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💖How to fix people!💖
Preferably, we stop our habit of breaking them in the first place! Let’s look at that first. Life comes from inside! All we have to do is let it! It seems to be a universal belief now that our job is to guide our young! Our convictions have ignored the most wonderful cultures that have…
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🗽Freedom is the natural and normal condition of life.🗽
People struggle with this! Some of us believe human life needs to be controlled. Others are happiest being free and they believe in the freedom of others. What sets up this ambivalence? Infancy! Our life as infants sets up our beliefs regarding freedom! People have an inner life! This is a very active world! Our…
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🤸🏽♂️Life comes from within! Allowed to be themselves, people are awesome!🤸🏽♀️
But, we don’t allow people to be themselves! We don’t even know how to anymore! Why does this matter? The more we insist people be as we choose, the more we all suffer from anger, hostility, hate, and violence! The increased isolation and meanness in our world these days is easily visible. We imagine different…
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🎭Life lives its unique identity, or loses connection with it!🎭
We seem to have an epidemic of people choosing alternate ways to identify! I expect it’s no surprise that we all struggle to make peace with our identities these days! It almost seems like we are unsure about who we really are, does it not? What could be the reason for that? IDENTITIES Nature encourages…
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🌱🔨Humanity is losing its trust. Ironically, our rules destroy it!🌱🪓
If this is true, it means we cause our own misery! Does that surprise anybody? Humans are designed to survive and take care of each other! In our natural condition, we are trusting, loving, cooperative, empathetic, and playful. That doesn’t sound much like us, does it? That’s because not many, if any, of us are…
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🌼Every infant is the seed of a unique person!🌼
It should be no surprise that when people are conceived, their identity is rigidly locked, just the way it is. Who we each are, is set in stone. We see that with all life. We cannot make a tulip from the seed of an oak tree! Personality and behavior both change, of course, as life…
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❓Who has the best solution?❓
Who should we be listening to? I’m going to tell you a secret! When we stop demanding what we want from people, the next thing that happens is they exhibit more of their natural wish to please us! We may not get everything we want, but we can easily live without conflict, and with trust.…
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🥇Do our identities get better?🥇
All life has a common thread. Just like a seed, everything that any life is ever going to need is already in place at conception. People are the same! Their identity is already complete at conception, with instincts, feelings, and awareness of needs all ready to work together. Throughout nature, all new life is fully…
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😖People inventing their own truth can’t manage the consequences!🥴
Our human race is doing great with technology! Socially though, we’ve taken a loving race, put it in pain, destroyed trust, and managed to place every person in misery! How? By deciding we know better, rather than accepting the realities of life! Our technology has united us, thereby destroying any pockets of health that remained…
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🏆What really makes us successful?🏆
Is there any point to winning if we don’t even feel good? Success is not what most of us assume! Once upon a time, we felt ready for anything! We were happy and strong. We liked everybody! This is success. Happiness and feeling strong is success. Feeling comfortable with others, and sharing our dreams is…
