Category: The misunderstood real needs of infants.
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🎗Do other people have needs?🎗
A timely question, wouldn’t you say? Life today completely ignores this issue! Very few of us are capable of real relationships anymore! Sure we think we’re great at it! We do everything the books tell us to do! We give others everything we think they should get! Unfortunately, it doesn’t work that way, and it…
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🌟🌟All life feels powerful! 🌟🌟
The hostility, conflict, and defiance, that we are used to, and consider normal is not normal at all. It’s only when we allow people to keep feeling strong, the way they start out, that they remain cooperative, and fun. When we let our kids keep the inner strength they were born with, we don’t get…
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🥰It’s So Easy To Bring Back Our Loving Ways!🥰
We do it to ourselves! We are causing our own chaos! What sets our social world? That gets locked in early, by how healthy and natural our infants get to feel! Really! Absolutely, precisely, and predictably! Traumatized infants will go on to create a traumatized civilization. Which is exactly what we are living in right…
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😋What would it take to make our world loving and trusting?😋
Surprisingly, all we have to do is to stop making it worse! People are not naturally the way we see them now. We have to work hard to get them that way! What do we have to do anyway, to stop believing the most troubled and hurting people the world has to offer? Left, to…
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💫Return Power To The People!💫
Do we want people to behave well? Then they need to keep the power they were born with! That’s all it takes! This sets behavior! The more helpless people feel, the worse they behave! That’s not hard to verify! When we feel helpless enough, it becomes impossible to change our behavior! Many will agree, having…
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🌤Trust is the greatest comfort the universe ever gave us!🌤
Without trust, our lives become fearful! Our behavior becomes defensive. We withdraw! Then we become suspicious of others. We begin presenting ourselves not as we are, but as we wish others to see us. This is a lifetime task, and a lifetime disappointment! It’s also the same as living in exile! In these times, we…
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How to get confidence back!
Our identity holds the wisdom of the ages. Our rules hold no wisdom at all.
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👮♂️Why does everybody seem to want to be boss of the world?👮♂️
None of this is ok, or even remotely normal!