Category: Trauma
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๐Hate poisons our hearts.๐Few ever find their way back!๐
Hate is gradually becoming an epidemic in most places! People are less respectful of each other. There is more concealed hostility. It has only one cause! Conflict and hate only happen when someone decides that another should not have equal power! In this world, it begins with the children. Apparently, we have decided they shouldn’t…
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We have made ourselves helpless!๐ข
Every life already has the inner drive and instincts to find its own way! Living is normally exciting, and we should be feeling powerful, enjoying companionship, and behaving well. That’s what people are really like! None of us though, are enjoying much in life during these times. Compared to how we felt in our earliest…
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๐ญLife lives its unique identity, or loses connection with it!๐ญ
We seem to have an epidemic of people choosing alternate ways to identify! I expect it’s no surprise that we all struggle to make peace with our identities these days! It almost seems like we are unsure about who we really are, does it not? What could be the reason for that? IDENTITIES Nature encourages…
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๐ผEvery infant is the seed of a unique person!๐ผ
It should be no surprise that when people are conceived, their identity is rigidly locked, just the way it is. Who we each are, is set in stone. We see that with all life. We cannot make a tulip from the seed of an oak tree! Personality and behavior both change, of course, as life…
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๐ฅฐIt’s So Easy To Bring Back Our Loving Ways!๐ฅฐ
We do it to ourselves! We are causing our own chaos! What sets our social world? That gets locked in early, by how healthy and natural our infants get to feel! Really! Absolutely, precisely, and predictably! Traumatized infants will go on to create a traumatized civilization. Which is exactly what we are living in right…
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๐ฅThe race to feel powerful!๐ฅ
This seems to be the next big thing! The winners get to feel as good as they did when they were infants! In the sixties we figured out people don’t have an evil side at all! It was only damage to people that was causing bad behavior! Now, we have discovered that feeling good makes…
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๐ฐAs we abandon trusting ways, anxiety is the consequence!๐ฐ
If we have anxiety, it’s because our trust of others is gone! The only way to fix this, is to regain that trust! We are all born with absolute trust, and full inner power. We need both. The default beliefs of this generation damage inner power, which in turn destroys trust! Civilization is in crisis,…
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๐When children lose their power, it’s gone for good!๐
Our present environment is not natural. In good condition, people are kind and loving, not warlike! People don’t normally have hate in them. We don’t normally feel helpless either, or feel so inadequate that we keep much of our lives secret. What has happened to the kind and loving environment that we know can happen?…
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๐ฉHow important is other people’s opinion of us?๐ฉ
Can we be immune to other people’s opinion? In our best possible condition, are we more, or are we less dependent on the approval of others? Wouldn’t we expect self-sufficiency to be nature’s preferred condition? It’s not though. That’s not who people are! We all need the acceptance of others. We crave it with every…
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๐Real people, in their free and natural condition are loving, kind, and playful!๐
Mankind hasn’t even tried freedom yet! When we do, we will get the expected result. A happy, fun-loving creature, who desperately needs the love and acceptance of others, and who will do absolutely anything for them. That’s a long way from what we see right now, isn’t it? It’s also utopia. Why the staggering difference?…