Category: Needs
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🥺Agreement is our default condition. It’s about acceptance of reality!🥺
Our widely divergent views are symptoms of trauma! Most, if not all of us, haven’t been lucky enough to live in undistorted reality! We are all quite correct in our different beliefs though! From our own experience, we all make perfect sense! We simply live in different realities. That doesn’t seem right, does it? Well,…
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👪Present-day relationships are a poor substitute for real ones!👪
We each need to feel fully accepted, and able to express our entire real selves. Outside of basic necessities, this means absolutely everything to all life as well as us. Other life on the planet already enjoys this natural right, and always has. For people, this right doesn’t exist anymore! That’s all that’s wrong! When…
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😛Support self-esteem, it’s our natural survival power!😛
It’s the strongest children that are the helpful, capable ones. For a sane and compassionate world, our children need to keep the inner power they were born with. It’s vital to them. It’s almost equally vital to us as well! This “balance” has been right in front of us throughout the entire existence of mankind.…
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💑👨👩👧👦Relationships can really be everything we ever wanted!
The people around us have, by far, the biggest influence on how good we are going to feel, as we go through life. Our existence these days amounts to feeling endlessly criticized while fighting to rise above the hurt that we live with. The alternative is we fall into line, do everything as we are…
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💥We need our self-esteem. Support that, and love returns!💥
Nature provides the power for survival. It’s part of the package that life gets at conception. We call it self-esteem! When we don’t have that power, we feel helpless and we feel despair. Powerless, we live defensively and in fear, we attack others quicker than we trust them. When we do have good self-esteem, we…
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🏆The more of their power we allow our young to keep, the better our civilization gets!🏆
All life has it’s own power. It’s the drive to survive. We call it self-esteem! It comes from within! If we protect and encourage that power in our children, we get community. People with inner power still have their inborn sense of honor. They do the right thing because they want to. They enjoy and…
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🤬Why do people get arrogant?🤬
First, let’s look at life for people these days. We all want the power we were born with. All life does. It’s a natural right. Humans look at an infant and assume it needs taken care of. That’s the last thing it wants. That’s the last thing any life wants. It wants a safe place…
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🌹Now that we’re alone, can we get back?🌹
Finding the root cause for this gradual drift into isolation requires an absolute compulsion for truth, along with a lot of observation. What’s the cause? The support we give, or don’t give, for our young’s own power. Providing, or not providing that support, raises or reduces the self-esteem, and consequently the conflict throughout our entire…
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The condition of this world is the direct result of the way we treat our infants!
A very bold thing to say, wouldn’t you think? A small action such as caregiving shouldn’t have that much impact. It only does because it happens at such a vulnerable age, and because it’s interferes with the basic drive of every human, self-esteem. The conflict we have been generating ever since we stopped nurturing our…
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Life lives from within. Accept that, and the fighting ends!
It’s what we do with our children that sets the stage for a life of fighting, or a life of love and cooperation. The thrill and the power of life comes from inside ourselves. That’s as true for us and our children, as it is for all other life. If we are wise enough to…