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🥰What makes us happy?🥰
“Living out loud” makes us happy! In today’s world though, we just don’t get to do that! Why? We are driven, working endlessly to make others behave as we think they should. When we do that, it prevents us from healing naturally from our own hurt. We use our hurt in a way that eases…
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💎Every one of us desperately craves approval, for our lifetime!🏆
The approval we need though, has to be acceptance of our real identity. What about approval we get for being what others want us to be? Doesn’t that help us? Nausea! That’s what that gives us! It puts us into nausea! That despair can and usually does get worse. It can get so bad we…
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🌱Want the natural world back? Would allowing others their own identity help?🌱
This presents a radically different point of view. It’s worth considering though, as it presents an awesome promise. This thesis is a look at what changed to make people wary, defensive, and untrusting. In doing so, it also reveals the way back to a trusting world. Can people actually live in peace, with cooperation, trust…
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💧Our loving ways are almost gone! Can anything be done?💧
There is a clear answer. Mankind has found it’s way into believing in control. That’s what’s wrong. That’s the one drive that has put us here! That’s the difference. That’s what’s changed. People used to respect each other. People could play. People liked each other! Control is anti-life. With control, we hide inside and defend…
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🟩How important is other people’s opinion of us?🟩
Can we be immune to other people’s opinion? In our best possible condition, are we more, or are we less dependent on the approval of others? Wouldn’t we expect self-sufficiency to be nature’s preferred condition? It’s not though. That’s not who people are! We all need the acceptance of others. We crave it with every…
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💑Real people, in their free and natural condition are loving, kind, and playful!💑
Mankind hasn’t even tried freedom yet! When we do, we will get the expected result. A happy, fun-loving creature, who desperately needs the love and acceptance of others, and who will do absolutely anything for them. That’s a long way from what we see right now, isn’t it? It’s also utopia. Why the staggering difference?…
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🔆Can we really be free?🔆
A world without chains! No rules for others! No rules for us! I doubt there is a person on the planet who can think about this, without a powerful reaction! Just imagine! Each of us began life this way though. All other life lives this way, always. People are the only life that cannot “live…
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⚛Only free people can be creative⚛
Creativity requires imagination. That requires connection with our instincts, our inner life, and the world around us. In other words, our identity. Spectacular imagination requires good connection with our identity. Many people have little or no connection with their identity. They weren’t allowed to keep it! The reason? Freedom means the opportunity to live as…
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🟢When we do build utopia, we are insanely vulnerable!🟢
The first “damaged” person that finds us, could bring us all right back to where we are now! That’s what has already happened to the many peaceful and gentle groups of people that did become discovered. Assuming we have worked our way back to a healthy society, where every person is fully connected to their…
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🖤Do you want your real life back?🖤
It means unlearning many “comfort” beliefs that make us feel better, but aren’t true. Then reconnecting with our real self, our identity, our sense of purpose. It’s accepting that we are probably wrong about most of our social assumptions and ambitions! Being popular or wealthy doesn’t bring our feelings back, or the sense of who…