Tag: Parenting
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How do we destroy someone else’s self-esteem?
That is the greatest, most wonderful question ever! We do it by causing them to doubt their own feelings, and then eventually their entire inner lives. We cause them to be hurt, then angry, and then to be ashamed of those feelings. We cause them to have to hide their real nature along with those…
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๐ฑIs it possible to live from our own hearts?๐ฑ
The energy of life comes from within! Let it. The result is lovely, compassionate people, well connected with their instincts and feelings! When self-drive isn’t allowed though, we try until exhausted, and then we crash! When any of us canโt control our own path, we fight back, give up, and that’s when we lose connection…
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๐คIt’s overcontrol of the children that causes the world’s conflict!๐ค
The energy of all life comes from within, and we have to let it do that! When we don’t, it loses its power! I doubt that many of us realize that the conflict throughout our world has one cause, is completely unnecessary, and can be easily fixed! When we overwhelm the identity and natural instincts…
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๐Do other people have needs?๐
A timely question, wouldn’t you say? Life today completely ignores this issue! Very few of us are capable of real relationships anymore! Sure we think we’re great at it! We do everything the books tell us to do! We give others everything we think they should get! Unfortunately, it doesn’t work that way, and it…
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๐Our behavior makes sure we can’t get what we need!๐
What do we need? Life comes from inside! We need to be ourselves, expressing our own inner world! We need to be respected and encouraged without censorship! We need to have a function within the group that we live with! Give us that, and we will never wish for more! Wisdom! These ambitions are not…
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๐ผThe astonishing power of new life!๐ผ
The energy for life comes from within! Support that, as nature does, and life flourishes. People too! Ignore that self-drive, obstruct its flow, and watch the trouble that begins! This is, by far, the single most important issue that humans need to be aware of! It sets both our civilization and our remaining strength in…
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Ever more, we relentlessly become more incapable of relationships!
Few appreciate that there is a root cause! Life comes from within! We aren’t letting that happen! This will not end well! Things are already pretty bad! There are consequences for ignoring the self drive of our infants. We are living these consequences. It can get far worse. The process of decaying relationships begins with…
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๐ซWhy do some people have high self- esteem?๐ซ
We all have high self-esteem to start out with! We also live directly from our inner world. Some of us, more than others, get forced to be what others tell us to be. Life is always meant to come from within though! Once we accept obedience, we will never again live from within, or have…
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๐ชWe get a little more isolated, with each new day!๐ช
Without our inner world, we have no soul! We are just intelligent robots!
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๐ฅAn entire planet full of trashed people!๐ฅ
An emotionally undamaged and healthy person is fun, cooperative, responsible, loving, compassionate, and astonishingly competent! Seen any of those lately? Not likely! They’re rare if any still exist at all! Instead, we hurt, live in anxiety, and live defensively, all of us trying to prove we’re OK! Many of us are so damaged we attack…