Category: Quality of life
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🤸🏽♂️Life comes from within! Allowed to be themselves, people are awesome!🤸🏽♀️
But, we don’t allow people to be themselves! We don’t even know how to anymore! Why does this matter? The more we insist people be as we choose, the more we all suffer from anger, hostility, hate, and violence! The increased isolation and meanness in our world these days is easily visible. We imagine different…
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🎭Life lives its unique identity, or loses connection with it!🎭
We seem to have an epidemic of people choosing alternate ways to identify! I expect it’s no surprise that we all struggle to make peace with our identities these days! It almost seems like we are unsure about who we really are, does it not? What could be the reason for that? IDENTITIES Nature encourages…
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🌼Every infant is the seed of a unique person!🌼
It should be no surprise that when people are conceived, their identity is rigidly locked, just the way it is. Who we each are, is set in stone. We see that with all life. We cannot make a tulip from the seed of an oak tree! Personality and behavior both change, of course, as life…
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❓Who has the best solution?❓
Who should we be listening to? I’m going to tell you a secret! When we stop demanding what we want from people, the next thing that happens is they exhibit more of their natural wish to please us! We may not get everything we want, but we can easily live without conflict, and with trust.…
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🔔Love can only happen when we accept the world the way it really is!🔔
Our world is getting poor self-esteem, hate, gangs, and conflict. Many things can prevent the possibility of love. Choosing to see the world as we want to, rather than the way it really is, is only one of them. Bad things happen when we choose to see life as we want to, while ignoring reality.…
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🌟🌟All life feels powerful! 🌟🌟
The hostility, conflict, and defiance, that we are used to, and consider normal is not normal at all. It’s only when we allow people to keep feeling strong, the way they start out, that they remain cooperative, and fun. When we let our kids keep the inner strength they were born with, we don’t get…
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🥰It’s So Easy To Bring Back Our Loving Ways!🥰
We do it to ourselves! We are causing our own chaos! What sets our social world? That gets locked in early, by how healthy and natural our infants get to feel! Really! Absolutely, precisely, and predictably! Traumatized infants will go on to create a traumatized civilization. Which is exactly what we are living in right…
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🎭Full expression, the gift of life!🎭
What is therapy? It’s coaxing out our most frightening experiences and feelings. We have hidden them! Even from ourselves! Why would we do that? Because our present beliefs have caused it. The end result is the fighting we all suffer from now! What should we do differently? Health, and feeling powerful are all about our…
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😥Our recommended parenting makes children feel helpless!😥
This is why we can’t live out loud any more. Our least honorable people no longer have any opposition! We have made everybody feel helpless! People who feel helpless become selfish, and they fight! Strong people don’t feel a need to fight. It’s only the desperate that cause world-wide trauma. Strong people remain connected with…