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👍🏻Do we need validation from others? 💥Is that self-esteem?
Like it or nor, we are all plugged into the human condition! We do indeed crave appreciation, validation, and approval. That’s what it is to be human. Trying to avoid that, is the doorway to loneliness! When life isn’t working, the problem is coming from others, usually far in the past. In this world it…
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💰Will designer children be happy and successful?💰
They will not! Every life on the planet is self driven, and unique! Every life is itself and needs support for being exactly that. It cannot be what we wish. If we force that anyway, it will try to resist. If we win, there will be less, or no self-esteem. The process of supporting the…
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🖤Do you want your real life back?🖤
It means unlearning many “comfort” beliefs that make us feel better, but aren’t true. Then reconnecting with our real self, our identity, our sense of purpose. It’s accepting that we are probably wrong about most of our social assumptions and ambitions! Being popular or wealthy doesn’t bring our feelings back, or the sense of who…
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🚧Does worry cause low self-confidence, or the other way around?🚧
What a question. It could go either way, couldn’t it? Either system could cause the other. My feeling is that they happen together, as disconnection from identity causes both. Probably low self-confidence happens first, causing worry. I can see a few reasons. I doubt we are ever going to see an infant worry. I am…
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Does complete freedom allow life to be the most cooperative, and fully alive? We haven’t actually tried it!
In all of nature, every living thing enjoys complete freedom of life! Except us! Mankind is stuck in ideology! None of us get to enjoy what nature has made possible! Even when others think they are allowing us freedom of choice, they still apply so much control, that none of us have any idea what…
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Kind and Gentle Living? Enter “Conflict Free” Life! Our Kids Need to Live, From Their Own Identity!
Want to escape from 95% (or more), of the depressing conflict, and problems we all suffer through? 💔 💔 It’s actually easy to fix. That’s because it’s us causing the conflict. We mistakenly cause the excessive levels of fear, and lack of trust, that everybody suffers from these days! All we have to do is…
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Why doesn’t democracy create people, happy to be free?
Our young don’t get to see freedom, as a natural condition! It’s never been part of their experience! They grow up, expecting to be told what to do! This isn’t about a few restrictions. This is about control over every action, every moment of their young life! This is unnatural. All other life is encouraged…
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🎭Everybody’s never ending struggle to be heard!🎭
It happens to all of us. Surprisingly, it begins in infancy. From day one, we struggle to be independent, accepted that way, and to be heard that way! What we really get though, is to have all of that ignored. Instead, we become forced to accept direction, and are expected to be obedient, under the…
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🌼🦋A Far, Far Better Life!🦋🌼
Most of us have accepted our life, and this world, just the way it is. 😰 Is this all we get? 😰 For those of us willing to settle, yes, that’s all there will ever be! 🤐 It’s not living though, it’s more like waiting to die! 🤐 🐾 There’s a whole “Lion King” world,…
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🐣Be yourself! The energy, and the power, lie within!🐣
Yes, we do have a choice! We can be what others wish all right, but we give up everything important in our lives, when we do it. Most people are unaware, that we cannot be what others wish. We can only ever be the one, and the only person, that was created at conception. That’s…