Category: Self-esteem
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How can people have good self-esteem if we prevent them from being internally driven?
Every life gets the energy to go “all out” for survival. Nature supports that in every way possible. Our infants go “all out” too. We call that energy self-esteem! It’s really the drive to survive! It come from inside! What, do you suppose happens if we don’t allow that? Terrible things, and we’re living them…
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💖Infants, allowed to remain powerful, become happy and loving adults!💖
Life really is just that easy. Look at nature. There’s the evidence! Allow power, and lives are productive and happy. Create helplessness, and the fighting begins! Infants, stripped of their power become lethal adults! Unfortunately, we have to let go of our counterproductive ways if we are to all have safe and comfortable lives! But,…
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Do you want your confidence back?
All life is created to compete with our environment for survival. All life begins that journey with an “all out” effort. People too! All other life gets full encouragement and support in their efforts. People have fallen astray. We have forgotten that it’s a need. We stop our kids. We shut down their power. This…
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How good our world can be, is limited by the power we allow our kids.
Look at the direction that all of our sciences are taking us. We know that our criminals were once troubled children. We know people become healthy adults unless they encounter some sort of trauma. We basically understand that people are lovely until damaged somehow. We know we can fix some trauma by encouraging the expression…
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With one change, the world’s trauma just goes away!
I know, that sounds ridiculous! It’s not so ridiculous though, if there really is one single cause! Well, it’s true, there actually is a single cause! What are the conditions that put you at your very best? What if all other life causes it’s offspring to feel powerful? What if you could cause your children…
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🔨The world’s trauma has one cause, we stopped nurturing!🔨
We probably believe we still nurturing our infants, don’t we? Well, let’s see! To nurture is to oversee development. But, we don’t just oversee development anymore. We stop it cold, and we redirect all behavior, and most of the thinking! We decide what is good for our children. With nothing but good intentions, we direct…
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♻Why Don’t We Have High Self Esteem Now?♻
I am going to suggest a slightly different picture of this situation. All life begins with “full-out” self-esteem. With normal nurturing, life keeps it! People have become a special case. We don’t nurture anymore. We ignore our infant’s drive to cope with life. We no longer encourage that. We prefer obedience and believe it’s a…