Tag: Self-esteem!
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💖The good that lies within people!💖
People are the most loving creatures on earth. We can’t do enough for each other, even at our own peril! That’s who we are! Every one of us! But, that’s not what we are seeing now, is it? Why? It’s our needs and instincts that cause us to be loving and responsible! How many of…
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🕯Why are some people confident, while others are insecure?🕯
It’s all about being lucky. We need the approval and support of others so much, we self-destruct without it. The energy of life comes from within. If we got respected and encouraged for everything that we really are, as all other life does, then we are a strong and loving person. This is true for…
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💡How To Be More Confident💡
We all begin life strong. In this unhealthy environment though, just about all of us have lost most of that power. Full support and encouragement is normal for new life. People though, have to get by on our own, without getting that approval. Can we become strong and confident again? Yes we can, and it’s…
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How do we destroy someone else’s self-esteem?
That is the greatest, most wonderful question ever! We do it by causing them to doubt their own feelings, and then eventually their entire inner lives. We cause them to be hurt, then angry, and then to be ashamed of those feelings. We cause them to have to hide their real nature along with those…
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💔Can we recover from being the victim of a narcissist?💔
Yes, of course, it’s possible. When this happens to us, the thing that has changed is our own expectations! It’s a trust thing! We have altered our perception. We have come to expect different treatment from others. We don’t trust them anymore. To find our way back to how we used to be, it will…
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What determines our ability to “live out loud”?
Surprisingly, it’s our own respect, or lack of it for other people! Change how we view others, and our whole life changes with it! Any hate we have causes damage. What damage? It suppresses our own ability to express ourselves. It’s the hater that gets shut down. Haters live in fear! If we go around…
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💎Our upbringing sets the value of how important we each feel!💎
It also determines how much self-doubt, anxiety, and internal stress we will live with, for all of our lives! It shouldn’t, but it does right now, and that’s what this blog is all about! The repercussions are staggering! All together, this situation sets the values of our civilization! This is the cause of war! It’s…
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🌤Trust is the greatest comfort the universe ever gave us!🌤
Without trust, our lives become fearful! Our behavior becomes defensive. We withdraw! Then we become suspicious of others. We begin presenting ourselves not as we are, but as we wish others to see us. This is a lifetime task, and a lifetime disappointment! It’s also the same as living in exile! In these times, we…
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🗽A Successful Life, Angel Dust, and a Critical Difference!🗽
Some of us can comfortably challenge the world! Some of us can barely get out of bed! What’s the difference? INNER POWER The full and unrestricted expression of our real selves! It’s not about being loud! It’s all about feeling powerful! We all feel powerful in the beginning! It’s nature’s survival gift! We are supposed…
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💖What if I want old fashioned love, with absolute trust?💖
For that, we have to step away from what the kids are saying! We also have to step away from what the media is telling us! After that, we have to step away from what most of the authorities are telling us as well! Our world has made assumptions as to how people and life…