Tag: Parenting
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🎭Life lives its unique identity, or loses connection with it!🎭
We seem to have an epidemic of people choosing alternate ways to identify! I expect it’s no surprise that we all struggle to make peace with our identities these days! It almost seems like we are unsure about who we really are, does it not? What could be the reason for that? IDENTITIES Nature encourages…
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🌼Every infant is the seed of a unique person!🌼
It should be no surprise that when people are conceived, their identity is rigidly locked, just the way it is. Who we each are, is set in stone. We see that with all life. We cannot make a tulip from the seed of an oak tree! Personality and behavior both change, of course, as life…
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❓Who has the best solution?❓
Who should we be listening to? I’m going to tell you a secret! When we stop demanding what we want from people, the next thing that happens is they exhibit more of their natural wish to please us! We may not get everything we want, but we can easily live without conflict, and with trust.…
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🏆What really makes us successful?🏆
Is there any point to winning if we don’t even feel good? Success is not what most of us assume! Once upon a time, we felt ready for anything! We were happy and strong. We liked everybody! This is success. Happiness and feeling strong is success. Feeling comfortable with others, and sharing our dreams is…
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🧨We need our fire back if we are to enjoy life and do great things!🧨
What’s life? It’s an explosion of energy, coming from within, all focused on satisfying our needs and wishes! Coming from within! In this condition, we feel great, and we can do anything. Self-esteem is unlimited, as it should be! We have energy and passion! What happens if we don’t let life come from within? This…
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🔔Love can only happen when we accept the world the way it really is!🔔
Our world is getting poor self-esteem, hate, gangs, and conflict. Many things can prevent the possibility of love. Choosing to see the world as we want to, rather than the way it really is, is only one of them. Bad things happen when we choose to see life as we want to, while ignoring reality.…
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🌟🌟All life feels powerful! 🌟🌟
The hostility, conflict, and defiance, that we are used to, and consider normal is not normal at all. It’s only when we allow people to keep feeling strong, the way they start out, that they remain cooperative, and fun. When we let our kids keep the inner strength they were born with, we don’t get…
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🥰It’s So Easy To Bring Back Our Loving Ways!🥰
We do it to ourselves! We are causing our own chaos! What sets our social world? That gets locked in early, by how healthy and natural our infants get to feel! Really! Absolutely, precisely, and predictably! Traumatized infants will go on to create a traumatized civilization. Which is exactly what we are living in right…
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😋What would it take to make our world loving and trusting?😋
Surprisingly, all we have to do is to stop making it worse! People are not naturally the way we see them now. We have to work hard to get them that way! What do we have to do anyway, to stop believing the most troubled and hurting people the world has to offer? Left, to…
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🎭Full expression, the gift of life!🎭
What is therapy? It’s coaxing out our most frightening experiences and feelings. We have hidden them! Even from ourselves! Why would we do that? Because our present beliefs have caused it. The end result is the fighting we all suffer from now! What should we do differently? Health, and feeling powerful are all about our…