Category: Loving families
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ππ»Our quality of life is on a downhill slide! Why?ππ»
We have forgotten how to nurture! We should be supporting every new life in its own efforts to flourish! “In it’s own efforts”! That’s not what we do any more! That’s one little thing. It has changed our civilization! It has destroyed trust! Generation after generation, we feel less “approved of” by others around us.…
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πThe easier it gets to look in the mirror, the more value our life has!π
Our world is populated with people who hurt. Being immersed in it brings out the worst in people! As we accept the moral compass of this environment, our lives feel increasingly pointless. Want to feel naturally important? Our own, original identity can do that for us. We have to dig deep, and really listen for…
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πEvery one of us desperately craves approval, for our lifetime!π
The approval we need though, has to be acceptance of our real identity. What about approval we get for being what others want us to be? Doesn’t that help us? Nausea! That’s what that gives us! It puts us into nausea! That despair can and usually does get worse. It can get so bad we…
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π±Want the natural world back? Would allowing others their own identity help?π±
This presents a radically different point of view. It’s worth considering though, as it presents an awesome promise. This thesis is a look at what changed to make people wary, defensive, and untrusting. In doing so, it also reveals the way back to a trusting world. Can people actually live in peace, with cooperation, trust…
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π§Our loving ways are almost gone! Can anything be done?π§
There is a clear answer. Mankind has found it’s way into believing in control. That’s what’s wrong. That’s the one drive that has put us here! That’s the difference. That’s what’s changed. People used to respect each other. People could play. People liked each other! Control is anti-life. With control, we hide inside and defend…
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π± We tried to make life safe. Now it’s boring, frightening, and far more dangerous than it was before! π±
Each of us started life with an intact, dynamic, explosive, but loving identity. Others put chains on us. It allowed them to feel safer! Now, we are no longer “one” with our identity. That’s why all the trauma and secrets! That disconnection on a world wide scale is also why we cannot make any progress…
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πβAs we choose identity, or else obedience, the world follows.βπ
The best relationship on the planet is between a mother, still connected with her instincts, and her baby. It’s about trust, it’s peaceful, and if left to mother’s instincts, and not the pressure of humanity, it’s cooperative and loving. I expect people will agree, it’s the best life we ever knew! Life lives from instincts,…
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π±π΄Life in the cradle, generates our world!π΄π±
If birds strapped their chicks into the nest, restricted their movements, and then refused to allow them to fly until the parents thought they were ready, then all bird life would be different. There would be consequences! Without their full and natural expression, the nestlings would be unable to feel their natural power. That alone,…
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πThe secret of life, living our identity!π
Attempting to navigate our way through life, without causing conflict with others, has become a nightmare. Can we live without conflict? We can try! First, we need to remove any habits we have fallen into, that cause conflict, coming from us! We need to find and remove any of our own behavior, where we put…
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π€ΈββοΈπ€ΈββοΈA strong identity fixes everything!π€ΈββοΈπ€ΈββοΈ
Every bit of conflict in our lives takes it’s toll. That’s what happened to our self-esteem! What’s the source of conflict? It’s not about fighting over things we want, as one might assume. It’s about the loss of identity. Conflict usually, if not always, happens when an identity is trying to be itself, and then…