Category: Happiness
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We have made ourselves helpless!😢
Every life already has the inner drive and instincts to find its own way! Living is normally exciting, and we should be feeling powerful, enjoying companionship, and behaving well. That’s what people are really like! None of us though, are enjoying much in life during these times. Compared to how we felt in our earliest…
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🏁Self-esteem is critical! Children should never, ever feel helpless!🏁
Children need their own inner power, just like all other life. With full self-esteem they will be successful, limited only by what is possible for them. They will be successful in tune with their own needs and wishes, not successful by our standards! This is the best thing that could possibly happen for them! Surprisingly,…
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Life lives from within. Accept that, and the fighting ends!
It’s what we do with our children that sets the stage for a life of fighting, or a life of love and cooperation. The thrill and the power of life comes from inside ourselves. That’s as true for us and our children, as it is for all other life. If we are wise enough to…
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🩹What do we get, as we relearn how to nurture our children, in the natural way?🩹
Natural ways satisfy their real needs, instead of ours! We get infants who don’t scream! Children who don’t squabble! Children without psychosomatic illness! Children who openly love us, having absolutely no fear of what we might ask of them! Cooperative children that just want to help! Don’t believe me? I really don’t blame you. It…
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💌Self-esteem and confidence, we can talk about it now!💌
Having confidence along with high self-esteem is the consequence of being lucky. We all have an identity. It uses instincts, feelings, all of our senses, and awareness of our inner condition and the world, to power and guide us in all of our efforts. As an infant and young child there is no such a…
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💎Every one of us desperately craves approval, for our lifetime!🏆
The approval we need though, has to be acceptance of our real identity. What about approval we get for being what others want us to be? Doesn’t that help us? Nausea! That’s what that gives us! It puts us into nausea! That despair can and usually does get worse. It can get so bad we…
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🌱Want the natural world back? Would allowing others their own identity help?🌱
This presents a radically different point of view. It’s worth considering though, as it presents an awesome promise. This thesis is a look at what changed to make people wary, defensive, and untrusting. In doing so, it also reveals the way back to a trusting world. Can people actually live in peace, with cooperation, trust…
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💧Our loving ways are almost gone! Can anything be done?💧
There is a clear answer. Mankind has found it’s way into believing in control. That’s what’s wrong. That’s the one drive that has put us here! That’s the difference. That’s what’s changed. People used to respect each other. People could play. People liked each other! Control is anti-life. With control, we hide inside and defend…