Category: To Feel Loved!
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๐๐จโ๐ฉโ๐งโ๐ฆRelationships can really be everything we ever wanted!
The people around us have, by far, the biggest influence on how good we are going to feel, as we go through life. Our existence these days amounts to feeling endlessly criticized while fighting to rise above the hurt that we live with. The alternative is we fall into line, do everything as we are…
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๐คฌWhy do people get arrogant?๐คฌ
First, let’s look at life for people these days. We all want the power we were born with. All life does. Itโs a natural right. Humans look at an infant and assume it needs taken care of. Thatโs the last thing it wants. That’s the last thing any life wants. It wants a safe place…
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How good our world can be, is limited by the power we allow our kids.
Look at the direction that all of our sciences are taking us. We know that our criminals were once troubled children. We know people become healthy adults unless they encounter some sort of trauma. We basically understand that people are lovely until damaged somehow. We know we can fix some trauma by encouraging the expression…
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๐The more powerful we allow our kids to be, the safer and more compassionate our world becomes!๐
And vice-versa!! This turns out to be the trigger point. The fulcrum. The ultimate “cause and effect” balance of good or else bad. Change how much of their own power infants are permitted to live with, and the condition of the whole world follows. Living our own power is nature’s way. It’s the normal way…
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๐จOur lack of nurturing is turning people destructive!๐จ
It starts in the cradle. Like it or not, all life has a need to be accepted and appreciated for exactly what it is! It’s a critical need, so powerful the words to describe it, don’t even exist. Bit by bit, we have gradually stopped allowing our children that natural right! The consequences are a…
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๐คOur world doesn’t have to be a sick place!๐ค
What do we have to do? We simply allow people to be themselves! Seriously, that’s all that’s wrong. It seems to be going unnoticed that people’s right to be themselves has become progressively more under attack! The consequences though are becoming serious enough to bury us! Respect has bottomed out! Shared feelings are rare. Even…
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๐๐ปOur quality of life is on a downhill slide! Why?๐๐ป
We have forgotten how to nurture! We should be supporting every new life in its own efforts to flourish! “In it’s own efforts”! That’s not what we do any more! That’s one little thing. It has changed our civilization! It has destroyed trust! Generation after generation, we feel less “approved of” by others around us.…
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๐ฑWant the natural world back? Would allowing others their own identity help?๐ฑ
This presents a radically different point of view. It’s worth considering though, as it presents an awesome promise. This thesis is a look at what changed to make people wary, defensive, and untrusting. In doing so, it also reveals the way back to a trusting world. Can people actually live in peace, with cooperation, trust…
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๐ฉHow important is other people’s opinion of us?๐ฉ
Can we be immune to other people’s opinion? In our best possible condition, are we more, or are we less dependent on the approval of others? Wouldn’t we expect self-sufficiency to be nature’s preferred condition? It’s not though. That’s not who people are! We all need the acceptance of others. We crave it with every…