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💘Before we have love, we have to co-exist smoothly with others. What do we have to do?💘
Sadly, all parties need insight or therapy before this can happen! Regrettably, we have to unlearn most of what we believe about relationships! We think wrong! It’s not our fault! Our natural awareness, insight, and ability to relate and empathize has been re-directed by the world we were born into. Our environment has caused us…
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🚧Does worry cause low self-confidence, or the other way around?🚧
What a question. It could go either way, couldn’t it? Either system could cause the other. My feeling is that they happen together, as disconnection from identity causes both. Probably low self-confidence happens first, causing worry. I can see a few reasons. I doubt we are ever going to see an infant worry. I am…
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🌱Can we be completely ourselves in this violent world?🌱
This world is a tough place to be. Emotionally, it’s probability about as bad as it gets. The reason I say that is because if any of us were to suddenly turn up in a world as it should be, where love is normal and our entire identity is welcome and accepted , it is…
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🌟The confidence to think for ourselves can be re-ignited!🌟
That spark we wish to ignite is our own identity. We have each become forced to give up on it in our early years, to be obedient. We all start out as a dynamo of energy, learning to talk and walk, and without interference we would have continued on that way. Mankind is causing itself…
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💮I want to be confident? Am I a failure?💮
To feel that we might be a failure suggests that we are not meeting some goals we have set. At the same time, it seems that we have doubts. As infants we all lived from our identities. There was no pass or fail. We just kept expanding the limits of what we could do. We…
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🌞Freedom’s Advantage, Lives Or Dies In The Cradle!🌞
Free people have an advantage. They can go crazy on you! Unburdened by that heavy cloak of repression, and intimately connected with the spontaneous and unrestricted resources of their identity, they can explode with unrestrained fury, in imaginative, and unexpected ways. First though, they have to really be free. Which doesn’t exist these days. We…
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💑Do we all need self-improvement?💑
The sad truth is our accepted ways of raising infants and children causes damage. We unintentionally cause them to disconnect from their own identity, in an effort to reduce the hurt that they are feeling. All these children eventually enter the adult world in a quest to self-improve. What that really amounts to, is they…
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🚸What are some simple and effective ways to become less anxious and more self-accepting?🚸
Sorry, the easy ones don’t work. All the simple ways just move problems around, trading one for another. That’s because what happened to us is far from simple. We started out anxiety free, and so completely self-accepting, that we never would have thought to question it. Then it happened! It’s all about identity. All life…
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🟢Did the West put the individual first?🟢
We tried! But —— We didn’t know how to do that properly, or completely! Therefore, the results we got, are a pale shadow of what should have happened. Life has identity. All life. It runs the show. It is fixed and cannot be tweaked to suit others. It provides instincts and wisdom. It helps with…
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💧Is it normal to feel like you lost something important?💧
Yes it is! Believe it, or not, it’s our own identity. Mankind, over many years has drifted away from nature’s ways. Mother Nature supports all life in it’s own efforts. Natural identity includes instincts, feelings, and countless ways to be immersed in, and connected with our environment. Every human is born with all of that!…
