Category: Conflict free life
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Life lives from within. Accept that, and the fighting ends!
It’s what we do with our children that sets the stage for a life of fighting, or a life of love and cooperation. The thrill and the power of life comes from inside ourselves. That’s as true for us and our children, as it is for all other life. If we are wise enough to…
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๐ฅบDo people have to be self-driven to have feelings?๐
Yes, and for many reasons. It’s our power. Without that, our feelings, instincts, and all around awareness have no meaning or even connection! If we are no longer self-driven, we still have feelings all right, we just can’t feel them! Natural power is nature’s way. Life is self-driven. The power comes from inside. Unfortunately, we…
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How can people have good self-esteem if we prevent them from being internally driven?
Every life gets the energy to go “all out” for survival. Nature supports that in every way possible. Our infants go “all out” too. We call that energy self-esteem! It’s really the drive to survive! It come from inside! What, do you suppose happens if we don’t allow that? Terrible things, and we’re living them…
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๐Infants, allowed to remain powerful, become happy and loving adults!๐
Life really is just that easy. Look at nature. There’s the evidence! Allow power, and lives are productive and happy. Create helplessness, and the fighting begins! Infants, stripped of their power become lethal adults! Unfortunately, we have to let go of our counterproductive ways if we are to all have safe and comfortable lives! But,…
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We can still get a little back, of how wonderful our lives should have been!
Appreciated, loved, respected, and encouraged! That’s how it should have been. Right from the start, and all the way through! Something went horribly wrong, for every person on the planet. It happened in infancy. Instead of getting the support that all life gets, we became disciplined and forced to be what others wanted. It was…
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With one change, the world’s trauma just goes away!
I know, that sounds ridiculous! It’s not so ridiculous though, if there really is one single cause! Well, it’s true, there actually is a single cause! What are the conditions that put you at your very best? What if all other life causes it’s offspring to feel powerful? What if you could cause your children…
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๐๐ปOur quality of life is on a downhill slide! Why?๐๐ป
We have forgotten how to nurture! We should be supporting every new life in its own efforts to flourish! “In it’s own efforts”! That’s not what we do any more! That’s one little thing. It has changed our civilization! It has destroyed trust! Generation after generation, we feel less “approved of” by others around us.…
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๐งOur loving ways are almost gone! Can anything be done?๐ง
There is a clear answer. Mankind has found it’s way into believing in control. That’s what’s wrong. That’s the one drive that has put us here! That’s the difference. That’s what’s changed. People used to respect each other. People could play. People liked each other! Control is anti-life. With control, we hide inside and defend…
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๐Before we have love, we have to co-exist smoothly with others. What do we have to do?๐
Sadly, all parties need insight or therapy before this can happen! Regrettably, we have to unlearn most of what we believe about relationships! We think wrong! It’s not our fault! Our natural awareness, insight, and ability to relate and empathize has been re-directed by the world we were born into. Our environment has caused us…
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โกOnly the lucky get to feel normal throughout life!โก
If in doubt, look to Mother Nature for natural wisdom!