Category: Feeling important!
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How good our world can be, is limited by the power we allow our kids.
Look at the direction that all of our sciences are taking us. We know that our criminals were once troubled children. We know people become healthy adults unless they encounter some sort of trauma. We basically understand that people are lovely until damaged somehow. We know we can fix some trauma by encouraging the expression…
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With one change, the world’s trauma just goes away!
I know, that sounds ridiculous! It’s not so ridiculous though, if there really is one single cause! Well, it’s true, there actually is a single cause! What are the conditions that put you at your very best? What if all other life causes it’s offspring to feel powerful? What if you could cause your children…
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💑The more powerful we allow our kids to be, the safer and more compassionate our world becomes!💑
And vice-versa!! This turns out to be the trigger point. The fulcrum. The ultimate “cause and effect” balance of good or else bad. Change how much of their own power infants are permitted to live with, and the condition of the whole world follows. Living our own power is nature’s way. It’s the normal way…
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⚔ Do we need honor to have self-esteem? ⚔
What exactly is honor anyway? It’s standing up for the right thing, as defined by our instincts, feelings and all around awareness. It’s respecting only truth, regardless of the the cost. It’s behaving in a manner we have nothing but respect for. It’s being fair, never taking advantage, just because we can. It’s treating others…
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🔨Our lack of nurturing is turning people destructive!🔨
It starts in the cradle. Like it or not, all life has a need to be accepted and appreciated for exactly what it is! It’s a critical need, so powerful the words to describe it, don’t even exist. Bit by bit, we have gradually stopped allowing our children that natural right! The consequences are a…
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💌Self-esteem and confidence, we can talk about it now!💌
Having confidence along with high self-esteem is the consequence of being lucky. We all have an identity. It uses instincts, feelings, all of our senses, and awareness of our inner condition and the world, to power and guide us in all of our efforts. As an infant and young child there is no such a…
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🥰Do we want to be our ideal self?🥰
There’s a far better self, which leads directly to the most happy and meaningful life possible! Our own real identity is the best self we could ever hope to get! Unfortunately, we don’t get to live our identity, not these days! It’s because our civilization has forgotten how to nurture. Not living our own identity…
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👍🏻Our quality of life is on a downhill slide! Why?👍🏻
We have forgotten how to nurture! We should be supporting every new life in its own efforts to flourish! “In it’s own efforts”! That’s not what we do any more! That’s one little thing. It has changed our civilization! It has destroyed trust! Generation after generation, we feel less “approved of” by others around us.…
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💗The easier it gets to look in the mirror, the more value our life has!💗
Our world is populated with people who hurt. Being immersed in it brings out the worst in people! As we accept the moral compass of this environment, our lives feel increasingly pointless. Want to feel naturally important? Our own, original identity can do that for us. We have to dig deep, and really listen for…
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💎Every one of us desperately craves approval, for our lifetime!🏆
The approval we need though, has to be acceptance of our real identity. What about approval we get for being what others want us to be? Doesn’t that help us? Nausea! That’s what that gives us! It puts us into nausea! That despair can and usually does get worse. It can get so bad we…