Category: To be Loved
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💕Our behavior makes sure we can’t get what we need!💕
What do we need? Life comes from inside! We need to be ourselves, expressing our own inner world! We need to be respected and encouraged without censorship! We need to have a function within the group that we live with! Give us that, and we will never wish for more! Wisdom! These ambitions are not…
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💖How to keep love!💖
We all crave trust and love with every cell of our bodies! Living without acceptance as our real selves is agony for humans! Unfortunately, most of us live at odds with those around us now. It’s our own behavior causing most of it. As infants, living from our inner world, we can feel our need…
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😥Why did life get so lonely?😥
This might be hard to believe at first. It’s the way we treat our kids that is causing our almost worldwide conflict, and then our widespread loneliness. If our approach were to match their needs, then resentment wouldn’t happen! Defiance and hostility would never develop. All life has basic needs, and this includes our children.…
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💕Love and community are still possible, but a few things need to go!💕
Humans are a loving, compassionate, sharing, fun, and trusting race! Doesn’t sound like anybody we know does it? It’s true though, we are a loving race. As a group, we have accepted some assumptions about life that came from the past. Some of these are making the natural trust between people impossible. Unexpectedly, they cause…
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🤍Our world doesn’t have to be a sick place!🤍
What do we have to do? We simply allow people to be themselves! Seriously, that’s all that’s wrong. It seems to be going unnoticed that people’s right to be themselves has become progressively more under attack! The consequences though are becoming serious enough to bury us! Respect has bottomed out! Shared feelings are rare. Even…
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🟩How important is other people’s opinion of us?🟩
Can we be immune to other people’s opinion? In our best possible condition, are we more, or are we less dependent on the approval of others? Wouldn’t we expect self-sufficiency to be nature’s preferred condition? It’s not though. That’s not who people are! We all need the acceptance of others. We crave it with every…
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⚛Only free people can be creative⚛
Creativity requires imagination. That requires connection with our instincts, our inner life, and the world around us. In other words, our identity. Spectacular imagination requires good connection with our identity. Many people have little or no connection with their identity. They weren’t allowed to keep it! The reason? Freedom means the opportunity to live as…
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🎱 We tried to make life safe. Now it’s boring, frightening, and far more dangerous than it was before! 🎱
Each of us started life with an intact, dynamic, explosive, but loving identity. Others put chains on us. It allowed them to feel safer! Now, we are no longer “one” with our identity. That’s why all the trauma and secrets! That disconnection on a world wide scale is also why we cannot make any progress…