is far from simple. We started out anxiety free, and so completely self-accepting, that we never would have thought to question it. Then it happened! It’s all about identity. All life…