Category: Respect
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♻Why Don’t We Have High Self Esteem Now?♻
I am going to suggest a slightly different picture of this situation. All life begins with “full-out” self-esteem. With normal nurturing, life keeps it! People have become a special case. We don’t nurture anymore. We ignore our infant’s drive to cope with life. We no longer encourage that. We prefer obedience and believe it’s a…
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😨Can we get over being shy?😨
The usual answer is to take a chance and express ourselves anyway. That doesn’t deal with the cause of being shy. It usually trades one fear for another. There is one thing that can be done, that will actually work. This removes the cause! Can we talk about the real reason for shyness? All life…
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☮Why can’t some people stop their arguing and fighting?☮
They can’t help it! The defiance keeps them out of fear. This always varies directly with nurturing! It starts in the beginning! (Doesn’t everything!) It’s always about either trust, or fear. The way we all experience the world is set up in infancy. The manipulators and fighters didn’t get any nurturing! To nurture, is to…
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💎Every one of us desperately craves approval, for our lifetime!🏆
The approval we need though, has to be acceptance of our real identity. What about approval we get for being what others want us to be? Doesn’t that help us? Nausea! That’s what that gives us! It puts us into nausea! That despair can and usually does get worse. It can get so bad we…
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⚛Only free people can be creative⚛
Creativity requires imagination. That requires connection with our instincts, our inner life, and the world around us. In other words, our identity. Spectacular imagination requires good connection with our identity. Many people have little or no connection with their identity. They weren’t allowed to keep it! The reason? Freedom means the opportunity to live as…
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🚷Can we hand people’s lives back over to them now?🚷
Have any of you looked at the degree of control over all human life these days? It’s insane! I expect in many people’s minds, there are rules for farting! Know what else? All this control doesn’t work! People are steadily getting less cooperative, not more! Misery is at an all time high! Trust, in the…
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🧯 We refuse to allow people to live in their own natural way. 🧯
Sustainable and productive life has become impossible! People hurt! We have to buy from overseas, because it’s gradually become too difficult to make things at home anymore. Special interest groups, in their zeal and their assumption that they have a monopoly on the truth, have made it impossible to live a normal life. There just…
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🎱 We tried to make life safe. Now it’s boring, frightening, and far more dangerous than it was before! 🎱
Each of us started life with an intact, dynamic, explosive, but loving identity. Others put chains on us. It allowed them to feel safer! Now, we are no longer “one” with our identity. That’s why all the trauma and secrets! That disconnection on a world wide scale is also why we cannot make any progress…
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⚡We cocoon ourselves, delude ourselves, and can’t see truth!⚡
Every one of us are victims. None of us had any chance at all, of ever keeping the inner power we were born with! Our entire culture believes in power! Why? Because we each secretly want our power back. We want to feel right again! We want to feel strong again, like we used to!…
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🧻What’s really wrong? Why all this trouble?🧻
It starts in the cradle! We don’t get to live our identity. Every other life on the planet lives from their identity! If we can’t live from our identity, people cannot remain healthy! We fragment! This violent and troubled environment, and that’s all that’s wrong? Yes, it is! Fragment every person, and this is what…