Category: Happy families
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๐ฅHow powerful should we allow our children to be?๐ฅ
Life has it’s ways. Every new life is provided with it’s own power. It’s for survival. We call it self-esteem. That’s what we see around us. Every life has it’s own power. Tons of it! We begin life with that inner strength. What happens when we allow our kids to keep it? On the other…
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๐ People only do bad things because they’ve been hurt!
If we never caused hurt in the first place, we wouldn’t ever have to endure bad behavior! Nature provides support for survival, just the way it should be done, with assistance instead of hurt! People though, provide despair instead. We read the situation wrong, and we unintentionally cause hurt. There is no need to cause…
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๐Support self-esteem, it’s our natural survival power!๐
It’s the strongest children that are the helpful, capable ones. For a sane and compassionate world, our children need to keep the inner power they were born with. It’s vital to them. It’s almost equally vital to us as well! This “balance” has been right in front of us throughout the entire existence of mankind.…
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๐ฅWe need our self-esteem. Support that, and love returns!๐ฅ
Nature provides the power for survival. It’s part of the package that life gets at conception. We call it self-esteem! When we don’t have that power, we feel helpless and we feel despair. Powerless, we live defensively and in fear, we attack others quicker than we trust them. When we do have good self-esteem, we…
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๐The more of their power we allow our young to keep, the better our civilization gets!๐
All life has it’s own power. It’s the drive to survive. We call it self-esteem! It comes from within! If we protect and encourage that power in our children, we get community. People with inner power still have their inborn sense of honor. They do the right thing because they want to. They enjoy and…
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๐นNow that we’re alone, can we get back?๐น
Finding the root cause for this gradual drift into isolation requires an absolute compulsion for truth, along with a lot of observation. What’s the cause? The support we give, or don’t give, for our young’s own power. Providing, or not providing that support, raises or reduces the self-esteem, and consequently the conflict throughout our entire…
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With one change, the world’s trauma just goes away!
I know, that sounds ridiculous! It’s not so ridiculous though, if there really is one single cause! Well, it’s true, there actually is a single cause! What are the conditions that put you at your very best? What if all other life causes it’s offspring to feel powerful? What if you could cause your children…
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๐จThe world’s trauma has one cause, we stopped nurturing!๐จ
We probably believe we still nurturing our infants, don’t we? Well, let’s see! To nurture is to oversee development. But, we don’t just oversee development anymore. We stop it cold, and we redirect all behavior, and most of the thinking! We decide what is good for our children. With nothing but good intentions, we direct…
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๐Every one of us desperately craves approval, for our lifetime!๐
The approval we need though, has to be acceptance of our real identity. What about approval we get for being what others want us to be? Doesn’t that help us? Nausea! That’s what that gives us! It puts us into nausea! That despair can and usually does get worse. It can get so bad we…
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๐งOur loving ways are almost gone! Can anything be done?๐ง
There is a clear answer. Mankind has found it’s way into believing in control. That’s what’s wrong. That’s the one drive that has put us here! That’s the difference. That’s what’s changed. People used to respect each other. People could play. People liked each other! Control is anti-life. With control, we hide inside and defend…