Category: Needs
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🔨The world’s trauma has one cause, we stopped nurturing!🔨
We probably believe we still nurturing our infants, don’t we? Well, let’s see! To nurture is to oversee development. But, we don’t just oversee development anymore. We stop it cold, and we redirect all behavior, and most of the thinking! We decide what is good for our children. With nothing but good intentions, we direct…
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❌Nobody feels safe now! Our lives have gone all wrong!❌
We don’t nurture our young any more. We take over! The consequence is billions of people who hurt, and feel frightened. We live our lives hiding our wishes, and fighting with each other! Nobody feels safe! People have been made to feel helpless! Helpless people can be vicious and cruel. That’s the world we have…
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⚔ Do we need honor to have self-esteem? ⚔
What exactly is honor anyway? It’s standing up for the right thing, as defined by our instincts, feelings and all around awareness. It’s respecting only truth, regardless of the the cost. It’s behaving in a manner we have nothing but respect for. It’s being fair, never taking advantage, just because we can. It’s treating others…
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💑World Peace is Easy, Just Bring Nurture Back!!
All we did wrong was to stop our nurturing, and take over infant development! 😥 The consequences have been catastrophic! 😨 Proper nurture, as nature intended, brings peace and community! 👨👩👦👦 Troubled people, trauma, psychosomatic sickness, hate, defensiveness, conflict, and war are all results of not providing nurture! 🤬 We no longer nurture our young!…
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🩹What do we get, as we relearn how to nurture our children, in the natural way?🩹
Natural ways satisfy their real needs, instead of ours! We get infants who don’t scream! Children who don’t squabble! Children without psychosomatic illness! Children who openly love us, having absolutely no fear of what we might ask of them! Cooperative children that just want to help! Don’t believe me? I really don’t blame you. It…
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👍🏻Do we need validation from others? 💥Is that self-esteem?
Like it or nor, we are all plugged into the human condition! We do indeed crave appreciation, validation, and approval. That’s what it is to be human. Trying to avoid that, is the doorway to loneliness! When life isn’t working, the problem is coming from others, usually far in the past. In this world it…
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♻Why Don’t We Have High Self Esteem Now?♻
I am going to suggest a slightly different picture of this situation. All life begins with “full-out” self-esteem. With normal nurturing, life keeps it! People have become a special case. We don’t nurture anymore. We ignore our infant’s drive to cope with life. We no longer encourage that. We prefer obedience and believe it’s a…